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❦ there has been debate about what pluto symbolises as a planet, someone said it is about love because it rules over sex, desire and intimacy. i understand that but you can be desired, have sex and intimacy without love and that's pluto! this is why venus rules over the love life of somebody and pluto is more impactful when you want to look into how people sexually crave and yearn for you [even obsess].

[this post will be focusing on the planets including bml and both nodes].

THE PLUTO ASPECTS ⬎

♇𖤓 pluto aspecting the sun ⟶ its evident here that people with this aspect are desired due to the power they hold over other people. they're people who are powerful without having to make much noise and their mysteriousness, intelligence and even appeal makes them intriguing to other people. people who are older than them or have more authority see potential in these natives, you see these people and know that they are going somewhere in life and it makes others want to hang on. these people are unforgettable and if poorly aspected it makes people want to dominate them because they cannot handle someone being more compelling than them. overall, this aspect creates people who are thought as "sexy" and that no good person you cant turn yourself away from. this alignment also signifies individual cannot do anything without it being sexual to others.

♇☽ pluto aspecting the moon ⟶ these people attract those who want to be dominated, those who want to be understood. unintentionally individuals who carry this placement embody a dark essence that makes people see them as this enigmatic and emotionally consuming individual. people who have this aspect might find themselves being desired by people they were close with, they have that one friend that tells them they always crushed on them on the other hand they could find themselves being the object of people's desires because they bring a sense of comfort other people decipher as sexuality. people who have this aspect tend to have their body sexualised, chiefly when they were young. they feel the stares and attention of other people really easily which can cause them to become paranoid.

♇☿️ pluto aspecting mercury ⟶ to have this aspect insinuates that you are crushed on by many even if you don't realise. similar to the pluto planet aspecting the moon, people who have mercury aligned with pluto [positive or negative] are sexualised by other people as well. but in this circumstance it can manifest with people vocalising their desires to the person along with imagining how the native would be around them bare. person could often receive sensual messages from other people and know what it means to be desired more than love, so deep and meaningful connection is something a person with this aspect chases after. to have this alignment in your chart could entail that people find how you speak and communicate with other people as hypnotic, you are not craved casually, you are studied and obsessively listened to.

♇♀ pluto aspecting venus ⟶ this alignment shows that you are someone who feels like you're only desired for your looks and your sexuality. you could come across people who are shallow and only like you because you look good as a trophy partner. this can make people obsess over you and think they're entitled to be around you all the time, some people might not even know why they like you your presence is enough to have them obsessed and even bring out the worst out of people---or even the best. this aspect shows that people could yearn for you either silently or loudly but people still stalk these people. want to know everything about them, who they're talking to, who they're smiling at and who they're spending their time around. you are someone who impacts people's taste, they end up being fascinated by you and fantasise a life where you're with them.

♇♂ pluto aspecting mars ⟶ this aspect can get really heavy. burdening. because it's mars aspecting another mars which is more centred around obsession, stalking and desperation. similar to pluto aspecting venus these people genuinely feel like people just see them as an object of desire. like pluto aspecting the sun, these people tend to be aware of who are obsessed with them, they feel it. others tend to want to dominate them, to other people individuals who have this aspect are like a walking explosion, people feel arounded and terrified and majority of the times when someone is terrified they either want to run away from it or dominate it. thus people having this aspect usually are around people who want to one up them but also have them in bed. people with this alignment hold much tension, they're a sexuality with storm and purpose.

♇♃ pluto aspecting jupiter ⟶ people with this aspect usually find themselves fetishised by other people. they could look or appear as foreign or have this type of allure and feature other people dont usually see day to day so its easy to fixtate on them. to have this aspect shows that you're a revelation to many people that makes it easy for you to trust. to have this alignment shows that you could grow mass support from people around you due to your knowledge, attraction and timeless nature. people feel like they have to become a better version of themselves to match you and similar to the pluto aspecting venus this can manifest into individuals feeling like they have to one up you all the time. to people you're like a god/goddess in a human body, people feel everything with these people and get addicted to wanting to be seen or felt by them. this aspect shows that you could attract people who can come off as too strong as well.

♇♄ pluto aspecting saturn ⟶ people want to be dominated by you guys, there's a fixation that could happen and people want to be enough for them. if you are cold to other people there'll be individuals who would want to crack that open and get the warm core---you could be the type of person other people fear but want to get on their knees for. you come off as flawless to other people that drive other people wild, it is potent and serious and almost all-consuming, howbeit since saturn is a planet of restriction it insinuates that people tend to hold their feelings back from you not wanting to come off as too strong to throw you off so yeah these people attract shy people but shy people who have so much underneath. there could also be forbidden attraction, you being appealing to those who are in relationships are circumstances in their lives where they should not be looking your way.

♇♅ pluto aspecting uranus ⟶ these people throw people off and not in a bad way, its like that crush you develop so quickly when you enter the room. it reminds of the montage that happens in pen15 whenever the girls see their crush and their crush is all they see. when it comes to yearning natives could imagine you in many scenarios. people who have this aspect invent a new version of what sexiness or beauty is supposed to be, and because of this they become dangerously magnetic to different type of groups who either want to be them or be with them. other people want to follow them almost like a blind person, natives who carry this aspect challenge people's expecations with grace, the turn taboo into trend and this can make them influential in relationships and the trajectory of people's lives.

♇♆ pluto aspecting neptune ⟶ the yearning gets spiritual for these people. the type to be dreamed about after or before meeting. people feel like meeting with you was supposed to happen, like a spiritual trial if they should do the right or wrong this. though to have this aspect is to be desired in ways that could make the native feel uncomfortable---the allure is piercing like being called to the sea during the winter. people could find you both intoxicating and confusing, people either want to be saved by you or want to save you, you're idealised, romanticised and fantasised but when you dont fit into the fantasy of other people there could be some fall outs. this aspect shows that you carry this divine essence, you dont try to be magnetic, you're just...there. but you still attract stares, delusional people and even stalkers.

♇⚸ pluto aspecting black moon lilith ⟶ very powerful aspect. can attract very creepy people if not careful, have to use their discernment because people are willing to get really dirty when it comes to them. people who have this aspect represent a type of beauty and character that people claim to hate but actually dream about. like if this person was confident in their skin they'd get hate for it but the people who hate them want to be them. other people yearn for these people's unapologetic magnetism and their refusal to shrink, they find it haunting. people who have this aspect are haunting to other people and very addictive, its like the person people are not supposed to want because they're too sexy and in tune with themselves but because they embody a full potential of being unapologetic, people cannot help but get aroused.

♇☊ pluto aspecting north node ⟶ whenever this aspect happens people feel like they're fated to know the individual who has this aspect. the person becomes a cataylst in an individual's life pulling people into their own transformation and that itself can make someone obsessed. when someone is away from the person who has this they feel like they're having a withdrawal, but as much as it can make someone feel in awe of the person with the aspect, they can also become angry with them. the north node is a really fiery and aggressive commodity in astrology, so people can get very over-bearing with wanting them. native with the aspect could also want moments away from the scenery because of this. people who have this aspect are that person other people never forget, the one that got away or the mirror they werent ready for. people dont know if they want to kiss or fight this person, can insinuate person attracts a lot of people that feel so much for them that they start hating them.

♇☋ pluto aspecting south node ⟶ people are obsessed with you because you are withdrawn, you're like air if someone tried to catch it with their hand. impossible. peope feel tied to the individuals who have this aspect, they feel haunted by them as if not talking to them or interacting with them in a type of way will make the rest of their lives unfinished. they could feel like they have known you since forever lke an unfinished story that was ripped apart from them since the past life. people who have this aspect could remind other people of someone they used to know or even a nostalgic feeling in general, these people are like a fantasy that could end happily or become someone's nightmare, the yearning in this circumstance is lethal but there could be resistance from one side that makes the connection more addicting to form. people who obsess over the native could steep really low just to interact with them or have the individual know who they are.

