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anybody else feel that being human is like being a long-time syndicated cartoon character watching the world get more complex while your own design stays the same until youre incongruous with the reality around you??
Do you ever see a complicated meme that expresses a very specific feeling, and while you wouldnât have said it that way, it instantly resonates with you?
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Before my longer vent gets off topic:
"your so-called biological sex does not define your gender" and "hormone replacement therapy and other means of medical transition meaningfully change many of the traits we put under the loose umbrella of biological sex" are statements that have to coexist.
I am stalwart in considering myself both transgender and transsexual.
You are my sibling and my community if you transgress the gender that society forced on you, no matter what you are or are not doing to your body about it.
Additionally, the same cisnormative society that put us in those boxes in the first place is trying to tell me that what I do to my body is both dangerous and superficial as a means to strip my bodily autonomy away, and I will not ceded that bodily autonomy or make my choices seem fake and less meaningful to appease cisgender sensibilities.
sorry but youre never going to get me to care about workplace theft
You laugh now, but they stole my workplace last year. I looked up from my desk and I was just standing in an empty field. Desk was gone too
so i just rb'd this but op is gonna block me no doubt and i want to discuss it properly
as i said in the rb, punching up is very different to punching down. calling for violence against a class that has relative privilege over oneself is not a genuine call for violence, it is a violent decry of anger that does not translate to real world harm. Men kill women regularly, and get away with it.
racialised people get killed by white people, regularly, and white people get away with it with regularity
so a racialised person saying "kill all white people" is not genocidal, a woman saying "kill all men" is not fascistic. but yes, the opposite is indeed true
trans women are killed by tme's regularly, and even on smaller scale people who are not transmisogynised have privilege over those who do, so a trans woman saying "bomb that kills all tmes" is understandable,
whereas you, someone who is not transfeminised, telling transfems to jump off of bridges is indeed fascistic
"kill all TMAs" is a popular mainstream sentiment
Sometimes being a trans woman is feeling like the bulk of the queer community has left you out in the cold
Intentionally
Fully nude and drenched head to toe in ice water
with three broken limbs and a pack of wolves following us
and vultures circling overhead
while you sit in front of the window drinking hot chocolate
and if we manage to survive because another trans woman found us, and we ask you kindly to leave the door unlocked next time, you call us hysterical bitches
and spread a rumor that we're all pedophiles
Anyway if anyone's wondering why I've been so bitter lately it's because because I have a fucking right to be.
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Sometimes being a trans woman is feeling like the bulk of the queer community has left you out in the cold
Intentionally
Fully nude and drenched head to toe in ice water
with three broken limbs and a pack of wolves following us
and vultures circling overhead
while you sit in front of the window drinking hot chocolate
and if we manage to survive because another trans woman found us, and we ask you kindly to leave the door unlocked next time, you call us hysterical bitches
and spread a rumor that we're all pedophiles
Anyway if anyone's wondering why I've been so bitter lately it's because because I have a fucking right to be.
every 5 minutes i go wow i NEED to kill myself and then i ignore it because i have things to do
this whole âsorry about your blog, just log offâ stuff is a very important reminder that the average tme person fundamentally believes that trans women are exaggerating or flat out lying about the difficulty of our daily lives
when a tme person hears something like âi am suicidal every dayâ they will translate that to âi am suicidal some days, but not oftenâ
if they hear âi am unemployedâ they will imagine you have a source of easy income outside of employment
if they hear âi am homelessâ they will imagine that you must have a place to stay even if itâs not your own
a lot of things these people say will make more sense when you remember that they largely believe that tma people are hysterical and our lives really arenât so bad if weâd just pull ourselves up by the boot straps
cis people are always so convinced you're transitioning to try to trick them and it's like. it really cannot be overstated just how much you are not a part of the equation whatsoever
probably should have seen it coming I guess but it's pretty fucking annoying everyone saw a conversation about "people don't understand how difficult it is clothes shopping as a trans woman" and proceeded to show just how much they don't understand it by assuming it's only about sizing and not the constant societal surveillance and inability to use the change rooms and fear of being kicked out of the story and unwillingness even for friends to recognise that there's barriers in your way and try and help you.
even people trying to commiserate with me complaining about the dumb responses assumed that it was just about sizing. and phrased it all like "you're so seen and valid". fucking christ.
wow it's almost like people don't understand how challenging it is clothes shopping even years into transition as a trans woman! who could have guessed??????
