Stop Looking At My Title

Fun how the bystander effect was coined to cover up how cops are bigoted cowards who let a queer person die and stockholm syndrome was coined to cover that the cops handled a hostage situation so badly the hostages trusted their captors more than the cops.

this sculpture is from 2011 by artist sara swink

cats have been bothering humans since at least 2011

and what if I told you guys that virtually everyone you ever meet will turn out to be really interesting if you give them a chance

some real miserable fucks in the notes I fear

I'm not even saying you have to talk to every single person you meet. and you're certainly not going to LIKE all of them. but every person does have a rich interior life and complex feelings and unique worldview. sorry.

this is truly one of the most tumblr posts i've ever seen. i know chronically online people exist in all corners of the internet but i feel like this is the only place where someone could say something as uncontroversial as "you will find out that people have personalities when you talk to them" and get responses like "oh so you're making the ABLEIST assertion that i should FORCE MYSELF to push past my SOCIAL ANXIETY to talk to BIGOTS????" amazing work, guys

Or you use a plastic/silicon spatula?? Or a silicon whisk?? go to literally any dollar store they have shitty plastic/silicon kitchen utensils you can scramble eggs with without scratching up your pans

I hate this site so much.

"Being kind is punk" you need to learn to do good things without it being tied to a social status or subculture

Having to view kindness as punk shows a much scarier part of our world. Being kind is outside of the social norm, you deviate and become “punk” when you act outside of what you’re supposed to do. We as a society have decided that kindness isn’t worth our time. So yeah, kindness is punk in our dystopian world, and we shouldn’t think “but that’s what you’re supposed to do”. If something is punk, most people aren’t doing it.

leftist man with stalin icon here to talk about why you shouldn’t read any work written by feminists before 2009 because their views are problematic and outdated