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Mars square Pluto - you’re clearly very hard-working and know how to get your way when you want to. The danger with this placement is overworking yourself to the point of burnout and perhaps even collapse. Your value doesn’t lie in the work that you do. You are worthy simply by existing. You are a child of this universe. A part of everything that it is. Show yourself the love that you deserve and take enough well-deserved rests. The world will not fall apart if you sometimes decide not to be so hard on yourself and perfectionistic. You deserve to relax, take it easy and let others shoulder some responsibility too.

Pluto in 8th house - you’ve been burned in life, haven’t you? People you trusted betrayed you, you faced death, illness, sex, everything one would define as taboo. The word crisis has likely becoming something very personal, painfully familiar to you. You’ve been through the dark night of the soul more times than you’d like to admit. You know just how horrible people can be. You see their darkness. The truths they’d never admit to themselves. All things considered, why would you ever allow yourself to be vulnerable, to expose yourself? When the ending all seems very clear to you. How inevitable pain will come to you again? This is the main challenge with this placement. Learning to trust again. Even if it seems impossibly difficult and painful. Because the true love and intimacy than you crave lies on the other side of hurt and fear. It’s about being brave enough to show yourself again and again. Despite everything. It’s a constant act of courage but also self-trust - you can handle anything life throws your way. I’m sure you’ve proven that to yourself over and over again. At the end of the day, the right people have a way of finding you. Maybe they are already in your life but you’ve not yet given the green light to let them in your personal, intimate world.

Pluto in 2nd house - another very intense placement. It’s all about self-love and self-trust. About proving to yourself that you can contribute, you can manage on your own. And more than anything: you matter. You don’t need to hold onto material things, achievements, titles whatever. You matter simply by the virtue of existing.

People with this placement sometimes attract loss: of money, possessions, people etc. it’s extremely important for them to develop a strong enough emotional core, an endurance in themselves, a knowing that whatever happens in life they will manage to move forward and maybe do more than survive - thrive. But to get there - they need to learn to trust themselves on a very deep, personal level. To literally live their truth not just have a vague notion of it.

Remember: Never, ever lose sight of who you really are. Of what truly matters to you in this life.

Multiple personal planets in 3rd house - it is vital that you learn to communicate well! If you don’t, you might feel stuck for the rest of your life. It is not always easy, I’m aware. We face so many challenges in life and all of different nature. Some of which maybe only us can truly understand. Make your job many times easier by becoming an intelligent, empathetic and skilled communicator. Through our words, we don’t just convey ideas and our feelings but we put energy into motion. We let go of what was long stuck inside of us, begging for a release. Or sometimes we find solutions to our own dilemmas by exchanging energy with another person that has perhaps surprised us with him/her interesting worldview, catalysing a change inside of us. Words carry energy. And by putting the right kind of energy into motion, we can accomplish absolutely incredible things. So start today. Be more mindful about the way you talk to people. Take little steps and you’ll slowly improve. I promise you.

Moon in 10th house - you only feel lovable if you work. If you constantly contribute. You are all about being self-sufficient. You are definitely not the type to have dramatic emotional expressions in public. Or of any kind really. You like keeping to yourself most of the time. You are charismatic, hard-working and have an authoritative air to you. Your very self-worth is tied to how well you do in your career. Any kind of criticism in this domain can seem devastating. As your lover you’d likely choose somebody from your workplace - a colleague, boss, assistant etc.

My suggestion with this placement is to find yourself some kind of hobby outside of your work. And to not overwork yourself. Tying yourself to one specific thing so tightly can at times be toxic and other times very limiting. Broaden your area of interests and start seriously practicing a sport or some kind of hobby. Meditation could do wonders for you - helping you cope with stress or your anxious tendencies.

Moon-Pluto aspects, especially the challenging ones - seriously consider doing shadow work and picking up journaling. They can shine light on so many things and let you see things from a better perspective over time.

Journaling helps these people better understand how they truly feel, to unload their emotional weight and more easily discover what truly matters to them. I like to think of it as - tidying up your mental room.

Mercury conjunction Neptune - this aspect is not talked about nearly enough. It’s a very creative placement. This native likely sees the world in symbols, notices the subtleties, people’s slight shift of energy, things they try to hide etc. there’s a strong channelling of creative energy through music, art, writing or some other type of medium. This native could be rather sensitive to their environment, easy to influence or, on the contrary, they could be aware of their gifts and use them to subtlely influence those around them. If they wanted to, they could make good liars or actors. Neptune, among other things, rules fantasies, imagination, intuition. You can deduce what it means if it falls where Mercury is. However, this placement doesn’t necessarily mean somebody is a liar or manipulator. They could also make wonderful writers, artists, musicians or anybody in the creative arts. They could be very good when it comes to moving people with their words, if they hone their abilities well. What they create will leave a deep impact on those around them. Like there’s a special quality to it.

These people are likely not very good with exact sciences. Especially physics and maths where everything is precise, follows certain formulas and calculations. This native could have a hard time truly grasping mathematical thinking as it differs in great measure to what the native is naturally inclined to think like. Of course, it also depends on what signs and houses the two planets fall under. If it’s a Capricorn/Aquarius or 10th house, perhaps there will in fact be an interest in maths or technology. In which case they could become truly ground-breaking in their field. Combing logical, mathematical thinking with their wild creative, streak. However if it’s in Pisces or 4th/12th house, it could lead to them struggling in school when it comes to maths/physics/chemistry.

Whatever the case, there’s an unconscious desire to bend reality in some way. Make it somehow different, less rigid and more creative/symbolic.

Native could probably do well in domains like literature, philosophy or even psychology as well.

My advice: don’t run away from your problems and try to escape reality by immersing yourselves in your thoughts and fantasies. Be as present as you can and try to develop your logical, practical thinking. It will serve you in the long run.

Aries Mercury - I find these natives very engaging to talk to. They are direct, even blunt and some of them have a wonderful sense of humor. They could be a bit confrontational and definitely don’t appreciate someone being wishy-washy, unnecessarily dramatic or dishonest. In fact they have a rather well-developed lie detector. If they catch you being dishonest with them, good luck trying to get back to their good graces. They might cut you out of their life completely. Their learning style could a a bit disorganised. Sometimes they show little interest while other times they bulldozer their way forward, finishing a week’s amount of work in a day or a few hours. Not to mention they could say some really bold or astounding things at times. They will say their truth even if it ruffles some feathers.

Their anger could be quick and intense but it usually doesn’t last long. They could do some sort of physical exercise as a mean to channel their rage. Perhaps they walk, run, go skating or work out etc.

My advice: understand that not everybody is as forward and no-nonsense like you. Some people need more time to make up their mind. Also, try choosing your words a bit more carefully so you don’t upset the more sensitive people.

Little water element in the chart - native might miss subtle nonverbal cues, shifts in the direction of conversation etc. could be a bit insensitive or self-absorbed but not always. Can probably stay clear-headed and rational more easily. A guarded, somewhat cold person at first glance maybe. Maybe they are oblivious to their own feelings as well or try to fight them.

Advice - it could prove useful to connect with the element of water - go swimming, boating, maybe take a walk along a lake or river. Or purchase a painting where the water element is present.

Write down what you feel in a journal. Talk less and listen, really listen to what people say. Practice being open, empathetic in communication. Open body-language, back straight, don’t cross your arms, look people in the eyes and maybe smile a little. Ask questions about people’s day, how they feel when it’s appropriate. It’s all about small steps.

Little fire element in the chart - problems when it comes to making decisions, standing up for what you believe in or even knowing what your true values are. Native could be easily influenced by others or rather flaky. They could find it hard to assert themselves or be confrontational when needed, preferring a more passive-agresive approach. This can lead to difficulties both at work and in personal relationships. There may be a dislike for physical exercise and/or native could be low-energy and even apathetic.

My advice: define your values and stand by them no matter what. You are the most important person in your life and you have to take care of yourself properly. At the end of the day, it’s yourself that you have to face in the mirror, to bear the weight of your own decisions or what would the lack of them lead to…Also be truthful and direct when talking to people. It’s much better to let people know where they stand with you rather than stringing them along or, on the contrary, letting them use you.