Not the strongest comparison here but
"It's incredibly difficult and challenging using public bathrooms as a transgender woman and it should be obvious why if you have paid attention to anything ever"
"Girl I feel you, welcome to womanhood. sometimes the seats are gross or someone's left something on the floor, we all experience this, you're so valid for this"
(meanwhile I'm lucky if I'm not immediately stopped upon entering)
with clothes it's like ok cool but you might notice that you are wearing womens clothes from the clothes store that you bought and were able to try on before buying and weren't called a pervert and/or pedophile over it. meanwhile I am not. so maybe this is not actually "something all women experience" or just about sizing yes?
hope this isn't derailing but i think that this is heavily shaped by this condescending attitude people have about trans women's womanhood. they treat us like little girls discovering every aspect of being a woman instead of understanding us as adults who can have fully formed and informed opinions and analysis about our lived experience.
folks assume we have everything to learn about being women, because the idea that they would have anything to learn from us about it or about being a trans woman is simply too ridiculous to even cross their mind.
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there's a massive, underreported subculture on this site that i can only describe as secular mormonism if mormons voted democrat
zero moral nuance
queer-inclusive but still misogynist
don't have to be from the US, do have to act like you are
ostensibly welcoming to everybody, mysteriously white as hell
terrified of the idea that sex could be enjoyable for anyone
absolutely incapable of structural critique, everything is individual moral choices
enforcement through public humiliation and isolation accountability :)
fear of infiltration by a corrupting outside influence - asserting a right to privacy or failing to publicly demonstrate moral in-group status is treated as a confession
the worst music you've ever heard in your life
shunning out the unwanted making a callout post + harassment campaign
so howcome we're never accusing "afab only" queer spaces of dividing the community?
we got signs all over the "queer community" that basically say "no trans women." that's not division?
a lot of you are more offended at being told trans women make less money than you than you are at naked discrimination against trans women in your own communities
oh and they do get very mad when we exclude them from our spaces. and by "spaces" I mean "the category we created to discuss being the type of woman who faces transmisogyny, such as--just pulling a random example here--being categorically excluded from 'afab only' spaces"
People are unfazed if you hate women but if you dislike dogs they assume you're a bad person
thatcher death day anniversary
worth noting btw, this video is not just an unrelated funny clip. limmy streamed this live on justin.tv the day she died (he was also not shirtless for any of the stream till he began this moving, heartfelt tribute)
PM warned of riots on streets if Vietnamese were given council housing, Downing Street papers reveal
To a racialized girl, the white man and white woman are like abusive parents. And the racialized man is like her brother, who also doesn't do any of the chores.
To a trans girl, the cis man and woman are like abusive parents. And the trans man is like her brother, who also doesn't do any of the chores.
What must be understood is that these oppressions, infact benefit the privleged. Obviously. Feminism MUST center women. It MUST be based on the goal of WOMENS rights. It can not be diluted into trivial BS about being "for everyone". Men will always actively benefit from misogyny so long as it exists, it is within their interests, a true ally will be an uncompromising gender traitor.
Likewise, any half descent white ally must be a full race traitor. There cannot be an anti-racism concerned with white feelings. Whiteness as a concept is the enemy. There's no way around it. There is zero room for compromise. The greatest failure of feminist and queer movements is the failure to center the racialized. Opting instead to be homonationalists and feminationalists.
A movement must have women, non-white women at the forefront. Transfeminized women at the forefront.
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you have to be in a certain specific mood to listen to classic rock because sometimes a guy is playing his guitar and you're just like shut the fuck up man
The boomers are kinda right about the whole "sometimes ya gotta stop bitching and just fix your own problems" but then they get all pissy when the way you do that is by transitioning
