#north node synastry

🖤 Girlie pop, how you hurt them is Chiron conjunction with their personal planets, that planet's quality is where you hurt them. I had this man's Chiron conjunct my mercury and nothing hurt him more than my words and communication style 😭 similarly, a man's moon conjuncted my Chiron and nothing pissed me off more than him withdrawing his emotional availability to me 💢 (Yes, when done correctly, Chiron synastry can be healing but no one talks about the downsides)

🖤 why have I never come across a scorpio moon man who likes calm women?? All of them love the kind of woman who is mean to them, berates them and in general can kill with her words. I've always heard shit like, "Yeah, women SHOULD be mean. Why should they be nice?" And I agree as a Scorpio Sun but I won't be mean to my S.O. (wtf is wrong with y'all??)

🖤 Want to lose weight? It's so easy to do so in your Saturn return (age 27-30) or when you're going through a Saturn heavy period. Saturn aspecting your first house can also have the same effect. Saturn is the planet of purge so he understands you don't NEED those extra fats so he helps you lose it faster.

🖤 Having 5th house placements with no 7th house placements usually means that you constantly end up with crushes and hot, writhing romances but not make the other person commit to you. Not good for long-term commitment imo.

🖤 Conversely, having loads of 7th house placements means constant love triangles, liking people who are already paired up (or them liking you back) or constantly "stealing" partners (even if no fault of your own).

🖤 Another hot synastry: man's Lilith conjunct a woman's mars. They are exactly each other's type.

🖤 Check for astroid lust in synastry. If their personal planets conjunct your lust, they'd be feeling all sorts of ways and feeling horny for you.

🖤 His Lilith conjunct your ascendant is "gosh! I forgot how pretty you are!" Everytime he looks at you and you can SEE it in his eyes.

🖤 If someone's Jupiter falls into your 11th house, you can overall feel very lucky to the house person. They love you for the connections you bring them. This is the same for venus. However, if your mars falls there, they may be secretly competing with you.

🖤 if their moon is your rising, you'll hear them constantly say "I aspire to be you" and mean it.

🖤 Very specific but I feel as if anytime a man has hurt me, I've had either Lilith-Sun/moon/venus/mars synastry with him where I'm specifically the Lilith person or nodal synastry where my nodes are conjunct their personal planets. This is true even for friendship synastries and at times they won't be intending to hurt me, but they will say something or do something and it annoys tf out of me. On the flipside, while Pluto synastry makes me feel obsessive over the other person, I've never been hurt by them. I usually obsess and then move on if it doesn't work.

🖤 my people with mars in the 12th house, are you prone to psychic attacks?? Or is it just me? 😭 I also lucid dream between my nightmares and wtf 😒

🖤 Something that I've realised about libra women is that them daddy issues are almost always there. The sun is in detriment in Libra and it shows. With that, they either show too much naivety or too much cunningness and it shows. It can also come across as people who get easily influenced from other people's opinions or styles. May not happen if they have strong uranus or Neptune influence or if their moon is strong.

🖤 Mercury dominant women love to play the wolf in sheep's clothing archetype. This can also be true for Rahuvian women. Being the "darker" side of the moon, they feel the need to keep illusions to test people. Mercury women are smart and that's why they love to play dumb to understand people and see what happens when they are given free will (as in how they'll treat her, if they have evil intentions towards them because most people who want to take advantage of you will let themselves slip if they think you're dumb). They also do it because they want to get things done without putting in too much effort. Rahuvian women though, do it for the plot. Literally! They want see people's reaction and gauge their own judgement based on it. Rahu is the planet of illusions. They want to create that to understand people's projections on to them and the world. Afflicted moon women also do this but they are a bit more naive in my opinion but they do love to lie or create some illusion. Lol.

🖤 I've realised that people with strong moons understand public attention as social currency. This makes them very prone to caring about their image in public. Can also be 1 house or 10 house stelliums. Weak or afflicted moon natives do not care about their public image and don't care or depend on it.

