🍃 Venus in 1st house people have THICK hair (I have Venus in 1st and 3 of my friends have it as well, and we all have really voluminous frizzy/curly hair, that's hard to manage)

🍃 Saturn in 3rd can mean that you'll start college later than your peers ( I have it and my student visa got rejected 3 times😭😭 and by the time I started college, all my friends were already in their third year)

🍃 Saturn in 3rd can also mean that you start dating later than your friends or it could mean that you just aren't THAT interested in casual relationships, you probably want something serious.

🍃 Mars in 1st, if in friendly signs, can mean having a really high sex drive, sexual attraction is very important for you in a relationship. (I have it, Mars in 1st in Aries, and it's true for me, I also have rahu there so I play a lot of sports to control this, like I really exhaust myself to the bone, meditating also helps. hypersexuality is not good, so just make sure that you don't go overboard)

🍃 Moon trine Saturn people are really respectful towards women. They were either raised by a single mother or their mother made the important decisions in the family. I have it but I also know a guy who has this and he's just the sweetest and even though his mom is a sahm and his dad earns, his mom is the more powerful one��, like his dad just earns and gives all the money to his mom. It's really cute.

🍃 Venus square midheaven people were often bullied for their appearance when young, from what I've noticed, and that's why they grow up to become people pleasers, because they don't want to be the "outcast" again. A lot of self esteem issues as well. You guys are the type to wake your partner up in the middle of the night and ask them "do you love me" and then they probably reply with "we've been married for 10 years"

🍃 Neptune square ascendant is that "HOW DO I REALLY LOOK" placement, they're the ones who get really frustrated because they look different in the mirror and camera. (I have this 🥲👍) It sucks, also you guys are obsessed with personality tests

🍃 Venus in 1st house people care a lot about a person's appearance in a relationship, it's not wrong but just make sure that it's not the ONLY thing that you focus on. I also think that it sort of stems from your own insecurity, like you guys think that you aren't attractive so being with a conventionally attractive person makes up for it, IN YOUR MIND, so work on increasing your self confidence

🍃 Moon opposite Venus people want to be affectionate but the fear of getting rejected stops them from doing so. ( I have this and sometimes I get this urge to just hug or kiss someone, like on the cheeks, friend, family, romantic partner, but then I assume that the person won't like it, so i give up. Here's the thing, ASK, this is what I started doing, now whenever I feel like that, i just go- can i kiss you on the cheek, if the person says yes, I do it, and back off if they say no) oppositions and squares are not bad aspects okay, you just need to learn how to deal with them, so yeah, ask people, don't be scared, they won't bite, some of them might, but don't hold yourself back because of them 😘🫂

🍃 Sun square Pluto women, are men scared of you?? (If yes, then, AS THEY FUCKING SHOULD). I have this and i think men find me intimidating (I'm the least intimidating person EVER), but also, I feel like, this makes you kind of unable to deal with men, you always wanna be in control, a lot of trust issues, you also think all men are shit (WHICH THEY ARE) but also you guys need to realise that some men are actually......kinda.....good🤢, almost threw up while writing this, ewwww, actually you know what, keep on having trust issues, BE IN CONTROL

When one partner repeatedly ghosts, breadcrumbs, is hot and cold, have one foot in and one foot out, out of fear of rejection, vulnerability, commitment or loss of freedom and autonomy, they are considered a runner. When the other partner pushes for communication, connection, and applies pressure to the runner, they are considered a chaser. Chasing can be energetic which includes, constantly mentally ruminating over the runner's actions, last conversation and interaction, imagining scenarios of reconciliation, checking for signs and synchronicities, checking their phone for missed calls or text messages. Constantly talking about the runner to family, and or friends, getting/watching tarot or synastry readings about the runners current actions or the future of the connection, constantly calling and texting even when you get no response or when response is sporadic. This is different from limerence where the connection is imaginary, because the runner and chaser may actually BE in a relationship with one another, regardless of popular opinion, if you have been involved physically, and have emotional attachment to one another even if it is not spoken, it is still considered a relationship, however serious or unserious one or both parties consider it to be. Physical and emotional attachment is still a energetic contract and still valid and the laws of relational karma still apply. Runners may start to chase once they sense the chaser energetically detaching which results in a push pull dynamic that can be neverending if Saturn is in hard aspect in the chart. Runners do not run in every connection they are in, which is why I am not going to apply this to the natal chart. I have post for non committal placements but right now I am focusing on the synastry because different connections bring out different energies in us based off of the aspects the chart. Certain aspects to our planets can invoke either the runner or chaser in us all. I have been on both sides of this. If you feel you are in a runner/chaser dynamic and you are the chaser, it is because your persons rejection may be triggering something within you that has to do with abandonment and trying to rewrite a past story that has happened that we do not want to happen again, but the emotions that it brings up for you is the what really needs to be worked through. If that is not the case they may be triggering how you truly feel about yourself, as you may tie your self worth to how you are treated, or seen by others. You may be chasing approval or have a need to feel chosen to feel valid. For most of us it is both of these things. If you are the runner, the connection to this person may make you feel exposed or vulnerable, the feelings they bring up within you may make you uncomfortable so you may pull away to regain the upper hand or a sense of control. You may have been abandoned yourself and or feel so deeply for the chaser that you fear their abandonment, so you do it first. You may feel unworthy of their love and devotion and it may bring up questions of how worthy you are of being loved. You may have secrets, or things that you are ashamed of or feel like the chaser may judge you for or may not approve of, or leave you for. You may feel like if you keep your distance, you can control the pace, outcome and intensity of the connection. The one thing that the chaser and runner have in common is that they both want: CONTROL. Runner/Chaser dynamics are intense especially if there are oppositions because the energy tends to flip, and the roles reverse where the Chaser becomes the Runner, these are the Breakup to Makeup dynamics. Below are a few of the aspects I have noticed studying countless charts, with this dynamic. Per usual look at the condition of you and your partners charts and their aspects separately before looking at the synastry.

