#sun opposite pluto

When one partner repeatedly ghosts, breadcrumbs, is hot and cold, have one foot in and one foot out, out of fear of rejection, vulnerability, commitment or loss of freedom and autonomy, they are considered a runner. When the other partner pushes for communication, connection, and applies pressure to the runner, they are considered a chaser. Chasing can be energetic which includes, constantly mentally ruminating over the runner's actions, last conversation and interaction, imagining scenarios of reconciliation, checking for signs and synchronicities, checking their phone for missed calls or text messages. Constantly talking about the runner to family, and or friends, getting/watching tarot or synastry readings about the runners current actions or the future of the connection, constantly calling and texting even when you get no response or when response is sporadic. This is different from limerence where the connection is imaginary, because the runner and chaser may actually BE in a relationship with one another, regardless of popular opinion, if you have been involved physically, and have emotional attachment to one another even if it is not spoken, it is still considered a relationship, however serious or unserious one or both parties consider it to be. Physical and emotional attachment is still a energetic contract and still valid and the laws of relational karma still apply. Runners may start to chase once they sense the chaser energetically detaching which results in a push pull dynamic that can be neverending if Saturn is in hard aspect in the chart. Runners do not run in every connection they are in, which is why I am not going to apply this to the natal chart. I have post for non committal placements but right now I am focusing on the synastry because different connections bring out different energies in us based off of the aspects the chart. Certain aspects to our planets can invoke either the runner or chaser in us all. I have been on both sides of this. If you feel you are in a runner/chaser dynamic and you are the chaser, it is because your persons rejection may be triggering something within you that has to do with abandonment and trying to rewrite a past story that has happened that we do not want to happen again, but the emotions that it brings up for you is the what really needs to be worked through. If that is not the case they may be triggering how you truly feel about yourself, as you may tie your self worth to how you are treated, or seen by others. You may be chasing approval or have a need to feel chosen to feel valid. For most of us it is both of these things. If you are the runner, the connection to this person may make you feel exposed or vulnerable, the feelings they bring up within you may make you uncomfortable so you may pull away to regain the upper hand or a sense of control. You may have been abandoned yourself and or feel so deeply for the chaser that you fear their abandonment, so you do it first. You may feel unworthy of their love and devotion and it may bring up questions of how worthy you are of being loved. You may have secrets, or things that you are ashamed of or feel like the chaser may judge you for or may not approve of, or leave you for. You may feel like if you keep your distance, you can control the pace, outcome and intensity of the connection. The one thing that the chaser and runner have in common is that they both want: CONTROL. Runner/Chaser dynamics are intense especially if there are oppositions because the energy tends to flip, and the roles reverse where the Chaser becomes the Runner, these are the Breakup to Makeup dynamics. Below are a few of the aspects I have noticed studying countless charts, with this dynamic. Per usual look at the condition of you and your partners charts and their aspects separately before looking at the synastry.

Sun opposite/square Venus

Sun opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite

Venus conjunct/opposite/square Pluto

Venus conjunct/opposite/square Lilith

Venus opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite

Venus opposite/square Neptune Synastry/Composite

Mars opposite/square Neptune

Mars conjunct/opposite/square Pluto Synastry/Composite

Mars opposite/square Moon

Mars opposite/square Lilith

Mars opposite/square Uranus

Mars opposite/square Saturn

Pluto opposite/square Sun

Uranus 2nd/4th/7th House Synastry/Composite

Moon conjunct/opposite/square Uranus

Saturn 4th/7th/8th House Synastry/Composite

Pluto 7th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite

Neptune 7th/8th/12 House Synastry/Composite

North Node in the 4th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite

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What happens when the chaser stops chasing?

The majority of runners are not conscious of their behavior and the damage it causes to their person or the connection, they are just reacting and playing their part in the story the stars have written. If they were self aware they would see they are just running from themselves, their own feelings, their own shadow. Usually the chaser stops chasing when they have been triggered to heal what caused them to chase in the first place. That's when the energetic cord snaps and the runner no longer has the same control over the dynamic. The runner always runs back because the intent is never to stay away, it is to ground themselves and regain control. Once that is taken away, they are just left with themselves, the fear of what they ran from in the first place which is abandonment becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. But instead of leaning into what this is triggering and try to heal it, they begin to chase and the chaser who by then is awakened to the toxicity of the runners ways, runs from the connection, if the chaser takes the runner back, the runner will just run again, especially if they have not healed what caused them to run in the first place. They are not coming back because they have finally chosen the chaser or realized how much the chaser or the connection meant to them, they are coming back to feel in control again. If they can win back the chaser this validates that for them. Understand and overstand, it is chess not checkers. It is only a game if two people are playing. To no longer be the pawn you must remove yourself from the board, energetically, mentally, emotionally and physically. A dynamic where you have to wonder where you stand and makes you question your worth is not built to last or sustainable, what it is, is a lesson.

