The Bewilderness

Trans people when they're losing: I just want to exist. That's all I'm asking for.🥺 Trans people when they're winning: I'm going to write a letter to the medical board to try get the lady who said the word "mother" instead of "birth-giver" at the health seminar fired. I also scrolled her twitter it appears she liked a JRK tweet two years ago, so definitely think we need to get this transphobe outta here.

Exhibit 1165

Thinking about that Ruth Bader Ginsburg quote that's like "When I'm sometimes asked when will there be enough [women on the Supreme Court] and I say, 'When there are nine,' people are shocked. But there'd been nine men, and nobody's ever raised a question about that." You can apply this to everything, from members of governments to the authors whose books you read. Men are centered almost everywhere and have been for years. Equality doesn't have to be 50% men and 50% women. It can be 100% women to balance the decades when it was 100% men. Choose women's liberation and choose only women.

A woman in her natural state of body (that is with no make-up, without shaving, etc) is not masculine.

why are men more concerned with women making smart and sexy misandry jokes online than the fact that male on male murder is making men the most killed demographic worldwide... like y'all are worried about the wrong misandrists 😬😬😬

Man who care about male victims of violence can and are welcome to join various groups and peoples working to stop this violence. Many of those groups and people are feminist.

White Male Egos are a public health crisis.

what an excellent kaiju

Very polite, attempts to leave trees and fences intact. 10/10, would be invaded by again.

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Men who slam doors and furniture are making sure you hear how much they want to hit you.

No. They are using a completely responsible and non-harmful outlet for their anger. This shows how much they don’t want to hit you. Some people even purchase actual punching bags to have a permanent outlet at home or join a material arts club. These are healthy coping mechanism often encouraged and approved by therapists. Also, needless to say it’s not exclusively men who do this.

I’m a few months from my liscense to practice therapy, and I already do in supervision. No, slamming doors and throwing around furniture is not a recommended technique by any well-trained up-do-date therapist. Doing this with someone else around is creating at atmosphere of intimidation. Literally I have been over every single one of these points for years, you can check my #door slam post tag. I’ve replied to all these points many, many times over.

That’s true, actually.

None of us said it wouldn’t? We are against BDSM for this exact reason? Our philosophy is internally consistent?

“According to Antony Beevor, revenge was not the only reason for the frequent rapes; but the Soviet troops’ feeling of entitlement to all types of spoils of war, including women, was an important factor as well. Beevor exemplifies this with his discovery that Soviet troops also raped Soviet and Polish girls and women that were liberated from Nazi concentration camps as well as those who were held for forced labour at farms and factories.”

This transwoman is the same one that tells parents to their kids should masterbate to reach orgasm because it could be likely they might not be able to reach it after vaginoplasty.

This man is also the one who says he knew exactly what was going to happen by destroying children's genitals, like Jazz's, and still did it anyway.