writing tip #4139:
it doesn't matter what's written on the page, what matters is what's written in your heart. so stop asking me how many words i've written today that doesn't matter
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writing tip #4139:
it doesn't matter what's written on the page, what matters is what's written in your heart. so stop asking me how many words i've written today that doesn't matter

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I’m not Christian, I don’t go to church anymore, and my pastor died, but when he was alive I’d sometimes go to his sermons and I remember one time he said “it feels good to hate, but we know that it isn’t allowed, so when we’re told that we’re allowed to hate someone we get so excited that we forget we’re supposed to love”, and if my humble atheist ass might borrow some church talk I’d like to perhaps submit that
Anyway adults saying “I don’t know isn’t an answer” is part of the reason I learned to lie and bluff so well.
Really though, what was that about? I don’t know is a valid answer. It communicates very clearly that the child cannot answer your question, and therefore maybe needs more help understanding the question/situation. Why do you try and push them to give an answer they don’t have? That stresses them out and it makes them feel like they’re being punished for not knowing something.
i thought i was the only one with an “i don’t know” problem because my parents made it seem it was the strangest and also most horrible thing in the world. i genuinely didn’t know and they got angry and that only blocked my thoughts more which meant i didn’t know the answer to anything else.
THIS ^^^
Also “I don’t know” is a commonly used sentence for children with ADHD/Autism. We DON’T know why we can’t do our homework. We DON’T know why we can’t eat certain foods sometimes. We DON’T know why we forgot to do a chore. It’s really distressing when you genuinely don’t know and people think you’re just lying or indifferent
“I couldn’t be sure if I had moved forward or fallen behind, or if I was just circling over the same spot.”
— Haruki Murakami, Killing Commendatore
Anti-revenge narrative this, anti-revenge narrative that, I personally think that Inigo Montoya had the right idea when he stabbed Count Rugen in the gut and said "I want my father back, you son of a bitch"
A lot of revenge arcs end with the hero saying "there's nothing you can do to bring my loved one back, so me seeking revenge is pointless." The Princess Bride's revenge arc ends with Inigo Montoya saying "there's nothing you can do to bring my loved one back, so there's nothing that can save you."

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“Does love bring, even if unconsciously, the delusional arrogance of expecting never to be touched by grief?”
— Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Notes on Grief
a single magpie with purple hyacinths, both signifying sorrow
and a secret second magpie on the back to ensure you have some joy
'Look at all my stupid little figural bowls,' I say, in the warm, glowing tones of a woman showing off her firstborn child
BEHOLD