Hard aspects like squares to the North Node can indicate skipped past life lessons for the North Node and planet individuals. If there is a square to the North Node there is likely to be a square to the South Node as well. A couple can have more than one North Node square at a time in a chart which can give the connection a heavy karmic feel of resonance and deja vu, as squares have a magnetic and fated energy to them and the feelings they invoke are not always pleasant. Because of this the couple may eventually overtime or if not sooner begin to play out the same scenarios or energies from previous incarnations that no longer are conducive to the connection this lifetime. The connection can play out in one or two ways they can energetically feel as though there is unfinished business or be completely oblivious as to why they are in the connection in the first place. Which can keep them both in a karmic loop, of separation and rekindling. We live in a world where trauma and healing is not a priority, gratification through superficial means, success, and keeping up of appearances take precedence over our mental, physical and spiritual health which in turn effect our inner and outer connections. If the connection with the self and the spirit is broken it is impossible for any connection to sustain. Certainly not a positive and healthy one. If you can acknowledge yourself you can be able to see and acknowledge the unhealthy pattens within your connections and how you may have energetically contributed good, bad, or indifferent. For contextual purposes the following aspects below to the North Node are to personal planets which hold the most significance as we are the most influenced energetically and spiritually by them. The Sun (Leo) is our ego and is connected to how we view and feel about ourselves it is our inner light that we project out into the world. The Moon (Cancer) is connected to our inner emotions and how we project and protect them. Venus (Libra) is connected to how we experience romance and deal with our financial matters. Mercury (Gemini, Virgo) is connected to communication, how we process information and our day to day interactions with others. Mars (Aries) is how we assert ourselves, or go after the things or people we want or desire, how we fight, and our *** drive. Saturn (Capricorn) is where we feel restricted, what holds us back, our karmic lessons and duties. Pluto (Scorpio) is connected to transformation, rebirth, death, merging our energies and finances and our shadow. As I explained earlier the reason for squares to the Nodes have to do with skipped lessons from a past lifetime, for both individuals. To see the lesson look at the house placements of the Node and planet as well as aspects to the personal planets for what the lesson may be. It is worth noting that being in a past life, fated, and or karmic connection does not mean you are to tolerate abuse, disrespect, avoidant, narcissistic, or hurtful and demeaning behavior, all in the name of clearing or rectifying relationship debt. Some connections are just too much to handle energetically, financially, mentally, spiritually, and sometimes physically. I do not condone or advise anyone to stay in a toxic or abusive connection, which is why self love and continuous healing work is so important.

☀️Sun square North Node- The Sun person is stuck in their ways and reluctant to learn the lessons that life and the connection with the North Node is trying to teach them. They can be very superficial, stubborn, materialistic and selfish in the connection. In a past life there were hard feelings, power struggles and unwillingness to compromise. The lesson this lifetime is for them both to learn equal give and take and that it does not take away from them or make them a weak person for letting their guard down and being vulnerable. The North Node person can learn how this behavior can hold a person back and can feel like the Sun person is stoic and stuck in their ways and can also see through the Sun person how far they have come from that type of energy.

🌙Moon square North Node- The Moon person may be emotionally cut off or too clingy. The Moon person's emotional responses or lack their of can cause blockages on the North Node person's path as they will continuously have to divert their energy from their mission to tend to the Moon person. The Moon person's emotional nature can show the North Node person what they have not acknowledged within themselves or where they have been neglecting their own emotions. In a past life the Moon person may have felt neglected or were unable to express themselves for fear of ridicule or judgement. The lesson this lifetime to learn how to be each others safe space in a healthy way.

💓Venus square North Node- The Venus person may have had their heart broken by the North Node person in a past life. With this aspect the same scenarios tend to play out again this lifetime. With the Venus person over giving, overextending, and chasing the Node person and the connection, or rejecting the connection and what they feel for the Node person altogether. They may be more concerned about ownership and control of the Node person and getting commitment from them than actually learning how to be a good partner and friend. This connection may feel forced or rushed. And The North Node person may feel reluctant to commit because of this, they may have a hard time trusting the Venus person or feel committing to the Venus person will hold them back from their mission. This connection triggers insecurities on both sides. The North Node's eventual retreat or rejection of the connection will trigger Venus's self love journey and force the North Node to ask themselves what connection and love really means for them.

🧠Mercury square North Node- In a past life there were communication issues and in this lifetime is no different. There is a constant bumping of heads and not being able to see eye to eye on even the smallest things. The Mercury person can feel misunderstood by the North Node person or feel like the Node person acts intellectually inferior or like a smarty pants. While the Node person can feel like the Mercury person lacks foresight and common sense. This can spark arguments and energetic discord as both individuals feel like they are never understood or can get on the same page. The lesson for both is patience and to try their best to see each others point of view.

⚔️Mars square North Node- Because of the Mars person's reckless actions in a past life this may have resulted in serious injury to the Node person. Because of this the Node person may not fully trust the Mars person and may be triggered by how they assert their energy. Depending on the Mars person's sign their energy could have been passive or aggressive, but either way their action or inaction resulted in betrayal or physical injury. The Mars person could have also been an enemy to the Node person. Or their connection could have been competitive which resulted in the Mars and or Node person getting hurt. In this lifetime there is passion but also power struggles, control issues and competitiveness between them that need to be addressed. The Node person can find the Mars person's behavior off putting and this can trigger responses or behaviors in them they feel they have outgrown or trying to move away from. The lesson this lifetime is that you are lovers not opponents. When you make the focus on maintaining control and power there are no winners. Love, patience, forgiveness and humility will be beneficial on the road to healing this connection.

