NerdyNagol

i love you platonic dynamics that are acknowledged as more central to someone’s life than a romantic one. i love you romantic relationships carefully negotiating to work alongside an existing platonic relationship rather than supplanting it in importance. i love you platonic and romantic bonds that are held at equal levels, and i love you romantic relationships that understand that the platonic relationship is going to come first. i love you destroying the mandated relationship hierarchy.

“Larper” being used like “poser” is so annoying bc actual LARPers are cool as hell. Get me some armour and a fake sword too

forever thinking of catra from the 2018 she-ra series. what if you were deeply in love with your best friend. what if you chose long ago to abandon your morals to stay by her side. what if, at the very first chance, she was faced with the same decision and chose her morals over you. what if your grief over that choice was so immense that it fueled five seasons of television and almost ended the world. what if, at the end of it all, the end of the very world she fought so hard to save, you asked her to stay and she finally, finally did

the other thing about Internet dogpiling is that it is just not possible to think clearly during the acute stages. it’s so easy to criticize people for responding defensively or tactlessly to mass criticism but I cannot overstate the degree to which your brain becomes a rat in a trap. I think we do have to temporarily recalibrate our expectations in these circumstances and accept that they do not necessarily represent how that person responds to criticism. the skills for self-regulating and reacting to normal interpersonal criticism are not the same skills needed to respond to viral callouts.

we need to bring back the phrase "what business is it of yours" in a big way i'm serious

i know you can just say "none of your business" but phrasing it as a question with a jarringly formal tone is the ideal way to shoot an overfamiliar unwelcome overture dead in its tracks and force the person making it to confront the boundaries they're taking for granted + it would really piss people off which is funny

&also it allows you to experience the joy of talking like an autistic vampire, which i highly recommend

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"shipping and blorbofication are not inherently at odds with understanding a story's deep themes" and "some people can't grasp the themes of a story because they never learned how to engage with stories outside of the lens of shipping and blorbofication" are two statements that can coexist

Ship dynamics are always like Sunshine and Sunshine protector~ Cinnamon roll and their grumpy one 🤗 Well what about 2 cunts. They're both cunts and that's the dynamic. cunt4cunt.

i believe it wise to hear out the wisdom of renalla

cats know keyboard shortcuts even microsoft doesnt know about

Sorry I started sobbing uncontrollably when you expressed the slightest concern for my lack of human connection, and casually mentioned you think I deserve better than a life of isolation and loneliness. Super weird. Not sure what was up with that lol. You still think I’m cool and mysterious and sexy, right?

If a boy and girl or a boy and boy or a girl and girl or an A and B are on an adventure together or in a room together or interact with each other or literally standing next to each other or not even in the same universe as each other IT DOESNT MEAN THEY HAVE TO be in romantically love. There are other forms of love than sexual and romantic. Your soulmate doesn’t have to be one you need to have sex with or even be in a relationship with. And if the A and B in question, fictional or not, say that they don’t want to be shipped together, STOP FORCING IT ON THEM. Your HEADcanon is in YOUR HEAD.

(voice of a person spiralling) its embarrassing but i still havent figured out if its ok for me to be alive