Like maybe I am bossy because I felt insecure about things being ok during childhood and the only way I could quiet that was by optimising the outcome for everyone. Maybe I am hyper-independent because I didnāt feel that I could rely on anyone. Maybe I do look down on people who canāt knuckle down and get through tough shit because I never had any choice but to do that. Maybe I am defensive and maybe I do feel a strong need to be āunderstoodā during conflict. Maybe that all stems from childhood.
But like, who cares? Nobody is perfect, I take the input of people I love on board, I donāt need to change who I am.