Sun opposite/square Venus

Sun opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite

Venus conjunct/opposite/square Pluto

Venus conjunct/opposite/square Lilith

Venus opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite

Venus opposite/square Neptune Synastry/Composite

Mars opposite/square Neptune

Mars conjunct/opposite/square Pluto Synastry/Composite

Mars opposite/square Moon

Mars opposite/square Lilith

Mars opposite/square Uranus

Mars opposite/square Saturn

Pluto opposite/square Sun

Uranus 2nd/4th/7th House Synastry/Composite

Moon conjunct/opposite/square Uranus

Saturn 4th/7th/8th House Synastry/Composite

Pluto 7th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite

Neptune 7th/8th/12 House Synastry/Composite

North Node in the 4th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite

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What happens when the chaser stops chasing?

The majority of runners are not conscious of their behavior and the damage it causes to their person or the connection, they are just reacting and playing their part in the story the stars have written. If they were self aware they would see they are just running from themselves, their own feelings, their own shadow. Usually the chaser stops chasing when they have been triggered to heal what caused them to chase in the first place. That's when the energetic cord snaps and the runner no longer has the same control over the dynamic. The runner always runs back because the intent is never to stay away, it is to ground themselves and regain control. Once that is taken away, they are just left with themselves, the fear of what they ran from in the first place which is abandonment becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. But instead of leaning into what this is triggering and try to heal it, they begin to chase and the chaser who by then is awakened to the toxicity of the runners ways, runs from the connection, if the chaser takes the runner back, the runner will just run again, especially if they have not healed what caused them to run in the first place. They are not coming back because they have finally chosen the chaser or realized how much the chaser or the connection meant to them, they are coming back to feel in control again. If they can win back the chaser this validates that for them. Understand and overstand, it is chess not checkers. It is only a game if two people are playing. To no longer be the pawn you must remove yourself from the board, energetically, mentally, emotionally and physically. A dynamic where you have to wonder where you stand and makes you question your worth is not built to last or sustainable, what it is, is a lesson.

Stay Lifted,

Madison 🕊️✨

Breakups to Makeups Synastry

The Four Queens in The Tarot

Fatal Attraction in Synastry

Marriage Indicators in Synastry/Composite 💍

Telepathic Aspects in Synastry 🧠

North Node in the Composite

Non Committal/For the Streets Aspects in Natal

Sustainable Relationship Aspects

Unrequited Love in Natal & Synastry

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Sun-Pluto Aspects Natal: The Girl Who Would Grow Up To Rule The Underworld

Sun conjunct Pluto , Sun sextile Pluto , Sun square Pluto, Sun trine Pluto, Sun opposite Pluto

written by #astrolocherry

When the Sun and Pluto form an aspect, we are viewing an individual who is a galactic tunnel reaching from the beginning of solar illumination into the gates of darkness, the final departure of Pluto. In this eclipsing personality, radiance is a shadow dance. What feels to the individual like repeated or cyclic burnouts throughout life are the side effects of ceremonious ego deaths and rebirths. The light of the world fades, she feels herself disintegrate and explode in a showcase of solar flares across the whole heavens. She often becomes accustomed to death’s grip, and at times it is even a romanticised handholding with Hades. She can scare herself with what she may be capable of more than anyone or anything else does.

