staying on the Tumblr ship til it sinks

Anyway adults saying “I don’t know isn’t an answer” is part of the reason I learned to lie and bluff so well.

Really though, what was that about? I don’t know is a valid answer. It communicates very clearly that the child cannot answer your question, and therefore maybe needs more help understanding the question/situation. Why do you try and push them to give an answer they don’t have? That stresses them out and it makes them feel like they’re being punished for not knowing something.

i thought i was the only one with an “i don’t know” problem because my parents made it seem it was the strangest and also most horrible thing in the world. i genuinely didn’t know and they got angry and that only blocked my thoughts more which meant i didn’t know the answer to anything else.

THIS ^^^

Also “I don’t know” is a commonly used sentence for children with ADHD/Autism. We DON’T know why we can’t do our homework. We DON’T know why we can’t eat certain foods sometimes. We DON’T know why we forgot to do a chore. It’s really distressing when you genuinely don’t know and people think you’re just lying or indifferent

The assumption that child, especially disabled children, are either lying or lazy has done an unfathomable amount of damage to society. Of course, as we treat all marginalized groups like children who need to be taught better, and as marginalization is disabling, this has implications beyond childhood.

i like the term "gallows humor" because it always makes me think of someone getting sentenced to death and being like "i have GOT to be the funniest person at my public execution"

Always reblog St. Lawrence's execution!

need to go home and stare at some jpgs of that guy

[trying not to vaguepost] sometimes a post on my dashboard says something i dont agree with

Angron is Angron because he angry

Rowboat Girlyman is named that so you'll hate him for being French.

He is in fact French, but also intensely Roman.

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the issue with growing up in the 2000s and 2010s was like there was this really big push toward "accepting your weirdness" overall but they meant like idk wearing mismatched socks or something not being tangibly beyond the norm in any way shape or form