demigirl positivity

My bio family are abusers. My partner's family are the only people (outside of him) who've ever been truly and unselfishly kind to me. They're conservative Christians, and they accept my more liberal views, but I'm terrified that physical transition would be too far for them. Having them in my life is more important to me.

My partner tends toward the more conservative side as well. He knows I'm not "technically" a traditional female, and is accepting of that, but is very firmly straight and if I try to say I'm not really a girl at all outside of presentation for societal ease, he will not be so receptive.

I am terrified of surgery and the recovery process that comes with it.

I have chronic illness including asthma and problems with my body being weak. Not only does this add to my fear of surgery, but it also makes me too afraid to bind.

There are more reasons than this as well, but these are the main ones.

Aroace + demigirl + plants for the anon!!

Shout out to those with a partial gender!

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Hey y’all! Considering recent events, I’ve designed and released a new waterproof laminated vinyl sticker pack! Proceeds from these stickers will be going to Planned Parenthood of Greater Texas. This is something I’m very passionate about, as I truly believe all people deserve control over their body. Reproductive choice is a human right, and no one should be able to force that choice on other people. Just because someone has a uterus it does not mean that anyone gets to dictate what they do with it. Right now it’s more important than ever to take steps to support people who are having their reproductive rights stripped from them! You can find these stickers on my Etsy

Definition: a person who identifies as (at least partially) outside the gender binary and has a strong natural ambivalence about their gender identity or gender expression. They feel they have a gender(s), as well as a natural inclination or desire to express it, but it’s weak and/or somewhat indeterminate/indefinable, or they don’t feel it most of the time, or they’re just not that invested in it. They’re not entirely without a gender or gender expression, but they’re not entirely “with” it either, so to speak.

Conditions: (none)

Explanation: the state of being kinda close to agender but not quite (just greysexuality is kinda close to asexuality but not quite), having a nonbinary gender that falls in a hazy grey area and can be hard to define or pinpoint, being gender neutral-ish more because of ambivalence and lack of participation in gender rather than active participation in nonbinary gender expression, and/or feeling gender and an inclination to participate in gendered thinking/expression less than most seem to.

Pride flag:

Colour coding:

Gray: The two shades of grey, one lighter and one darker, represent the spectrum of experience this identity covers, since people identifying as graygender might feel gender to a lesser or greater degree than one another. Blue: The deep blue represents graygender as an identity and experience, which I’ve always thought of in terms of deep ocean water - it’s calm but it still has a subtle fluidity and variation, and because it’s darker deep below the surface it’s harder to determine what’s going on in it, but it’s still beautiful and full of interesting and mysterious things. White: And the white represents the purity and validity of graygender people and our experiences . Even if we feel gender less often or strongly than most, or don’t present it as much, etc., doesn’t make our gender lesser or invalid.

Pride scarf:

Pride banner: (none)

Pride button: (none)

Term coinage credit: invernom

Explanation credit: invernom

Pride flag credit: invernom and xmayome

Pride scarf credit: xmayome

Pride banner credit: (none)

Hey y'all, I've added new pride flag stickers! I decided to use my coffee and slushy designs since they're two of my most popular.

You can find them plus many more on my Etsy