Emerging adulthood tends to be a difficult, though liberating period of life, full of vast and immense inner changes that prepare her for what lies ahead. Everyone who is born with the Sun and Pluto in aspect will express these qualities entirely uniquely and in accordance with the rest of the birth chart.

In the archetypal realm, she is the descendant of the Lord of The Underworld. For some individuals, this symbolic iteration could be figurative or literal. She may inherit genealogical sicknesses or psychological chaos, ancestral patterns, and unresolved generational wounds from the father, or such challenges that become a result of the experiences of growing up with the exposure, or the direct effects that these induced through him. Read the full text here:

👒People with Nessus (7066) and Dejanira (157) prominence evoke strong polarizing reactions from people i.e. The biggest boy group ‘BTS,’ have almost all of the members with prominent Nessus or Dejanira

RM: Nessus conjunct Jupiter, Dejanira conjunct Uranus

Suga: Dejanira conjunct Pluto

Jhope: Nessus conjunct Jupiter, Dejanira conjunct Uranus

Jimin: Nessus conjunct Mars/Pluto

V: Nessus conjunct Pluto

Jungkook: Dejanira conjunct Mars

Nessus and Dejanira are abuse and victimization asteroids so this means BTS are victims of strong hate. Their fans are also super overprotective because they see BTS as victims of mistreatment

👒There’s something striking about the hair of those with circe (34) conjunct personal planets, especially if it’s curly

👒Medusa (149) conjunct sun has an extremely piercing gaze, literally “I will turn you into stone”

👒Taurus venus are some of the most patient and attentive people i.e. they’re the people in a group setting who *truly* listens attentively and don’t interrupt until you’re done talking. Taurus moon in the venus persona chart as well

👒Sun square Pluto has such a smug “you haven’t figured me out yet huh” look and I kinda love it

👒Aries moon in the mars persona chart is so sexy, and scary when they’re mad

👒People with Moon-Venus hard aspects tend to feel dissatisfied a lot people what they want doesn’t align with what they feel i.e. they may be overspenders, or dissatisfied in relationships

Those with the aspects listed below might find themselves changing jobs a lot, as Pluto brings transformation/change— it’s like tower + death energy.

Second house deals with the way in which we make money and our personal finances/stability. In particular, those with malefics ruling the second might find themselves struggling moreso than those with benefics. Of course, this might not be true if the benefic is being maltreated by Pluto/Mars through an opposition/square.

This can lead to a lot of financial instability. You may even be labeled a job hopper. I would bet the majority have had to deal with their fair share of toxic workplaces/shitty managers that play favorites/the wrong side of nepotism/bullying-- my heart goes out to y'all. Please remember you are NOT what you do for a living and just because you haven't found traditional stability yet does not mean you are less than or inferior in any way. Think of all the wisdom gained and the ways in which your negative experiences caused you to develop stronger boundaries + intuition.

I actually think these folks would probably do quite well in a fairly chaotic environment like ER doctor, EMT, surgeon, professional fighter, etc. Notice I said chaotic and not stressful/dysfunctional-- there is a difference. Think very busy, something always going on.

JUST A THEORY but those with these aspects could struggle with ADHD/ASD/BPD/PTSD/bipolar or other mental illness/personality disorders/developmental disorders that cause them to struggle keeping a job or reaching + maintaining financial stability.

The following placements should only be considered if the aspect is within a 3 degree orb (except for the Moon):

Aries/Virgo Risings --> Venus oppposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 3 degrees

Taurus/Leo Risings —> Mercury opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 3 degrees

Gemini Risings —> Moon opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 14 degrees

Cancer Risings —> Sun opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 3 degrees

Libra/Pisces Risings —> Mars opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto within 3 degrees

Scorpio/Aquarius Risings —> Jupiter opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 3 degrees

Sagittarius/Capricorn Risings —> Saturn opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 3 degrees

2nd house Pluto/Mars may struggle as well with this

I feel like the conjunctions might not feel it as much or it might not be as negative as the oppositions/squares are.

Pluto square Sun and Ascendant, Sun in the 1st in conjunction to the Ascendant 🧚🏼‍♀️

When Pluto squares your Sun and Ascendant, people don’t just see you, they sense you. And that can be a lot. You walk into a room and without even meaning to, you stir something in people. For some, it’s fascination. For others, it’s discomfort. There’s a kind of intensity you carry that people can’t always name, but they feel it. And let’s be honest, sometimes they project their own shit onto you because of that. Power, mystery, control, seduction, even danger. They think they know you, but what they’re reacting to is their own shadow being reflected back.

