It feels like you are negative towards transmascs a lot. It’s not cool to put negative generalizations on a group like that. No minority should be treated like that.
oh shit is it not all men? oh fuck?
i once lost access to my entire network of local trans friends because i was accused of "hating trans men". what spurned this was me complaining that i never saw any transgender women in advertising material for pride month. there were no trans men in the circle where this occured.
this is not the only time i have lost entire networks over my supposed hatred of trans men. these men don't even have to be in the room for me to be deemed an intolerable threat to them. at all times, i am expected to make space within myself for transmascs, to carve little holes in my feminism for these "AFAB when convenient" men. if i do not do so, if i instead dedicate my life to the care of my fellow transfems over all men, i am social jetsam. the number of people who have stayed in contact with me after these banishments happen is so few it doesn't even reach a half dozen.
it has been proven to me, countless times over, that concerning myself with the emotional wellbeing of transmascs is a tar pit, that it will only continue to pull me deeper in and continue to ask more and more of me until everything that i am is completely submerged beneath the monolith of transmasc comfort. it has been proven to me that when you approach me with supposed concerns over "negative generalisations", you are not coming with a request; you are pointing a loaded gun at my head and asking me to beg for my continued existence. on behalf of me and every one of my fellow transfems who has been put through this shit time and time again, go fuck yourself.
