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I think, If we’re talking in a realist perspective, what they say “the world will not treat you better just because you’re a good person” could be the truth, and in a way it is a truth that is hard to swallow. Because admit it or not, a lot of us have seen and experienced so much things we don’t deserve despite being and doing good. Based on my experience and the people who are the closest to me that have such beautiful souls, no matter how good you are, if the people you’re surrounded with are not the right people for you, are toxic and abuse that goodness you share with them, the world will eventually not be a better place for you. So, at the end of the day, it all boils down to cutting off those types of people and knowing whom to share your light with. And no, this is not to tell you to outgrow your softness in this harsh world. I know how hard it is to do that, even I still struggle with how “soft” I am. But may this be a reminder that it’s ok to get out of that stereotypical “good person” that they identified you with. Sometimes, saying NO is good, turning someone’s favor down is good, refusing is good, thinking of yourself first is good. Remember that PLEASING OTHER PEOPLE and BYPASSING YOURSELF ≠ BEING/DOING GOOD. May we learn/start learning/maintain how to set HEALTHY BOUNDARIES and protect our peace, so we can BE and DO GOOD without neglecting anyone, especially ourselves.

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I just feel this song deep in my bones and heart and brain and every organ I have lol

𝐀𝐧 𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟:  𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘺 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘵 23, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘢𝘳. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘢𝘥, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘥𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘷𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘰𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 "𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘥𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘴𝘦?" 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘰𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘹𝘪𝘦𝘵𝘺 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘶𝘱, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦, 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘳𝘺𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳. 𝘈𝘵 23, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘯'𝘵 𝘧𝘪𝘨𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘶𝘵, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵'𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 '𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘯𝘰 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘧𝘪𝘨𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘶𝘵 — 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘢 𝘩𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦. 𝘈𝘵 23, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘳𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘦𝘧𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘮𝘦𝘥 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘰𝘯 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘪𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶 — 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯.  𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘢𝘵 23 𝘪𝘴𝘯'𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘦𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘵 15𝘺𝘰. 𝘐𝘵'𝘴 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘤, 𝘶𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯, 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘵, 𝘴𝘵𝘶𝘤𝘬, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢 𝘸𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘵 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘥𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘭𝘺 𝘶𝘱 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘭𝘭. 𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘐'𝘷𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘭𝘦, 𝘪𝘵 𝘴𝘢𝘺𝘴 "𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘭𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨. 𝘐𝘵 𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘭𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘢𝘴 𝘪𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘢𝘴 𝘪𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦." 𝒀𝒐𝒖'𝒓𝒆 𝒍𝒐𝒔𝒕 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒓𝒆𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝒚𝒆𝒕 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒑𝒖𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐 𝒅𝒐 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒃𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓. 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆'𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒔𝒐 𝒎𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖'𝒓𝒆 𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒍𝒚 𝒐𝒇𝒇𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒆𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒍𝒅 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖'𝒓𝒆 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒇𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒊𝒕'𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒃𝒓𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒊𝒂𝒏𝒕✨ 𝑺𝒐 𝑰 𝒉𝒐𝒑𝒆 𝒘𝒆'𝒍𝒍 𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒌 𝒂𝒕 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒐 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 — 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒍𝒚𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒔𝒑𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒐𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒇𝒍𝒐𝒐𝒓, 𝒘𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒃𝒖𝒊𝒍𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒐𝒍𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒖𝒑 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒔𝒄𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒄𝒉. 𝑰𝒕'𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒊𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒊𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒓𝒂𝒗𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒅𝒐. 𝑻𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒕 23, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑰'𝒎 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒅 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖! 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆'𝒔 𝒂 𝒃𝒊𝒈𝒈𝒆𝒓, 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒊𝒆𝒓 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖'𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒓🥂

𝘐 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘴𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶. 𝘐 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘤𝘦 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐, 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘴𝘰 𝘸𝘦𝘭𝘭, 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮, 𝘶𝘯𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘮𝘦 — 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒂𝒅 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒕𝒉, 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒊𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒆 𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖'𝒓𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖'𝒓𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒆.

may this be a reminder that whatever we are going through at this point of time, and although there are so much uncertainties in our lives, God’s grace will lead us to where we are supposed to be headed; believe despite the unknown of our future, because in the unknown, God is the only one that’s certain.