⌛Saturn square North Node- Saturn is a road block or detergent to the Node person. Saturn’s influence in the connection is somehow a hinderance to the North Node’s purpose or journey this life time. Saturn is the planet of limitations, restrictions, hard work and contracts. And the North Node is our soul’s purpose and what is going to bring us fulfillment and happiness this lifetime. Being in the connection with the Saturn person somehow keeps the Node person from going forward toward their North. It could be Saturn’s attitude, Saturn’s behavior, or Saturn’s lack of support for the Node person. The Node person has to learn to stay true to themselves in the connection, and keep moving forward no matter what is going on with the Saturn person or what they say or do. As the Saturn person can cast doubt or insecurity in the Node person, but the Saturn person is just projecting. The Node person’s goals or journey somehow causes insecurity or control issues in the Saturn person. (click to read more)

Pluto square North Node- When someone's Pluto is square your Nodes this connection will be transformational for the both of you. Pluto is learning a lesson in release of control and the Node is learning a lesson in what happens when you let Pluto hold the power. Pluto and the Nodes are both points of transformation and growth, so it is guaranteed that they both will never be the same after their interaction. This connection is the epitome of karmic, and once the lessons have been learned on one or both sides, it ends just as quickly as it begins. Pluto/Node connections are not permanent and are literally just a lesson. The exception is multiple solid Saturn placements (on both sides) in the synastry and the composite.

Have you had any of these aspects? If so what was your experience?

Stay Lifted,

Madison 🌙

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When the North Node overlays personal planets, angles, or houses in synastry, it signals a profound, fated connection. This is not just a relationship, it’s a meeting of souls with a higher purpose. The North Node represents where we are evolving, the uncharted territory we are meant to embrace in this lifetime. When activated in synastry, it pulls both people into a dynamic of growth, challenge, and sometimes inescapable attraction.

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North Node in the Partner’s Houses

The house placement of your North Node in someone’s chart shows where you bring transformative energy into their life and vice versa.

1st House: Instant attraction. The North Node person is drawn to the house person’s identity and confidence, pushing them to step into their full power. The house person may feel magnetized but also overwhelmed by the intensity.

2nd House: A connection built on self-worth, stability, and material values. The North Node person may challenge the house person’s sense of security, pushing them toward financial or emotional independence.

3rd House: A deep intellectual bond. The North Node person brings new ideas and perspectives, challenging the house person to think differently. Conversations are stimulating, but sometimes overwhelming.

4th House: A soul-level bond. The North Node person awakens deep emotional security issues, sometimes triggering childhood wounds. This is a connection that feels like “home,” but can also bring up unresolved family dynamics.

5th House: Magnetic romance and creative energy. The North Node person urges the house person to embrace joy, pleasure, and self-expression. There is often an irresistible passion here.

6th House: A bond centered on personal growth, health, and daily life. The North Node person influences the house person’s routines and responsibilities, possibly bringing a sense of purpose, or disruption.

7th House: A classic indicator of a significant, fated relationship. The North Node person represents an energy the house person is meant to integrate into their idea of partnership. Commitment feels inevitable, but the growth can be intense.

8th House: A deeply transformative and potentially obsessive connection. The North Node person pushes the house person to embrace vulnerability, intimacy, and deep personal change. This can feel karmic, sometimes consuming.

9th House: A journey of expanding beliefs, travel, and higher learning. The North Node person introduces the house person to new philosophies or experiences that shape their life path.

10th House: A connection linked to career, reputation, and ambition. The North Node person plays a role in pushing the house person toward their life’s purpose, often influencing their public image or long-term goals.

11th House: A friendship that feels destined. The North Node person helps the house person break into new social circles, embrace innovation, and pursue their dreams.

12th House: A spiritual, subconscious connection. The North Node person may trigger deep healing or past-life memories in the house person. This bond is profound but can also be confusing or elusive.

North Node Aspects in Synastry

North Node Conjunct Sun – The Sun person’s identity fuels the North Node’s destiny. This is a powerful, motivating relationship that can feel like fate.

North Node Conjunct Moon – An emotional, nurturing bond. The Moon person provides comfort and security, but the relationship forces deep emotional growth.

North Node Conjunct Venus – A magnetic, often romantic connection. The Venus person represents love, beauty, and pleasure that the North Node person is meant to embrace. The pull is irresistible.

North Node Conjunct Mars – Passion, action, and sometimes conflict. The Mars person pushes the North Node person into movement, courage, and boldness. This can be a thrilling but intense connection.

North Node Conjunct Saturn – A relationship with serious karmic weight. Saturn represents lessons, discipline, and long-term commitment. The bond can feel heavy, but it is built for endurance.