Little air element in the chart - some kind of difficulty with communication or learning. You might find it hard to put your ideas into words, orally or in writing. There could be difficulties in relating to people at times or seeing their point of view. Sometimes you could be viewed as stubborn or rigid. There may be some challenges when it comes to learning. Maybe you were a late bloomer or been told you you are not smart enough. As a consequence, you lost faith in your intellectual abilities. This is one possibility.

There could be challenges in maintaining relationships long term, platonic or romantic. You likely don’t keep in touch that much or mull a lot over words before or after saying them. Your communication could be rather “me-centred” especially if you have strong fire influence in your chart. Overall you are not a wordsmith.

You’re likely a bit private, even mysterious. You don’t waste words or present them in a flashy/slick manner. You believe in actions over words.

Advice: be open to new ideas. Perhaps take up acting or debate classes. Read a lot and try keeping in touch with people more. Try your hand at writing.

Little earth element in the chart - problems with seeing things through, being organised, structured or reliable.

You can start new things but don’t finish them. You could have a hard time controlling your emotions and being dramatic (especially with strong water or fire influence). Or have big dreams/ideas and fail to materialise them (strong air influence). There could be problems with your finances which can fluctuate. You could have problems with keeping jobs or even relationships at times.

You’re likely impulsive, spontaneous, even reckless. You could act first and think second.

You’re likely a fresh and very interesting conversationalist. Open-minded, curious, unbound by rigidity/stuborness. At times you can shake people to their very core with your energy.

Advice: try staying more organised, serious in what you do. Especially when it comes to your work and the important relationships in your life. Being a total mess serves nobody in the long term. Show interest, pay attention to your finances and spend less, save money. Perhaps open a savings account. Also, make sure to look at the fine print when needed. Pay attention to smaller details.

Moon in Libra - there’s a certain charm to these natives that draws people in. They are diplomatic, outgoing, pleasant to talk to; they usually take very good care of themselves and look well-put-together. There’s a little aesthete in them. They might like dressing up, decorating their home. They might be into music or art. They usually get along well with people and have plenty of potential dating options to choose from. They can be choosy or even gossipy at times. They might not always know what they want and can be on the fence even when it comes to important things. Their need for harmony and balance might make them purposefully ignore important issues or turn passive-agresive.

Can be huge idealists in love and it could seem like they’ll never find the right person.

My advice: learn to make decisions and take responsibility for them. Always. Not somebody else is to blame if you are feeling dissatisfied. Some decisions will inevitably turn out to be poor. And that’s fine. You’ll learn from them and then move on. It’s much better than being in decision paralysis or always having somebody take the fall for your bad decisions thus making yourself dependent on them. Also, perhaps try being a touch less critical and more open with other people. Nobody is obliged to become your dream lover/friend. And holding them to impossible standards is unrealistic and will lead to heartbreak, disappointment on both parts. Try truly getting to know people instead of being lost in preconceptions about them.

Venus square Saturn - this native is probably very focused on their career, serious, earnest, responsible and private. Getting to know them on the romantic front could prove difficult as they don’t open up easily and could be perceived as cold or uninterested. They take life seriously not just their work and romantic relationships. They won’t get involved unless they are fully in. May be the type to marry late, only date to marry or date somebody older, maybe their boss. They don’t get into romantic relationships just to have fun, but with a sense of responsibility, wanting it to last for a long time.

These natives could have a hard time forming relationships precisely because of this overly-serious, private outlook. They can be withdrawn or even shy to make the first move. The romantic attention they show to other people could be so subtle (especially with Venus in 12th house), barely anybody notices. There could also be a challenge in balancing their love life and career at times.

Appearance-wise these people tend to age like fine wine. Perhaps they look more attractive in their 40s than they did in their 20s.

Advice: be bolder in your romantic pursuits. Nobody can read your mind. Don’t be shy, take the initiative and open up. Who knows, the right person for you could be closer than you ever expected, awaiting a sign from you.

Sun conjunction Venus - very attractive, diplomatic and charming people. They draw people’s attention without meaning to. They can be very pleasant to talk to them as they seem genuine and authentic. They are highly magnetic and appealing to the opposite sex. Likely have strong interpersonal skills and hightened creativity. They enjoy being known and liked by people. Also dressing nicely and presenting themselves in a favourable manner socially. Could at times be impulsive, superficial, two-faced or vain though.

Advice: remember that appearances don’t mean everything. Sometimes it’s the ugly duckling that has the heart of gold while the most beautiful actress is like potent poison to anybody it touches. Judge people not by their looks but rather by what kind of people they truly are.

Jupiter in 5th house - this person exudes a child-like optimism, passion, creativity, a beautiful zest for life. They likely adore children, animals and nature and feel a powerful connection to them. Strong creative abilities are likely which can be expressed in almost any domain, but especially in the creative fields: cinema, theatre, music, arts etc.

The place Jupiter is in always gets expanded - these people have high chances of getting recognition for their creative qualities. What they produce makes people take a step back and stare in amazement. They can be ground-breaking and leave people astounded with their wild, passionate genius.

The danger lies in the moments they feel weak and lose touch with the fire inside of them. When they can no longer view life with the same curiosity and zest, they can lose themselves for good, giving into melancholy and even depression. It’s very important for them to choose a career that best supports their creative side. Or perhaps a hobby. Taking care of children and animals could prove particularly fulfilling for them, as well. Or being in nature.

They could attract great admiration as well as many romantic interests.

Bruce Lee, Robin Williams and Elon Musk have this Jupiter placement.

Jupiter in 6th house - they are meticulous, hard-working, humble and take very good care of their body. They likely cook for themselves, eat healthy and work out. They could be into alternative ways of healing. They dress in a classy or sporty fashion, in neutral colours, most likely.

They don’t like boasting about themselves or being in the spotlight. Though these people would certainly deserve all the praise. They are super responsible, reliable, patient and overall great human beings to have in your life. They will listen to your problems and offer intelligent and practical solutions.

At times they can get overly-worried about their health, sometimes imagining diseases when there is none. Or going into radical diets. They can also get overly-critical of themselves.

Advice: cut yourself some slack. You deserve love, appreciation and acceptance. Don’t be so perfectionistic and difficult on yourself and make sure to lean back and have fun from time to time.

Jupiter in 8th house - these people exude a magnetic, sexual kind of energy. They are powerful, eye-catching and maybe even a little intimidating. They are not necessarily conventionally beautiful but have a certain type of spark to them which can’t leave you indifferent.

People could literally dream to get into your bed. Strong libido is likely. Many romantic relationships are possible. Unfortunately, these natives could also attract sorrow, loss, betrayal, crisis.

They can go through huge amounts of pain in their life. Perhaps it’s in this exact pain and loss that they find their faith in both themselves and God and a way forward.

My advice: you are a true warrior and your courage and resilience while not deservedly recognised is impressive and a true example of what a human being is capable of when they keep believing themselves and move forward despite all hardships and pain. Never forget how wonderful you are and keep being loving to yourself. You deserve it.

Taylor Swift, Michael Jackson and Joe Biden have this placement.

Jupiter in 9th house - strong intellectual capabilities, and expensive mind, multiple talents. These individuals are quick to learn things and can become real masters at their chosen field. They have multiple interests and make very interesting conversationalists. They prefer teaching instead of being taught. Might not make the best apprentices as they can be quite stubborn and like figuring things out themselves. They can at times turn arrogant and show a know-it-all attitude, refusing to open themselves to more information.

On their best behaviour, they are visionary and quite inspirational.

My advice: keep learning and extending your horizons to reach new heights. You’ve been endowed with astounding intellectual prowess you’d do well to develop to its fullest potential. Never think you know everything and try being more patient, understanding of other people. Not everyone is as quick as you.

Jupiter in 10th house - this is a boss placement. These natives make highly capable and outstanding individuals. They more than excel in their chosen field and are likely invited to positions of authority/power. Even with a Sun in Pisces/Cancer which would make an individual prefer to stay in the shadows typically, the native will not be able to. They command respect and being listened to. They can also be a bit stubborn or arrogant at times and definitely prefer having the upper hand. Quarrels with bosses or other figures of authority are also possible. These natives won’t stay silent or put up with disrespect of any sort. They can be quite direct, maybe even blunt but you can’t argue because they tell the truth. One very few dare to do so. They value efficiency and justice. They could make wise and amazing mentors.

