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hi, i’m your local laid off discord employee, here to talk about exactly how safe it may or may not be to talk about Political Activism on discord. my credentials here are that i was a senior member of discord’s trust & safety team, which is the team that handles bans, legal investigations, and legal compliance. (my speciality was in child safety, anti-grooming, and taking down CSAM, but i also worked occasionally in low level terrorism issues and assisted that team in investigations.) i also know most of the people still working there in these capacities.
the tldr and most important thing to know is: i do not recommend you plan, discuss plans, or use any kind of hyperbolic (or not) language about violence to government officials or anyone in that vicinity on discord. please use signal instead.
a discord trust & safety employee is technically able to see any message you’ve sent under your account, going all the way back to the beginning of your account. unless you have manually deleted a message, it is viewable to a tns employee. now: it is a tremendous part of being on a tns team that we did NOT invade user privacy without cause. cause was usually: another user reported something you said, and we thought the reported message indicated you might be doing something elsewhere that was illegal (for example: a user says “i’m talking to this girl but she’s in high school lol.” i would then try to find evidence as to whether or not there was a child safety issue there. in this example, we’d require clear admission of age from both the user and the alleged high school girl, and then clear evidence of sexual talk between them, and go from there.) finding evidence required looking though all of that user’s messages.
most of the tns team, as i know them, are pretty resolute about not going further in looking than would be needed for action. most of the tns team that i still speak to is very much on the side of blue. your general conversations are probably perfectly safe, and we were very good at figuring out quickly if someone has reported you maliciously. i don’t believe you need to worry too much about your porn and fanfic and all that.
HOWEVER: reported content must be investigated, and discord can, and has been, legally subpoenaed to turn over user information. again, this has nominally been in Very Evil cases (CSAM and grooming, school shooting threats, murder admissions, etc.) but that could change, either at the federal level, or at the discord policy level. discord, like any social media company, could easily be pressured or forced into taking on different internal policies that could get you in serious trouble if you are organizing violent or “illegal” resistance. if that happens, there is a scenario where this incoming administration is given access to your messages.
again: please do not organize your political or social resistance on discord from now on. please use signal to ensure your maximum safety. do not panic if you have already talks about things on discord: you can easily delete your messages, and that WILL remove from an employee’s view. do that and use signal from now on.
stay safe. i love you. 💕
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This is what executive dysfunction looks like
Inside you there are two hamsters…
Sokka was always like "I'm starving!" And "Where's the MEAT??" and "Yay! Free food! Grab as much as you can, guys!" But...
They never starved, you know? Sokka went hunting or fishing whenever they stopped long enough-- and even if the catch wasn't as much as he wanted to, I don't recall them ever going hungry.
When they were low on money and supplies, Sokka got a job on a fishing boat (Storm Episode). Or asked for food and money, as thanks for saving the village (Hei Bei Forest/spirit-kidnapping episode). Or something similar, the make sure that even if supplies were low, the pot was never entirely empty.
That's a skill.
Contrast that with Zuko and Iroh. Their first attempt at fishing caught barely a mouthful. They went hungry often-- even AFTER they began to resort to begging and stealing. They couldn't forage because they didn't know how to tell the edible from the poisonous.
It's easy to view Sokka as just the funny guy: he cultivated that part of his image, even. It's EASY to say that elite fighters with Royal tutors and private schools, etc, are better educated or more skilled than some teen from the Southern Water Tribe.
But when push came to shove? When it came to personally ensuring that nobody goes hungry while they're on this epic cross-country quest?
Sokka had them beat.
And I think if Sokka ever couldn’t find or catch enough food for all of them, he would come back with what he had and say he already ate some of it.
“Ugh, you always think just because you’re the oldest you get to eat first,” Katara chides him. She rolls her eyes and grumbles under her breath about how boys are annoying and she wishes she had a sister.
Sokka just stretches casually and pats his stomach, hoping the rumbling will stay quiet enough that his sister can’t hear it.
Sokka’s constant insecurity with food and tendency to eat as much as he can at feasts etc. even though he’s perfectly capable of providing for the group indicates a past of food insecurity.
Remember in episode one, how desperate and invested he seemed out hunting with Katara? How uncertain it seemed that he’d catch anything, even though it’s made clear by the rest of the show he’s a competent provider? How angry he was when he blamed Katara’s “weird magic” for costing him the kill (he didn’t see the fish she’d caught with her bending)? The water tribe seem alright for food now (Katara’s just carrying around a fish to feed penguins later), but it’s likely that they were left hungry for awhile, during or after the Fire Nation attacks.

