chewing on furniture, etc.

“marriage is a legal document that protects you, you’ve gotta decouple it in your brain from romance and amatonormativity” the fact that marriage is a legal document that protects and privileges you (that, might I add, generally isn’t valid without romance+sex) is LITERALLY amatonormativity. A legal status that privileges people in monogamous long-term romantic-sexual relationships IS AMATONORMATIVITY. That is *what it was coined to talk about.*

The book in which the term amatonormativity was coined is literally called "minimising marriage". How are people saying marriage isn't amatonormative? It's literally why the term exists!

fandom will talk about a man being every flavor of closeted queer before they talk about his canon misogyny

genuinely cognitively stunning watching fandom spend ten thousand hours discussing internalised homophobia without even ONCE considering the misogyny. girl..... how

we NEED to reintroduce "cis" to the regular tumblr lexicon. which men get to play in the world cup? which men are used in medicine trials? the world is designed for which men, exactly?

*guy who doesn't know anything about sports and has never cared about sports in his life* hey did you know womens professional baseball is returning after 70 years and the games are going to be streamed for free on youtube and the season starts august 1st

Love the asexual tranny too, btw

not every social interaction has to be rooted in sexuality and the second a lot of girls start denying their body to others they lose a lot of opportunities for connection and I think a lot of us pretend it just doesn't happen like that

sometimes its like. i would love to not have to think about gender and misogyny all the time but on account of us living on the Gender and Misogyny Planet i cant do that. so

I’m sorry Orpheus i was too harsh on you…

I'd be down with more "modern witches" if they were less all about indigenous cultural appropriation and more about bubbling cauldrons and cackling into the night

"I want to reconnect with my precolonial european pagan roots" then stop selling dreamcatchers on etsy, you should be eating turnips and yodeling.

i cant believe i have to say this, but if you're perisex, you CANT reclaim baeddel and hermaphrodite. those are intersexist slurs. yes this includes perisex trans women — dont fucking say them. they're not for you. oh my fucking god. i wish perisex people would shut up for once

Swear to god the whole baeddel thing pisses me off so bad; trans women that call themselves that always seem to have the most rancid takes.

Guy who came back wrong but everyone unanimously agrees that the new guy is better in every conceivable way

transition

This site’s new wave of transmedicalism isn’t less harmful or serious than the last, it’s now evolved from “trans people who dont have dysphoria are fakers” to “trans people who aren’t binary or perisex are fakers” and both try to scrutinise and police trans peoples experiences on a medical and social axis. A “you must suffer this much to be trans” the sequel, featuring lenin for some reason.

ooh thank god

kind of fascinating how a lot of people don’t really know how food works

saw a twitter video of a dude making like fried broccoli with bacon or whatever and everyone in the replies was going “can’t believe he took something healthy and turned it into poison!!!!” i don’t really know how to explain to you that you’re still eating broccoli, and the healthy nutrients do not magically leave the broccoli just because you fried it

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