Advice: don’t let anybody, be it at a colleague, boss or even spouse, silence your voice or stifle your message. Speak and live your truth. You will encounter resistance but as with anything worth sharing and fighting for, it’s inevitable. You are here to bring order, justice and wisdom. You have a real potential to make a strong leader and move the world. Be confident but also humble. Don’t let either doubt or arrogance stand in the way of your purpose.

Pluto in 1st house - powerful, intense, memorable. You are a person whose presence can intimidate others perhaps without you realising. You can influence people quite easily and make them listen or follow you. You feel a desire to be in control or have an upper hand. There are two contrasting needs intertwining in you - to be a reliable helper for others and potentially save those who cannot save themselves or desperately need your help and the need to seek your own independent path and live for yourself. Life probably placed huge amounts of responsibility onto you. People seek you out asking for your assistance in various things. You could have many family responsibilities or friends who need you so much so that little time is left for you and your own desires. Or on the contrary, you decided to live only for yourself which means you were able to fulfill some of your desires but were still left feeling empty/alone, longing for real, authentic connection. Ultimately you want strong, genuine, heart-felt connections. Deep down you fear you’ll one day remain alone.

Pluto on you Ascendant also means you’ve been closely acquainted with the darker realities of life. Perhaps you’ve never been a true innocent and always had sort of a pragmatic/more pessimistic outlook to life. Or maybe life had a way of robbing you of your rose-coloured glasses early on. You’ve been trough pain, loss, betrayal, crisis. You’ve built a wall to protect yourself and are very careful in letting others in to your inner world. Much like Pluto in 8th house, this could translate to trust issues, probably due to bad experiences in the past. You value honesty and authenticity greatly and typically give as much as you get. You can’t stand vain, flaky or dishonest people.

My advice: avoid turning manipulative or passive-agresive with people if you are pissed. An 11th or 5th house Pluto may understand however an 8th house Pluto may just decide to blacklist you or cross you out of their emotional space forever. Because they can see through it and might interpret it as an affront to the closeness you once shared. Being honest and forward about your problems is best. Even if your words are rough around the edges. The right people will understand you.

Lilith in Gemini - wounds when it comes to communication, the way you present yourself in public. You might feel inhibited when it comes to expressing yourself or feel awkward or even shame for the way you speak or the ideas you hold. Especially if other placements/aspects support this, perhaps a Saturn in 3rd house or a Saturn retrograde.

You have a restless and inquisitive mind, are quite rebellious and can, more often than not, push people’s buttons. If your Gemini in Lilith’s energy is harnessed well you can be quite witty, charming and intriguing to others. Also intellectually curious and progressive.

My advice: learn to polish you communication skills. Balance your authentic, emotional side with your witty/charming outside persona. Avoid resorting to lies and actually choose to open up to people instead of finding ways to slip away.

Personal observation - the sign of Lilith can also tell you what kind of people we are jealous of. What would such a person embody. With Gemini it would mean you are jealous of talkative, outgoing people who make connections easily. With Lilith in Cancer - you are jealous of nurturing, intuitive, emotional people. This could point to the need to hone those same qualities in yourself.

IC (4th house in Cancer) - IC speaks about your early childhood; about the deepest, most private parts of our heart. Things we don’t truly want to admit to ourselves. With the 4th house in Cancer we feel the need to create our own home. Perhaps in childhood we’ve been deprived of it in some way. Perhaps your parents divorced or there was lots of illness/suffering or conflicts. In your adult life you want to create a warm, safe, nurturing, harmonious household where your family truly feels like going home.

IC (4th house) can also tell us about the people we admire. Cancer IC - we admire nurturing, loyal, warm-hearted, intuitive people. Leo IC - we admire those who are bold, courageous, passionate and decisive.

Moon in Aries - some very interesting people to talk to. They are rather bold but not in an obvious way. And they know what they want and fight for it. They definitely value their independence/autonomy and have mind of their own. They can be fiercely protective of those they care about and do a great deal to make them happy. However these people are far from being pushovers and they work tirelessly to achieve their goals. Just tell them your boyfriend doesn’t want you to join college and you’ll get an hour in-depth conversation about how you must be losing your mind (to put it plainly) to even tolerate such a man in your life. What do you mean you’ll forfeit your own desires for a snotty little man like him? Or for anybody else at all? The best they’d do is have both the career and good boyfriend and at worst, they’d still have the career they want minus the boyfriend. There’s definitely this relentless warrior in them that fights to the end if needed. That’s not to say they are confrontational and blunt at all times. In fact, they can be quite funny and a delight to have around. They can surprise even unconventional people with their ideas and outlook on the world.

Their anger is quick and destructive but doesn’t last long. They could or could not be grudgy, depending on other placements . Typically they aren’t.

My advice: just keep being the cool person you are. I honestly admire you.

Venus in Pisces - ah, the innocent idealists in love. Many of my friends have this placement and let me tell you, finding the right person to date turned out to be quite the ordeal. They either attract toxic people who try to control them and end up heart-broken or refuse to date mostly due to shyness or having unrealistic standards. They are kind, giving and sensitive people who want to find true love. If not the kind you see in movies, then close to it.

These people are into fantasies and romance, even if they refuse to admit it to you. Meaning that if they don’t watch romantic movies, they might spend hours making up fantasies about they way they kiss, hug their crush or marry them. Perhaps both.

Creative abilities are also likely. They could be into music or arts.

If you have this placement it’s very important to remember: never allow yourself to be disrespected or taken advantage of. Stand by your principles and boundaries, always. If somebody repeatedly disrespects you, it’s time to let them go. You know it. Don’t accept becoming anybody’s doormat. You deserve the same love, beauty, kindness and acceptance you give to other people.

Venus in Cancer - these people are attractive in many ways. There’s an emotional, warm but also fierce quality to them. They love their family deeply and can be quite the family man/woman ensuring to provide anything and everything their loved ones would need. In youth, however they could be a little frivolous. That’s not to say they’d just date anyone, of course. But they do have a couple of options available to choose from. Getting truly close to them and winning their heart could prove challenging. But once they have chosen you, expect a whole other level of love to unlock and immerse you. They are truly very warm and giving and have a way of spoiling those they love. They value emotional closeness, safety and authenticity.

Advice - find a way to channel your sensitive energy. Write about it in your journal or immerse yourself in a hobby. Being in nature, taking care of animals or meditation could also prove fulfilling.

Mercury in Virgo - the little analysts. These people will notice absolutely everything and quietly judge you in their mind. If you want somebody to do your accounting, call this people. Even if they work in a completely different field, they might do a flawless job. They are all about creating wonderfully detailed excel sheets with zero mistakes in the calculation of budget expanses. They can do very well in exact sciences, like physics, maths or in technology related fields, especially with some Gemini in the mix. They have strong memory and are type to remember the small print. I wouldn’t recommend crossing them as they can have a rather sharp tongue coupled with intelligent and cutting remarks that don’t miss their target. However it usually takes a long time to get there and they have to be very upset.

This is a teacher placement. They can make great mentors as they have a way of explaining things in simple, very understandable terms. If this is a classmate you’d wish they take the place of your class teacher.

They can be a little know-it-all or cocky at times. They don’t like feeling vulnerable and aren’t necessarily emotionally expressive. They prefer a rational approach in communication.

Advice - be a touch less judgmental of others. People aren’t out to get you. And extending your circle of friends/acquaintances could prove rewarding. Also, speak about your feelings with people you trust. People can’t just take a look inside your heart. Tell them how you feel.

Mars conjunction Ascendant - you have a steady, memorable, even forceful presence. You might get reactions out of people simply by looking at them. You have a strong, beautiful and well-built body. You could be quite energetic or interested in physical exercise.

There can be a sexy air to the way you move and present yourself to others. You are naturally attractive. Depending on the sign, you could be confrontational (Aries, Gemini) or exceedingly stubborn (Taurus) etc. Whatever the case you stick up for yourself and can be quite the warrior at times.

