Not that I think we'll find out any more about her through the Obrimus Manor break in (maybe if they'd gone through the family crypt rather than the vassal one, but I think the vassal crypt was the smarter choice), but I do continue to want to know more about Occtis' mom.
I still think it makes the most sense that she died when he was young and didn't have much impact on his life. He hasn't mentioned her yet, and based on how Occtis has talked about Thjazi and Thimble to others, I think he would have at least had an offhand comment about his mother being nice or kind to him if that had been the case. And there haven't been many opportunities for Primus or his other children to make any passing comments about Lady Tachonis, but I get the feeling from this absence of any mention that she was either cold and distant and died awhile ago or was meek and quiet (and died awhile ago).
The biggest question is still whether there has been one Lady Tachonis, or if some of Primus' children are from a second (or even third wife). The more we see of Primus, the more I'm convinced he would've taken as a wife a quiet, proper noble from one of his vassal houses who had strong sorcerous talent in her bloodline to pass on to his children. Whether a first or subsequent wife, I think that would be the type he would be looking for. She could take care of the social obligations as well, but once his eldest daughters were old enough they could take over those tasks, and even when they were younger Trimus was available to fill that role (I know we haven't heard much about her but I think that Trimus, maybe after seeing her brothers start having all those kids, went "no thank you" & decided to stay unmarried and childfree and has her own necromantic hobbies to pursue outside of her occasional House obligations).
Outside of having his children, I can't see Primus needing a wife to accomplish his goals. I'm not sure if eight was his target number or if he was considering more, but once he knew Occtis didn't have sorcerous abilities I don't think he wanted to risk having another child like him (because then that would be a pattern and not an outlier). So that brings me back to Lady Tachonis dying when Occtis was young and then not being replaced when no more children were needed.





