Stay Lifted,

Madison 🕊️✨

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Sun-Pluto Aspects Natal: The Girl Who Would Grow Up To Rule The Underworld

Sun conjunct Pluto , Sun sextile Pluto , Sun square Pluto, Sun trine Pluto, Sun opposite Pluto

written by #astrolocherry

When the Sun and Pluto form an aspect, we are viewing an individual who is a galactic tunnel reaching from the beginning of solar illumination into the gates of darkness, the final departure of Pluto. In this eclipsing personality, radiance is a shadow dance. What feels to the individual like repeated or cyclic burnouts throughout life are the side effects of ceremonious ego deaths and rebirths. The light of the world fades, she feels herself disintegrate and explode in a showcase of solar flares across the whole heavens. She often becomes accustomed to death’s grip, and at times it is even a romanticised handholding with Hades. She can scare herself with what she may be capable of more than anyone or anything else does.

Emerging adulthood tends to be a difficult, though liberating period of life, full of vast and immense inner changes that prepare her for what lies ahead. Everyone who is born with the Sun and Pluto in aspect will express these qualities entirely uniquely and in accordance with the rest of the birth chart.

In the archetypal realm, she is the descendant of the Lord of The Underworld. For some individuals, this symbolic iteration could be figurative or literal. She may inherit genealogical sicknesses or psychological chaos, ancestral patterns, and unresolved generational wounds from the father, or such challenges that become a result of the experiences of growing up with the exposure, or the direct effects that these induced through him. Read the full text here:

SUN OPPOSITE PLUTO

Desiring positions of authority and power is innate with this aspect. These feelings are subconscious, which makes it difficult to understand or explore what these emotions truly mean. People with this aspect need to be in control, but also act on their own unique set of rules. They often go up against authority figures and face frequent power struggles. These types are particularly good at persuading people to be on their side. If someone goes up against them, they’ll come back the next day with a crowd of support. They refuse to back down and will never admit to being wrong. It can be hard for them to understand why other people aren’t connecting with their perspectives. Being too forceful and domineering with their opinions is an attribute that often leads to conflict. Figuring out the root need for their desire to be in control will aid them in the process of transformation.

Awwww big love to you too! It's no bother, sorry to get back to you so late haha. I have this placement so I feel well equipped to explain it

Sun In 8th House :

The sun represents our individuality, self expression, ego, and will. It shines a light wherever it is in the birth chart. The house/sign that it's in gets illuminated and put on display for ourselves and others, it shines very brightly and can be tightly wound to the way we express ourselves and/or are perceived by others.

This can be a struggle when in the 8th house because it is where we keep our secrets and want to retain a sense of privacy. It's the most vulnerable and intimate parts of us that we prefer to keep to ourselves or people we trust deeply. It's the part of ourselves that undergoes the raw experience of death, transformation, and rebirth. when the sun is here, it acts like a giant, bright, beaming light onto this close and raw part of our chart that many people are able to keep hidden. think of it like a spotlight that gets shown onto the raw parts of you for the entire world to see. These people often have their secrets and private life exposed no matter how they try to avoid it. people seem to feel entitled to always be in their business and give unsolicited advice, judgements, and opinions to them. especially if the native is a woman, a lot of people can have opinions on her sexuality. she can be seen as provocative or at the least just a whole lot of people "know" things about her sex life (a rumor about body count, a bad/good sex story, nudes being leaked [if in pisces or aspected to neptune], sexuality on display in an almost unavoidable way). Some of this judgement can be casted on by her father as the sun is the "father" in astrology.

However, as the light (sun) shines brightly for the world to see, this includes the native as well. people with this placement have a remarkable gift of self transformation and metamorphosis. They are often aware of the deepest and darkest parts of themselves at a degree not many people are and have a great drive and determination to become the most evolved version of themselves constantly. This awareness sometimes comes without choice, and if they try to avoid it or ignore it it can fester into an inflated ego or power issues. this only comes when the native blocks the transformation journey their soul is destined to take. They are destined to be born, die, and then be reborn many many times in this single lifetime. They take their own self discovery very seriously and unraveling the mysteries of the self tend to be their main objective in this lifetime. These people are the kinds of people who you stop talking to then a year later they are a completely different version of themselves. it is almost impossible for these people to remain the same, as their entire will to life is to change!

I saw your post , I found it very accurate will there be all pluto aspects in theme ?

If you would do , could you do sun opp pluto next ?

Sun Opposition Pluto Aspect

Short Description:

- A need for control and dominance over others especially in close relationships

- Controlling nature can cause issues in relationships

- Can self-sabotage in relationships

- Can come across as intimidating and overbearing to others

- Can attract domineering and assertive people and partners into your life that test your authority

- Can be emotionally manipulative to get your way or what you want

- Wants to appear as successful, powerful and ‘perfect’ to others

- Wants to control what others think of them

- Can impose your opinions and beliefs onto others

- High expectations for themselves and others

- Often transforms and changes their identity to be a more improved version of themselves

- Power struggles will continue to appear in your life until you learn to listen to others and release your need for control

- Can attract people with the above qualities