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the decrease in costuming quality over the last 20 years has been soooo precipitous & nauseating. i’m not even talking abt marvel’s cg supersuits or anything this time, look at the fabric quality, structure, layering, character, and craftsmanship of older costumes in 102 dalmations (2000) vs cruella (2021)
ever after (1998) vs cinderella (2021)
lord of the rings (2001-2003) vs the rings of power (2022)
this trend should upset you not just because it looks cheap, but because it suggests a strong anti-art and anti-labor movement in film and tv making. don’t forget costumers are unionized
I WORK IN COSTUMES AND CAN TALK ABOUT THIS MORE SPECIFICALLY
It's not just that we're unionized, though that absolutely plays into the financial aspect of it to a degree. There is 100% not just an anti-labor and anti-artistic sentiment, but also just an overall shift from these productions being treated as less like storytelling and performance, like they were in the past, and more like corporate investments and business endeavors. Everything is bottom line vs potential profits, marketability, and modern trends, or what will trend on tiktok, and you have to design to that constantly.
It's also that filmmaking has developed the expectation of making movies on such a short production time that there's no time to MAKE amazing beautiful pieces like this. A good gown may take weeks or months to complete and many rounds of fittings and mockups, and might be very heavy or restrictive to actors and limit how long they can shoot in a given costume. From my experience, things are decided on one day and have to be ready to shoot in a few weeks, and that's only if the writers aren't constantly having to make last second changes because the directors and producers change their visions constantly on a dime, down to the very last minute, and there's nothing we can do as the costume team except make it happen or make a REALLY good case for why we can't just find some cheap option fast that would work instead. So you might spend thousands on that beautiful dress only for them to completely cut the scene, change the context entirely in rewrites, or just decide they don't like the dress and want something else.
And because directors and producers get last say, and often they have Bad Taste and want things that are modern and marketable, and often will think things look great that are actually pretty unfitting for the character or make no sense for the design of the film, they insist on bad choices that then get pushed through to the end result of the film. Actors do this too sometimes, like what happened with Emma Watson and Belle's dress in the live action Beauty and the Beast remake, but usually only the big name actors have enough star power to swing full changes like that.
And of course, yes, there's not enough budget for high quality work. Costumers, like everyone else on film sets right now, are expected to stretch the budgets they're given to 'make it work' because so many have (in order to make the producers happy and keep their jobs). And in return, quality goes down, because in order to build a costume you need good fabric, embellishments, and labor. Good fabric costs a lot of money, embellishments cost a lot of money, hand fitting and skilled labor cost a lot of money, and costume budgets are being given none of that because the studios are incredibly strict and frugal with what they expect you to spend so they can make the most profit off of a given project, so cuts to quality end up being made somewhere in order to make up the difference and get the actors clothed.
I've rambled enough, but basically, yes, unions, but also there's a lot of deeper layers that go into why these things have been declining that are all interconnected and related to the general commodification of art and framing of art as content to consume rather than stories to tell that's happened in the past ten years or so.
and it results in VERY VERY GOOD costumers being hampered
Rings of Power? that was Kate Hawley. who also did Crimson Peak (2015) and produced costumes like this:
so it's not always a skill issue, to be sure
To continue with “it’s not always a skill issue”, Jenny Beavan designed the costumes both for Ever After and Cruella.
It just shows what a talented designer can do with time and resources (and no interfering from directors, producers or actors).
sometimes i be saying im gonna go to bed and then i dont go to bed. frequently in fact. this is because i have the heart of an optimist and the soul of a liar
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PSA
EVERYONE BE CAREFUL. ARCHIVE OF OUR OWN PHISHING SITE (first link)
(the link is purple bc i clicked on it to get the link w/o special characters to report to various phising page report places).
the page leads to what appears to be the normal archive page, w/ the popup about the privacy policy & everything, with the url https://xn--iao3-lw4b.ws/media DO NOT LOG IN. THEY ARE HERE TO STEAL YOUR LOGIN CREDENTIALS. LOOK AT URLS BEFORE ENTERING ANY PERSONAL INFO.
STAY SAFE ON THE INTERNET GUYS!!
please reblog to spread this warning!!
Look at URLS. When you search for something, before you click on an external link(•), always look at URLS.
(on mail apps either click on the downward arrow next to the sender's name and yours; on browser hover the sender's name with your mouse)
Quick explainer on what is going on here for anyone who may be curious:
When you open that link (don't generally open random unknown urls btw) you get greeted by this big ol' disclaimer banner:
A proxy site! What is a proxy site? It's essentially a third party "mirror", accessing the AO3 database. This, when used correctly, is actually a very smart anti-censorship measure - if AO3 gets blocked in a country, citizens of that country can still access the archive via a proxy site. Said proxies are also completely independant, mitigating any potential legal trouble that could arise if OTW/the archive attempted to circumvent these blocks themselves. It's even mentioned in their FAQ!
(excuse my shitty highlighting in windows' snipping tool lol)
Unfortunately with this result showing up at the top of a duckduckgo search (and similar reports with other proxy urls in the notes), suggesting either google bombing (manipulation of search engines to push a site higher in the results) or just flat out paying to get it pushed up there, in this instance this is almost definitely phishing. If I had to wager a guess it's probably for credential stuffing (trying stolen email/password combos on other, more lucrative sites in hopes you've reused that combo).
Regardless check your site urls as you go, especially seeing as this seems to be A Thing right now with AO3, and if you end up on one without the banner send it into their support. Proxies in general are a great feature, so it's a shame to see them abused like this tbh
I reported this to duckduckgo a couple weeks ago and they seem to have dropped it out of the search results.
For future reference, you can do this by clicking the triple dots next to a search result and selecting "share feedback about this site."
It'll lead you to the following screen:
Where you can select from whatever option seems relevant (I think in this case I picked 'misleading result').
It was removed pretty quickly.

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