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common advice for social anxiety is to tell yourself "people aren't going to think less of you just because you said something a bit daft" but the thing is. sometimes they will. and you just have to learn to be cool with that and to treat it as a dnd random encounter rather than letting it ruin your whole day
recent example. lady at my careers appointment had a post-it with her name on it stuck to the monitor, so i introduced myself by saying "hello, i'm eliot! you must be [name], it's nice to meet you!" and she stared at me as if i was the stupidest person alive and said icily, "yeah, i'm [name]. congratulations, you can read."
in bygone times this would have reduced me to a sort of quivering blancmange. thankfully i am now in a place where i was able to pull back, calmly evaluate this interaction, and say to myself "this woman should probably not be working in a customer-facing job"
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The thing about radical kindness (or any kindness, for that matter) is that there are going to be times when someone or something makes you regret it. There are going to be times when you show someone empathy and grace that they don't "deserve". There are going to be times when someone takes that kindness and uses it against you. The world doesn't magically transform into a perfect place when you decide to choose kindness and people will take advantage of it. People will continue to be shitty.
But the thing is...that's not a flaw of kindness. That's not a you problem. That's a them problem. People who are happy with themselves and their lives don't go out of their way to misuse someone's kindness or grace. The "normal" response to kindness or empathy is not to find a way to exploit it. People who are happy with themselves don't look for ways to hurt people for no reason. Kindness will never be the problem. No matter what some shitty person decides to do with it. It should go without saying not to be a doormat, yes. Don't allow people to treat you badly just for the sake of being kind. But also don't let shitty people make you bitter because of how they treated you when you were kind.
Redrawing a sketch from last January. I love the dialogue between Murderbot and ART in Artificial Condition.

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do you want to hear about my favorite fish 🥺
of course you do!! it’s a dunkleosteus, it’s an ancient deepsea fish from the late devonian period, and it has an exoskeleton!! it’s about the size of a great white shark, and unfortunately it is extinct but it is so so amazing!! i’ll attach some pictures below :)
LOOK AT THAT THANG
anywayyy love ya! i watch your otter cam all the time how are they doing?? i love them so much ANYWAYS im rambling ily bye :3
Woah, that Dunkleosteus is mega-cool! We get why you love it—the armored head is pretty metal.
Our resident otters are doing well. We just welcomed two new otters—Willow and Suri—to the Sea Otters exhibit in April, and they are adjusting swimmingly! Make sure to say hi to them next time they pop up on the cam :)
honestly it does completely change how you approach fandom discourse to approach everything with a playing with toys mindset. your dolly pisses its pants? ok cool, mine comes with a knife and a hole to stab it thru with fake blood gushing out, this is fun. oh you're saying my friend can't play on the playground anymore bc of their skin color? stands up to my full 33 yo adult height. get off the swings you're fucking banned. anyway. my friend come here and join me and dragonfan69 with our fantasy au. we're trying to decide what our dolls would name their horses.
take my ass to torture city where the grass is ouch and the girls are hit me
funny thing about anxiety is sometimes it kind of breaks your sense of danger. like i am known for repeatedly putting myself in situations that make my friends go "bro you couldve died. werent you scared?" and the answer is 👍 yjeah. i did it scared. i do everything scared. i didnt know that was the actual important kind of scary because i usually have to ignore my fears to function in society. it will happen again. watch out.
Two seemingly contradictory beliefs that we actually must strive to hold simultaneously:
You don't owe anyone anything
Meaning: you do not have to make yourself suffer for the convenience of others
We owe each other everything
Meaning: we could not survive without each other and everything we do to help another is crucial to ensuring our own continued survival
You don't need to be a doormat, but also don't get comfortable slamming the door when you have the resources to extend a hand instead.

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Lily Moth (Polytela gloriosae), family Noctuidae, Sri Lanka
photograph by Žilvinas Pūtys
[one single bloodcurdling agonized scream] ok time to lock in