My advice: don’t let people disrespect you or talk you down. You deserve to feel loved and accepted exactly the way you are.

Indicators of Daddy Issues in a Natal Chart

these are only a few notable placements but there are many more I haven't listed yet.

I must preface that these are just observations and that you might have these placements, and have a lovely relationship with your father. These are just repetitive placements I see in the charts of those who have daddy issues. Astrology isn’t a one size fits all kind of situation. Enjoy!

Sun Square / Opposite Saturn

There’s emotional distance, or coldness between you and your father. You could have been afraid to disappoint him, so you became hypervigilent or hyperindependent. This could manifest in different ways: your father could’ve been there physically, but emotionally checked out / unavailble, cold, or stoic.

You could’ve felt like you had to be performative around your father because he only praised you or showed you attention when you did something “worth praising”, which could have created a self-worth wound.

Your dad could’ve been overbearing or just totally ignore your boundaries. This could’ve led to you always feeling on guard, watched, invaded, or judged even when you’re alone.

Roles could've totally been flipped, and he acted more like the child, rather than the parent in your upbringing.

This is the placement that attracts partners who are a lot like their fathers, or are older, colder, more rigid, etc.

Sun Square Pluto / Sun Opposite Pluto

You could deal with a lot of power struggles involving your father. He was not just a lot to deal with, meaning his energy or presence could’ve been all consuming and larger than life — he was also just really difficult to please.

Your father could be the reason you struggle with respecting and/or fearing male authority. Sadly, I see this placement in a lot of charts of people whose fathers are real POS’. I mean there’s no other way to put it: these dads suck and do not respect their kids.

Your dad could be a very dominant person, and therefore loud, or just very controlling. In your upbringing he could’ve been controlling over your identity, your beliefs, emotions, heck even your sexuality. Being independent, opinionated, or outspoken led to consequences.

With this placement, you could’ve grown up just knowing your did didn’t like you, you weren't safe with him, or you couldn't trust him and as a result, you have a hard time trusting men in general.

Here’s where things get weird: you attract men and/or partners who mirror your father’s patterns of addiction, negative attitudes, volatility, or similar aggressive behaviors.

Sun Square/Opposite Neptune

Your dad was absent, and if he wasn’t absent he was either living a double life, very deceptive, or emotionally detached from you.

His feelings for you could’ve been confusing for you to understand, so it’s possible you idealized his real intentions for you to feel better, to feel like you have a loving dad (omg I am so sorry :( )

This leads me to my next point, you could’ve daydreamed about having a dad that meets your emotional, or physical needs, and loves you the way you love him.

He sold you on broken promises and illusions. He was the kind of father who showed up once in a blue moon. For some, him just showing up for you was your present for your birthday, or Christmas.

Your father could’ve been an addict, or had drug abuse issues. He could’ve hid this from you for a long time, or he could've been in denial about how bad these problems were.

There could’ve been blurry lines when it came to boundaries with him, and emotional emeshment could’ve happened.

You could’ve honestly felt like you didn’t really know your father because of the different ways he lied to you. His secrets, his lies, his actions, his past — all of these things have negatively impacted you in some way, specifically how you trust others.

10Th House Ruler conjunct/square/opposite Saturn/Pluto

The things your father does has a direct impact on you somehow. His public roles, his reputation, and the things he has done in his past haunt you even if you had nothing to do with his choices.

You’ve could’ve been seen as your father’s kid and referred to as “(father’s name)’s kid” rather than your own name. You were kind of seen as an extension of him, and not your own person.

Your father is known for a good scandal, or shiesty move. Papa could've been a rolling stone, or a crook, and it is what it is. But the trouble is that it feels like YOU are paying for HIS mistakes in life. OR, he could treat you like all his poor decisions were your fault somehow.

He bestowed this serious feeling of doubt in you, and you carry a lot of burdens pertaining to success. You chase success more than the average person, and its because you compare yourself , your work ethic, and your actions to your father’s a lot.

Sun in 8th House

TW: trauma, physical/sexual ab*, CSA

I will quickly gloss over my TW points, but yeah. Trauma with this placement *can* manifest in childhood abuse or csa from your father, stepfather, or significant male figures in your life (If you missed my original disclaimer this is NOT true for all 8th house sun placements).

Your father’s presence was powerful, scary and dominating. It was probably scary to speak up to him because his emotional reactions were like disproportionate to the situation.

Your father project all of his failures and short comings onto you, leaving you with such a heavy burden.

You mistake aggression for love and emotional security.

Saturn Retrograde

When your Saturn is in retrograde natally, this shows an inconsistency in his parenting or him being there for you. You could feel like you never got the proper guidance from your father, or like he was always available for other people when they needed him but was never there for you.

This is also oddly specific but with this placement, your father could have either wanted to have only boys and you were born a girl so that cause friction, or they only wanted girls and you were born male. Same goes for different gender identities, it can feel like this father is not happy with who you are down to your gender.

Mars square / opposite Saturn

This is especially hard for masculine presenting people, but it could be hard for anyone because your father shakes up your concept of what a man is / supposed to be through his actions.

For masculine people, this manifests in blocked masculine energy or becoming unsure of how to express yourself. But usually this placement means you likely grew up around men and grew up in fear of men, so you had a hard time speaking around them, or just being around them in general.

Your father could have been over critical of everything you do, for instance you could be someone who is very flamboyant in nature and he can criticize you for being so animated. Or you can be passionate and expressive, and he can criticize you for being aggressive. He villainized your character to a point where you might not know who you really are because you invested so much of your energy believing in the things that your father may have projected on to you.

This placement to make you an overthinker to the point where you miss out on things because you don't want to ruin anything or you don't want to make mistakes. This is rooted in childhood trauma that should be addressed because you are blocking a lot of fun in your life out of fear that will not just go away.

You could have a hard time expressing your anger or being afraid of your anger because of how you were shamed for having emotions.

You could also attract angry partners, partners that mirror the energy your dad projected onto you, partners who shut you down, partners at gaslight you.

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Sun/Neptune: flings, fear of taking chances, misplaced pessimism/optimism, for for love, self critical, people pleasing, heavy burdens, easy to talk to, head in the clouds, get rich quick schemes, poor money management, belief in faded connections, physically attractive, feeling responsible for family members, social awkwardness, popularity, manipulative father, criminal activity, having a known family, values legacy, body dysmorphia, escapism, substance abuse, searching for a deeper meaning, love for learning, ability to make others feel seen.

Moon/Neptune: goddess energy, casting pearls to swine, social media fame, over sharing, unique fashion style, improper judgement, feeling misunderstood, tattoos that stand out, forceful personality, abandonment issues, shy/reserved, takes on other’s emotional burdens, punching bag for family members (particularly the mother), distant mother, emotionally manipulative mother, confused by your own emotions, changing your mind a lot, moving away from your hometown, feeling imprisoned by circumstances, riding a situation out until the end, naïve in love, loves to be around people, lying, inflated ego, beautiful body, the sexual ideal, obsession with money and power, using your physical body to make money, having the patience to see things through, having unbreakable optimism. 

Venus/Neptune: popular loners, trying a bunch of different ways to make money, the shoulder to lean on, loving your career and becoming the best at what you do, often experiencing burnout, doing things for people you don’t really want to do, getting people to do things for you that they really don’t want to do, self righteous, questionable reputation, very giving nature, attracting leeches, still smiling through the pain, unique voice, analytical, well dressed, collectors, overseas travel, superstitious, always having what you need, not being honest about true intentions, body dysmorphia, ignoring intuition, author/song writing.

Mars/Neptune: masculine boss energy, taboo sex life, people side eyeing your relationship, delusions about making money, overly optimistic, knowing what’s going to trend before it happens, using your voice to make an impact/make money, telling harsh truths, addiction, depression induced by feeling a lack of purpose, bisexuality or having your sexuality questioned, learning how to prioritize, strong faith, loves talking shit, doesn’t mind taking a chance, getting into situations because of others, warrior spirit, trouble letting things go, having shock value, moody personality, creating protective personas, learning to stay committed to the end goal, learning when to make necessary sacrifices.