In relationships, it’s complicated. You crave honesty, depth and realness, but that same intensity can scare people off or make them want to control you or even box you into a version of you that feels “easier” to handle. But you can’t be contained like that. You either go all in or not at all. You’re not the type to pretend everything’s fine if it’s not. And that can be intimidating for someone who isn’t ready to meet you at your level.

At your best, you bring transformation. You see people. You reach into their depths and pull the truth out of them even if they weren’t ready for it. You challenge your partners to grow, to own their shit, to be better. But that means you also need someone strong enough to hold their ground. Someone who won’t flinch when things get real, because with you they’ll get real. And sometimes that leads to drama. Not because you’re chasing it, but because transformation isn’t clean or polite. It’s messy and raw. Still it’s powerful. Unforgettable. You don’t love halfway. And once someone earns your trust, you’re loyal as hell, ride or die, and probably the most emotionally fearless person they’ll ever meet.

Having your Sun in the 1st house, right in conjunction to your Ascendant, is like being born in the spotlight you never asked for, but somehow you own it. It’s not just that people notice you. There’s no buffer, no delay. Who you are is what the world sees, and that’s powerful… and terrifying. Because when the Sun rises at the exact moment you do, there’s nowhere to hide. Every strength, every wound, every flicker of identity sits right at the surface. You’re constantly being witnessed, even when you’d rather disappear.

But here’s the thing no one tells you: this placement isn’t just about being seen. It’s about revealing. You show people what it looks like to burn and not turn away. To carry your truth like armor. To exist as yourself before the world gives you permission.

This can be exhausting. You feel like you always have to be “on,” always performing the self that others expect. But you weren’t born to perform. You were born to embody. To be so vividly, vulnerably alive that it shakes something loose in the people around you.

You’re here to set fire to the silence! ❤️‍🔥

This is my personal experience on how I believe this placement has affected me.

⚠️TRIGGER WARNING⚠️ Father issues, not liking yourself issues.

How does it feel to have this placement?

It feels like this usually:

(found in the comments section of TikTok hehe)

Here is a checklist of horrible things that are true Natally IMO:

✅ Wack Fazah, BOOOO 🍅🍅🍅👎👎👎

✅ Opressive Society, ID admin is like pulling teeth with tweezers.

✅ Deeply isolated for no reason like PLEASE?? MAKE IT STOP.

✅ The need to "be somebody" is like it's such a trap, and it comes from trying to impress Wack Fazah, who would be like sooo embarrassed if YOU failed( Yes, you, the individual human being who is having an individual human experience of failure like hello??). And if you win, who cares (that's just expected of you? Like, yeah, anyone can do that, it's not that special?), this is a recipe for a very YIKES self-concept. Be careful, babies!

Ok, true things, Natally IMO:

🔥Being SEXY, at what cost? Your sanity, dignity and self-worth. The irony is that you cannot really use your sex appeal to cover the cost because you feel worse after that. The Hoe phase will quickly turn into a shame spiral; don't bother, get a vibrator.

Lowkey lies to make us feel better - JK it feels like this to me because it takes time for us to MASTER our plutonian gift

😵‍💫We are powerful? IDK, babe, I feel like I'm constantly being stripped of it; it's quite humiliating. At work, my colleagues actively speak over me, but not in the competitive corporate way you can feel when someone is doing it to assert dominance, like we're a bunch of Silverback apes or something. That happens a lot with this placement somewhere, somehow someone is trying to assert dominance, I promise you, you could be the cutest patootie and someone will feel the need to beat their chest like a gorilla.

😵‍💫Resilient, I feel like I'm made of loose beach sand and cry all the time, and also I feel like people make it seem like I'm not allowed to cry??

Some Solutions

I've read the Healing Pluto problems by Donna Cunningham.

"When these people are able to let go of the need to be the center of attention, when power is no longer important, they can actually become very powerful people for a good cause. The power comes from an endless resourcefulness, radiating from the center of their being, light from the inner Sun that never burns out. The Sun/Pluto aspect shows the potential to transform the self. When something needs to be worked through, these people don't let up until it has been handled. After healing the self, the capacity to heal others with similar problems will manifest itself"

I've also found not USING my parents or anyone who has me f***ed up as an excuse because it's easy to get trapped in that "prove them wrong" thing, and it's like come on, this is my ONE LIFE I'm gonna do my best with what I've got and I'm not gonna hide under the skirt of excuses for doing what I want to enjoy.

THANKS FOR READING =)