North Node Conjunct Pluto – Deep, soul-level transformation. The Pluto person forces the North Node person to face their own power, control issues, or rebirth. This connection can be obsessive and life-changing.

The Magnetic Pull of North Node Synastry

💙 Their Mars in your 3rd House makes them want to talk to you all the time. Conversation tends to flow freely. You inspire each other's thoughts and ideas. They tell you things about their siblings or neighbors. You enjoy running errands together. Frequent talks about sex and sexting isn't unusual for this overlay.

🤍 Moon overlaying the 9th House can indicate that there is significant distance between the two of you. Long distance relationship. Person from a different culture or ethnic background. This overlay also indicates that you may share similar religious beliefs or philosophies on life.

💙 Venus opposing Uranus can also indicate a relationship between two very different people. This aspect in synastry brings excitement, especially in the beginning. The Uranus person sends electrifying signals to the Venus person, who is drawn to the Uranus person. There needs to be some grounding and enduring aspects in the rest of this synastry for a relationship to last with this one. This aspect can also manifest as an on/off relationship because the two are activated towards each other through transits.

🤍 Having Mercury square Mercury in synastry can be tough. Here the people involved struggle with communication and understanding each other during critical and even non-critical moments. When Mercury squares in synastry, even small misunderstandings can quickly escalate to bigger disagreements. Because squares are typically created by signs of the same modality, but different elements, the minds of these people clash because the approach is different. For instance, a Cancer Mercury and Libra Mercury both are Cardinal and the mind works fast for these signs. But Cancer's mode of communication is filtered through the emotions (Water), while Libra filters through the mind (Air).

💙 When their Venus is in your 7th House, you find them very attractive. They embody what is beautiful to you. As the House person, you have the attributes and qualities of what Venus values in love and partnerships. The Venus person values you. This overlay can also indicate the Venus person coming into the House person's life to increase value or make money together.

🤍 When a person's Mars conjuncts another's Chiron, the Mars person has come to help facilitate healing for the Chiron person. As long as the rest of the synastry supports it, Mars isn't afflicted, and the Chiron person has already done some shadow work to address wounds, this is a very positive aspect in synastry.

💙 I've noticed when Saturn conjuncts the North Node in synastry, it can indicate a lifelong friendship. Of course, this can develop into a romantic partnership, or even start off romantic and end up as friends. But essentially, the people involved become bound together with this aspect. It is often the Saturn person who gets stuck on the NN person. Saturn initially introduces structure and discipline to the NN person. The NN person shows Saturn how to lighten up and allow lessons to evolve naturally. This aspect in synastry can also indicate creating 'good' Karma in this lifetime. Often there is an age difference involved.

🤍 Neptune conjunct Vertex in synastry can be a beautifully fated connection or an extreme nightmare. When Neptune is positively placed within the natal and in synastry, this aspect brings a brand new, positive perspective to the Vertex person about compassion and unconditional love. But because of the nature of Neptune and the potential for illusions and deceit, if Neptune is ill placed or badly afflicted, Neptune will teach the Vertex person about seeing clearly, setting proper boundaries, and using their intuition.

These are my observations and opinions. Take what resonates and leave what doesn't. Thanks for reading!

⚜My favorite synastry aspects from astrological reasoning and personal experience (in no order) ⚜:

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Venus conjunct Chiron: the Venus person's love and affectionate energy helps the Chiron person unpack their trauma and heal their wounds, easily. This is the best aspect for chiron healing.

Moon in the 12th house: this is the best 12th house overlay imo. The Moon's energy doesn't feel estranged in the 12th house. If the 12th house person has troubles sleeping, sleeping with the Moon person can help a lot.

Venus conjunct/trine Jupiter: they bring great joy into each other's lives. This aspect results in so much laughter and easy chemistry.

Saturn conjunct/trine Juno: this aspect eliminates any vagueness or 'lack of labels' that can jeopardise the connection. Both Saturn and Juno wants to committ to each other right away!

Thank you so much. Have a great day❤️

you're welcome Linh! 😘

Saturn & North Node conjunction can show that the relationship will be long lasting, a very committed partnership. And yes, the journey of becoming your highest self and following your path can be led by this connection. This is a soul and spiritual connection as you both are there to help one another grow towards your purpose.

Hello!

Usually, yes. When your personal planet conjuncts another person's north node, it's a fated encounter. Of course, the direction of the relationship may vary depending on which planet it conjuncts.

The north node ushers us to learn or grow with/from your experience with this person. They could act as a stepping stone for you to realise something about your past or understand your potential.

You could also have this aspect with celebrities or writers that you admire even if you've never/will never meet them (may be deceased). They'll serve as an inspiration for you!