Mercury/Neptune: having extreme moments that make you question your beliefs, basking in negativity, having to rebuild your life, ignoring the realities of your life, open to new people and opportunities, loves the idea of love but avoids the responsibilities that come with it, quick witted, great writers, using sleep as therapy, values stability or materialism, thinking people are out to get you, naivety, feeling your childhood was taken from you, noticing the little details, hard time excepting other ppls pov, keeper of your word, independent, critical thinker, impulsivity, courageous.

Jupiter/Neptune: contradicting beliefs/ways of life, distrust of authority, ability to always look forward, entitlement, self righteous, no filter, your words having the ability to really relate and reach a persons heart, head in the clouds, showing gratitude for the little things, success against all odds, personality traits that are vastly different, leader, multi talented, homebody, liking to walk away from anything, learning not to take failure personally, having to defend your stance, rigid beliefs, learning to love yourself first, bad judgement about friends, caught up in a scandal involving family or friends, learning to be your own support system.

Asc/Neptune: dwelling on the past, you get up and get it, delirious, your vibe peaking curiosity in others, having hater co workers, friends in high places, knowing you control your destiny, physically fit, intimidating persona, problem solver, craving a love you’ve never seen, don’t work 9/5s or you’ll have multiple jobs, sticking to what you are familiar with, hard time letting go, having the patience to see things through, learning to not run from the spotlight, everyone wanting a piece of your energy, judgmental, rigid beliefs, learning forgiveness, having jarring wake-up calls, allowing yourself to be open to love, givers.

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1h capricorn stellium: im sorry it just gives bad bitch with standards lol. i feel like people think highly of me before they even meet me ??? cause im always to myself but dont mind inserting myself in situations if i want to. i also think i give off "she doesn't wanna be talked to/played with" vibes and honestly i dont mind because i dont really like being social anyways lol. (except when i do 💔😣)

7h leo lilith: love this placement for meeee. i def have more evolving to do when it comes to confidence, but i swear every year i can feel my leo lilith flourishing more and more!! especially throughout my relationships, i can just feel and see myself getting more and more confident in my own skin ughhhh.

1h cap sun: i literally am my brand hello. individuality at its finest. unfortunately for my introverted ass, privacy isnt very prevalent 🫩

10h jupiter: HEAVY on privacy isnt very prevalent. but im lowkey excited to see how this will play out tho! i havent stepped into any careers yet but ive heard good things about what this placement could do! wish me luck lol.

cap rising: SEXY MAMA 😘😘😘.

taurus mars: SEXIER MAMA😩 i def love tapping into my slow and sensual side 🤞🏽 also love my curves yes maam.

venus trine mars: SEXIESTTTT MAMAAAA 😫. im sorry i be feelin so sexy sometimesss, and then both of them are earth ruled like ugghh its PEAK sensuality guys. such a femme fatale placement.

mars trine asc: it really cant get any sexier tbh.

venus conjunct asc/sun: need i say more??? 🤏🏽. however my venus is retrograded which makes it a lil hard when it comes to self love, but that just encourages me to love myself even more!! the happier i am from within, the more i glow 🩷.

lilith trine pluto: lovely harmony between both!! this placement makes it easier to understand and accept my darkness and use it for my own healing! underrated placement for sure. 🖤

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saturn chart ruler: 🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩🫩. literally EVERYTHING is a lesson bruh.

mars 4h: veryyyy rough inner world. i can be very harsh with myself.

sun conjunct chiron: this ruinsss myself esteem sometimes, but it's such a healer placement😭 i love telling people how i handle my insecurities. ive learned a lot over the years about self-acceptance and giving more love to my mind and body, and it heals my heart teaching others how to do the same!! 🩷🩷🩷

saturn 7h: relationship? what's that? doesnt help that my 5h is empty too, sigh. i better be married by 29 😒.

jupiter opposite mars: tug of war between drive and dreams.

neptune 1h: reality? what's that?

ASTRO OBSERVATIONS 

✰  People who have their 5H ruler in the 2H, you can actually make money off them, especially when you refine your skills. 

✰  If cancer is the crybaby then Leo is the bratty, whiny mischievous kid. 

(pain → power) 𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 I've been thinking about my pluto square mercury aspect and how in a previous post I stated that I felt like with that square I used this aspect in a way where it would make people uncomfortable (like talking about sex in the middle of a dinner or cursing at my professional office job LMAOOO).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 Squares will always cause friction and its about redirecting the energy (my pluto is square sun as well and also my ascendant). But in general, I realized that the power pluto holds is in timed SILENCE and that's where there's a difference between making someone uncomfortable versus them being intimidated in a way that is producing respect.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 think about how we all stand up in SILENCE when a judge walks in or how the CEO sits at the head of the table in meeting. Pluto aspects are all about commanding attention through action (and mere presence) rather than words FIRST. And then when it is time to speak, it makes that even more significant if its well-timed and carefully thought out.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 pluto-mercury aspects can gain respect through this deliberate pause, almost as though waiting for others to catch up to a deeper level of understanding. Instead of talking so much in my relationships and interpersonal interactions (mercury in the 7h), I forced my mercurial ass to STOP and OBSERVE and listen and most importantly, slow down. and that drastically changed the way I interacted with people (especially my coworkers) with my pluto in the 10h.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 in terms of redirecting energy, think about it like this: pluto is where you take your power back, where you exude that power. The planet is how that power presents itself (venus, in relationships, mercury in your words, sun in your personality) and the houses are where the energy is going to be present the most.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 For example, if you’ve got Pluto in the 3rd House conjunct Mercury, it’s not about overpowering (pluto) with words (mercury). it’s about channeling them with intention. Instead of letting that intense truths dominate the convo, you can use it to become a voice that challenges, empowers, and heals. Maybe you grew up feeling unheard or silenced (common Pluto 3h themes) But now, instead of staying quiet, you use that to fuel you. You dive into the taboo, bring hidden truths into the light, and transform discomfort into power. Your words become a force for change because they come from a place of raw honesty.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 It’s about harnessing that Plutonian depth through Mercury’s words, Venus's charisma, Mar's drive, Neptune's spirituality etc and knowing when to speak and when to hold back. Use that energy intentionally, so it doesn’t control you. you control it.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 its about balance because I've said before that with pluto-sun aspects especially, you feel like you're transforming so frequently, its like your old self sheds over and over not in the span of a year, but in months, in weeks you might have drastically altered (pluto) the way your leadership, ego, will power, creativity, vitality, purpose and identity (sun) function. It's all about deciding who does and who does NOT get to see all the multifaceted sides of you. Not everyone deserves to see your passion, your art, your ideas on full display!

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 pluto-moon and it's all about transforming (pluto) your responses, habit patterns, feelings, receptivity, sensitivity, the way you nurture (moon). Its about deciding who does and who does NOT get to get a reaction out of you. Make your emotions (moon) carry fucking VALUE (pluto).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 Pluto is said to rule all that is hidden, unseen, or buried, including secrets, undercover work, strategic planning, and the roots of plants. think about the value of the unseen, the way we see the end result and the roses are blooming but we don't see the roots stretching and growing and making space. Think about gold deposits nestled within rocks or scattered through riverbeds. To extract either, you have to be willing to dig below the surface, undergo intense transformation, and maybe even navigate through darkness.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 Think about the value IN SILENCE. Think about the how things (people, plants, plans) grow in silence, how we pray and reflect in silence, how we pause in those spaces of silence, how silence sometimes can be the best reaction and answer. think about how hurtful the silent treatment feels? how it hurts? thats the power of silence.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 That pause can create intrigue or even foster respect if you have pluto aspects to your personal planets. Instead of making people feel uneasy (when we use the energy poorly), our silence draws them in, making the conversation both challenging and magnetic (when we utilize its power).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 When we hide things its usually because it deserves some form of protection or value, no? So people with pluto aspects, why would let you just anyone see you mad, just anyone see you upset, why would you lash out at any little comment? Why why why why? That is your fucking energy and you can make it PRICELESS (think about the gold buried beneath the surface, would you so easily offer that up?). You think beyonce is sitting there responding to every hate comment in the comment section? No baby she is getting PAID!

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 pluto-ascendant and it's all about transforming (pluto) your outlook on life, outward behavior, self-awareness, self-concern, build, health, appearance, individuality (the 1h). Who are you gonna give the time of day to? you need to STAND UP.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 pluto-mercury and it's all about transforming (pluto) your rational mind, thinking process, all forms of communication, the way you move in your neighborhood and local spaces, the way you travel throughout spaces. It's about deciding who does and who does NOT get to hear what you have to say. It's about deciding and trusting your gut on when it's best to sit back and observe or take advantage of that split second pause in the conversation to circle back to you. It's about deciding on how you will react when someone talks over you..

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 pluto-mars and it's all about transforming (pluto) your aggressiveness, assertiveness, initiative, independence, the way you pioneer your ideas, the way you compete (mars). Accept that those themes in your life will be CONSTANTLY shifting. And that doesn't make your flaky or wishy-washy or indecisive, it's what you were meant to do. TO be AND to act and start over! and to do that over and over and leveling up every time you do. (that's also why in synastry/composite, I feel like when there is a mars-pluto aspect it gives off those vibes of those couples who post before and after pics and they look so fucking sexy, strong and just good as fuck together after).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 pluto-venus and it's all about transforming (pluto) your forms of affection, attraction, aesthetics, desires for beauty, contracts, balance, values, harmony, relationships (venus). You can't be out here dating just anybody! You are especially prone to energy vampires! You better mind your pussy (lmaoo, but no I'm being so serious... people with this aspect will walk into someones life and level them up and then the other person will just take and take and take)

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 pluto-jupiter and it's all about transforming (pluto) your perspective on growth, philosophy, your relationship with higher education, long distance traveling, communication, expansion (jupiter).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 pluto-saturn and it's all about transforming (pluto) your structures in life, your definitions on your values and limits in life, restrictions (external and internal, self imposed and imposed by others), your perspective on time, the use of it, your maturity, your authority, your relationship to authority itself (saturn).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 pluto-neptune and it's all about transforming (pluto) your imagination, psychic sensitivity, confusion, fears, spirituality, your artistic side.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 pluto-uranus and it's all about transforming (pluto) your uniqueness, individuality, hopes, wishes, your humanitarian causes, your social circle, groups you are in, your ideas on what revolution truly looks like, on what reform looks like, on upheaval in your personal life and also the collective.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 there will be signs/ triggers when its time to transform. It can all feel very subconscious until you actually pay attention. For example, I have a 10h pluto square 7h sun aspect. Every time something major was about to shift with my career or professional title (10h) there was a disruption (square) in my relationships (7h), usually a break up, whether a friendship or romantic connection. And it wasnt until later when I was looking thru pics that I noticed that my hair would be cut or dyed right before any big changes (that sun in the 7h , and also my sun at a libra degree= beauty, aesthetics).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 now that I know that, I know that whenever I have the urge to change something drastically about my image or there's change in my public life there is going to be an effect on my relationships, beauty and aesthetic and me knowing it will not stop it but with the square I can do what I can to make it be less abrasive, for example: taking preemptive steps that are transformative but gentler, so if know these areas are gonna be impacted, then making sure im checking in more with my relationships (7h), already thinking ahead of smaller less drastic changes in my beauty routine that will still make me feel good, owning the change in general, knowing that the ways I was working before will no longer apply in the next version of myself im stepping into <3

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 And sometimes there is no time to be catching people up! like to you it will feel natural because its always been like that but then people around you might be like damn they're acting brand new all of a sudden tf? LMAOOO but its not a facade! Its just this constant cycle of of transformation. That's why you have to SHOW people how you are to be treated. DON'T expect to just get it. How different do you think people would react if a judge walked in cracking jokes or with poor posture or with a timid voice? NO. they have to be in control (pluto) of their presentation (sun).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 and thats not me saying force a different personality, thats not me saying pretend to be someone you're not, thats not me saying to talk to people crazy or be an asshole. Work with your own energy. I am a very loud, energetic and talkative person. But when I was like that with everyone when I was younger and just blurted what came to mind I was not feeling respected and rightfully so bc why would someone pay attention to someone who has a comment for EVERYTHING... When I realized that people had to earn to see that diff side of me, that it was special to share that curious, eager side of me with my close friends and loved ones, with people who I feel safe and already have a connection with BUT that in general in other settings there was a time and place where I had to finding that sweet spot between leaning in with the direct intensity of pluto-mercury and knowing when to step back, letting a little silence do the talking.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 and I am not saying it's going to feel nice or be easy. It’s not. We know Pluto isn’t just intense stares across the room. It’s also about trauma, change, death, the ugly shit that happens behind closed doors that no one wants to talk about or look at. Pluto-Mercury and yes, people are going to be thrown off, might give you shocked glances, or Pluto-Ascendant and yes, people are going to see you in ways they never anticipated, shaken by the sheer force of your presence. They might look at you and wonder, What are they holding back? Or What is their fucking deal?

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 For trines and sextiles, this energy may feel less harsh or happen more naturally, but it is still very strong. With Pluto in a trine or sextile to another planet, people want to be around you because theres this strength in a quiet way. they may see your Plutonian traits as strengths instead of threats.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 on the other hand, squares create tension, and there is a mix of curiosity and also discomfort. People might feel drawn to you yet uneasy at the same time. Some ppl might see you as a force for change or a force to be reckoned with, but then other ppl may feel challenged or intimidated, its like you're revealing truths that are both enlightening and a bit unsettling. its basically like, they just don't wanna see it, they want pluto out their face LMAOOO.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 When Pluto's energy comes to the surface through conjunctions, it can't be avoided at all. People may either be impressed by how smart you are or feel defensive around you because you seem to show them secret parts of themselves. You show them the shit about themselves they want to ignore or see as "taboo" This can make people admire you or feel uncomfortable, depending on how they react.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 and that's why you have to be able to command respect and learn how to protect yourself because even though you can't control how other people react completely you can get them to second guess themselves and think before they try to hurt you or come at you. you can get them to think about they should approach you versus just a rash and sudden reaction (which is what people usually have to anyting plutonian, whether people or pluto ruled things like blood, power, secrets, intense emotions).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 That's why it's so important to be confident and set clear limits (instead of leaving people wondering, oh I wonder what she would do if I did this? leave them thinking, "oh I know for sure that I will not get a reaction I like if I do this.")

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 And I don't mean this to be a bully or an abuser and have people scared of your reactions! bc plutonians know what it feels like to suffer at the hands of others. All I am saying is that when Plutonian energy is present, people are less likely to behave impulsively when you command respect. you can influence others to think twice before responding hastily, as this energy already tends to elicit powerful emotions. It's all about projecting an air of seriousness that makes people around you pause and think before they dare to challenge or undermine you (and again, I mean this in situations where your emotional, physical, and mental safety is at risk).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 tw: sexual harassment. For example, my cousin has a pluto-mars conjuction in the 8th house and she has been sexualized all her entire life for her body type. As kids/teens when we would go out together I use to be the one to stand in front of her and tell grown ass men to fuck off. She would have guy friends that would always crack jokes that she would let slide and then one day he tried something when they were alone and she was shocked, betrayed and angry. He felt comfortable enough to do that and she was still very young and unable to be in her full power. But her now? A friend kissed her without her consent once when they were at the club and she slapped the fuck outta him and cut him off. She is QUICK to check any disrespect and it makes people second guess. Her energy shows she is prone to extreme reactions (pluto) on matter related to her body and sexuality (8h) mixing with the desire and lust of others (men), especially men.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 Another example, my friend has Venus in the 10th house trine Pluto in the 2nd house and she naturally attracts a lot of attention (10h) for her beauty and charisma (venus). But in the past she has gotten in relationships with partners who are jealous of that attention she is getting, who desire to control her (pluto) bc of her beauty but also shame her for it and it really affected her self worth and her perspective on her own values (2h). Unlike squares or conjunctions, it felt easier or more natural to redirect that energy once she transformed all the venusian themes of her life. Did she get hurt? Yes. but she bounced back in a diff way. She had a big change in how she saw her own worth and what she deserves when Pluto's power was reclaimed in her 2h. Relationships that were bad for her and tried to control how she looked had caused her a lot of pain and made her doubt her worth. But Pluto is also the key to getting power back. She had to handle these shady and sometimes scary situations, which made her stronger and helped her learn more and care more about herself (2h) than what other people think of her and her reputation (10h).

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 its not going to be pretty or fun when you have to transform into someone new. There is a lot of grief and mourning, but trust me when I say you will be so proud of yourself. When I think about the pluto-sun aspect in my chart, the pluto-ascendant, pluto in the 10h, and how it had manifested for me: my loving father dying when I was 7, other loving and safe father figures like grandfathers and uncles dying years after, having an abusive stepdad, pushing my mattress against my door when he was home because my door didnt have a lock and he was crazy, having to stand up to him in court, defending my mother, getting scolded by authority figures, getting scolded by the judge LMAOOO and telling me he was gonna have me removed from the room pls, getting shushed, getting told to be quiet, getting told my needs didn't matter. When I think about ALL OF THAT SHIT and how I took all of that I used that to drive me, to push me to study, to get a degree, to move out, to learn how to defend myself.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 on days where there are power struggles (pluto) in my job (10h) and im getting riled up i have to stop and be like why am letting this one person, an acquaintance, someone I honestly dont even respect lol, get a reaction outta me? out of all of the fucking shit I went thru u think im gonna give u the satisfaction of seeing me crash out? FUCK NO.

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 and that's really what it is. where is pluto in your chart? How are you reclaiming your power? How are you making sure you don't become another hurt person that causes another hurt person? How are you going to break the cycle? How are you going to make sure that your pain doesn't define you and that the trauma you went through doesn't control how you act in life? Where are you giving your power away? Where are your words of wisdom?

𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 It's about putting together the parts of yourself that other people have tried to break and making them strong. Fears, anger, and a sense of helplessness are all parts of the shadow that you need to face and decide that they will no longer rule you. For me, was about standing up to people in power who tried to silence, to my own self-doubt, and to a home that seemed to tell me I didn't matter. But now? No one can make me feel smaller than them. Confront what makes you uncomfortable and take your power back.

TW: death, 18+ topics

↠ 𝑃𝑙𝑢𝑡𝑜 𝑖𝑛 1𝑠𝑡 ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑛𝑠𝑖𝑡 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑒𝑚𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑜𝑟 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑟 𝑎𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑡 𝑎 𝑠𝑢𝑑𝑑𝑒𝑛 𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑑𝑒𝑎𝑡ℎ𝑠. 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑚𝑎𝑦 𝑎𝑙𝑠𝑜 𝑏𝑒 𝑖𝑛𝑣𝑜𝑙𝑣𝑒𝑑 𝑖𝑛 𝑠𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑎𝑐𝑐𝑖𝑑𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑠. 𝐵𝑦 𝑔𝑜𝑑'𝑠 𝑔𝑟𝑎𝑐𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑠𝑒 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡 𝑏𝑒 𝑎𝑛 𝑎𝑑𝑗𝑎𝑐𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑖𝑛𝑣𝑜𝑙𝑣𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑠𝑢𝑐ℎ 𝑎𝑠 𝑡𝑎𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎 𝑏𝑢𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 ℎ𝑖𝑡 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑜𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑟𝑜𝑎𝑑, 𝑜𝑟 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑖𝑛 𝑎 𝑟𝑜𝑜𝑚 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑛 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑔𝑒𝑡𝑠 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑐𝑘𝑒𝑑. 𝑂𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑏𝑟𝑢𝑖𝑠𝑒𝑠 𝑖𝑛 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑐𝑒𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑖𝑑𝑛'𝑡 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑛 𝑛𝑜𝑡𝑖𝑐𝑒 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 ℎ𝑎𝑝𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑑.

↠ 𝑃𝑙𝑢𝑡𝑜 𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑗𝑢𝑛𝑐𝑡 𝑁𝑒𝑝𝑡𝑢𝑛𝑒 𝑜𝑟 𝑖𝑛 𝑃𝑖𝑠𝑐𝑒𝑠 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑒𝑠 𝑜𝑛𝑒 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑐𝑢𝑟𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑑𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑚𝑠 𝑎𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑡 𝑙𝑜𝑠𝑠, 𝑑𝑒𝑎𝑡ℎ, 𝑖𝑛𝑗𝑢𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑠 𝑜𝑟 𝑖𝑛 𝑑𝑎𝑟𝑘 𝑠𝑝𝑎𝑐𝑒𝑠

↠ 𝑃𝑙𝑢𝑡𝑜 𝑖𝑛 7𝑡ℎ ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑔𝑖𝑣𝑒𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑚𝑜𝑠𝑡 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑝𝑙𝑖𝑐𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑑, 𝑙𝑖𝑓𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑙𝑖𝑓𝑒 (𝑜𝑟 𝑎𝑡 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑐𝑖𝑒𝑣𝑒 𝑖𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑤𝑎𝑦). 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑚𝑎𝑦 𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑢𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑓𝑒𝑎𝑟 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑜𝑓𝑓𝑒𝑑 𝑏𝑦 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑡𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑠 💀

↠ 𝑃𝑙𝑢𝑡𝑜 𝑡𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑒 𝑚𝑎𝑟𝑠 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑒𝑠 𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑠𝑢𝑐ℎ 𝑎𝑛 𝑢𝑛𝑎𝑣𝑜𝑖𝑑𝑎𝑏𝑙𝑒 𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑛𝑐𝑒. 𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑑 𝑜𝑓 𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑠𝑜𝑛 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑔𝑒𝑡 𝑔𝑜𝑜𝑠𝑒𝑏𝑢𝑚𝑝𝑠 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑖𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑑 𝑎𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑐𝑟𝑜𝑠𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑟𝑜𝑜𝑚

↠ 𝐼𝑛 𝑠𝑦𝑛𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑟𝑦, 𝑃𝑙𝑢𝑡𝑜 𝑜𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑀𝑒𝑟𝑐𝑢𝑟𝑦 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑝𝑙𝑢𝑡𝑜 𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑡𝑛𝑒𝑟 𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑡𝑜𝑙𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑜𝑓 ℎ𝑜𝑤 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑜𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑒𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑚𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑣𝑒𝑠. 𝐼𝑡 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑎𝑙𝑠𝑜 𝑏𝑒 𝑎 𝑐𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑎𝑟𝑔𝑢𝑚𝑛𝑒𝑡𝑠 𝑖𝑛𝑠𝑝𝑖𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑠𝑡 𝑟𝑒𝑚𝑎𝑟𝑘𝑠 𝑡𝑜 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑜𝑢𝑡 𝑜𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑚. 𝑇ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑒𝑐ℎ 𝑎𝑔𝑔𝑟𝑎𝑣𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢, 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑖𝑛𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑎𝑑 𝑜𝑓 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎𝑏𝑙𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑠𝑜𝑟𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑠 𝑜𝑢𝑡 ℎ𝑢𝑟𝑡𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑑𝑠 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡 𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑤 𝑜𝑢𝑡. 𝐼𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑐𝑎𝑛 𝑏𝑒 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑘𝑒𝑑 𝑜𝑛 𝑜𝑟 𝑖𝑓 𝑜𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑎𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑠 𝑖𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑠𝑦𝑛𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑟𝑦 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑠𝑜𝑓𝑡𝑒𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠, 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑐𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑏𝑒 𝑎 𝑝𝑜𝑤𝑒𝑟𝑓𝑢𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑚𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑜𝑛𝑒. 𝑊ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒𝑖𝑛 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑑𝑠 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑐𝑎𝑙𝑚 𝑠𝑡𝑜𝑟𝑚𝑠 𝑖𝑛 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑑, 𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑏𝑒 𝑚𝑒𝑠𝑚𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑧𝑒𝑑 𝑎𝑛𝑑 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑠𝑠 𝑡𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑤𝑎𝑦 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑎𝑘 𝑡𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢. 𝑇ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑔𝑒𝑡𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑔𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔. 𝑆𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 𝑤𝑎𝑦 𝑜𝑓 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔 ℎ𝑎𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑜𝑜𝑘𝑒𝑑 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑎 𝑑𝑟𝑢𝑔.