#venus conjunct pluto

It is VITAL for Venus-Pluto placements (esp Venus conjunct / square Pluto) to stop prioritizing seeing the good in others, while simultaneously ignoring the very obvious red flags in them.

Something about your energy naturally draws the most unhinged people into your orb, and depending on how mature or "evolved" you are as a person, you might like this attention at first, but these people that are coming into your life are usually very karmic and are siphoning energy, time, and resources from you while you are willingly letting them.

No hate, no shade, and no judgment, but you are too damn nice, and that's the problem. And if you don't think that you are too nice, you struggle with boundaries or have in the past. You have to learn that is not your responsibility or obligation to fix people, and to mend anyone's wounds. You know how to bring in love and transformation into somebody's life, but you have to remember not to sacrifice yourself.

You will also naturally attract a lot of plutonian-like relationships where you could be prone to overgiving and under receiving. It's so important that when you enter a commitment, you take it slow so that people can really earn you and earn the best parts of you like your loyalty and your sexuality or your devotion, etc. people could try to control you, upset you, or use you and then blame you for having a problem with it🤷🏽‍♀️

Basically, stop giving more than you are receiving because with your placement(s), people will take and take and take and take. Crying about it or begging someone to change will never change the situation and eventually, Venus-pluto person will have to leave or accept things for what they are (don't ever do that).

Venus-pluto aspects NEED to develop a strong relationship with self-repect and leave when it's bad rather than waiting for it to be "good" again, otherwise people will smell your insecurities and use them directly against you in the worst ways.

There are certain synastry aspects that create, initiate, sustain, and eventually bring a relationship to its final point. This process is so captivating that those influenced by Neptune perceive it with a grand, romanticized imagination; those influenced by Mars see it as a thrilling adventure; and those influenced by Venus have already lit their scented candles in a corner, setting the stage as if to enjoy a gentle spring breeze. None of these feelings are wrong. Or perhaps they are but one truth remains these aspects present you with pain, then step aside to watch how you 'communicate' with it. Remember, the aspects mentioned are highly specific.

Neptune Conjunct Ascendant + Neptune in Aspect to Other Personal Planets in Synastry

Neptune conjunct Ascendant synastry is always defined by a sense of familiarity. But there is something special here. Beyond Neptune making an aspect to the Ascendant, it also forms a distinct aspect with the personal planets. This is where the 'fantasizing' will continue to a certain point, and then... it will bring awareness.

'I had dreamed so much when I saw you that now... I don't recognize you.'

The romance and affection brought by the Neptune-Ascendant aspect eventually give way to a long face when you see them (the Neptune person), restless shifting, and constantly sweeping your important issues under the rug. Because there is no softness here. Yet, there is also no argument, violence, fight, or abuse. Only uncertainty. And believe me, uncertainty is just as bad as abuse or violence. Because this harms you directly. It’s a perception as if your mind is constantly playing games, as if you are the only one looking through the wrong window in your relationship. This is frightening, inexplicable, and harmful.

Venus Conjunct Pluto + The Venus Person Having Mutable Sign Placements in Their Natal Chart

You (the Venus person) are the one who softens everything uncontrollable between you, and they (the Pluto person) are the ones who can never deny this lack of control but make things difficult. This happens in a typical Venus-Pluto relationship and can even define the relationship's very identity. You might perceive these couples as: 'They share deep things with each other and don't involve anyone around them.'

'We are more worried that they will leave each other while they are fighting [than they are].' 'They experience their private moments only when it's just the two of them, yet their fights are always in front of people.'

But what if the Venus person has strong mutable placements in their natal chart?

This is what creates a breaking point. Venus, whom Pluto is dependent on, now reveals a sense of fluidity. While one day they are dizzy with passion, the next day you might see them avoiding Pluto so that they cannot be reached. The toxic part is that Pluto is drawn even more to this duality. Pluto, playing the most obsessed role in the Venus + Pluto relationship, transforms its 'heavy' love into a more dangerous form of romance by trying to adapt to Venus's fluidity.

Moon Opposite Mars + 8th/12th House Overlays

Do you know how the sensitivity of a touch heightens passion? Have you ever tried it? How an instinctive desire surges within you from just a touch on the back? Moon-Mars synastry is here, and it will show you exactly that. How you (the Moon person) feel affectionate within Mars's enthusiasm, and how you fear them when Mars is enraged. If you have a positive Moon placement (a natal chart where the Moon is positioned 'comfortably'), you will have unconditional compassion for Mars. The same applies to the Mars person's placement. Let’s look at this synastry where emotions and anger flow rapidly through the layers of the 8th and 12th houses. This is an overwhelming reality you wish to forget. They love each other. But the places where they touch one another hurt. The fights wound your own childhood (the Moon person’s). Every word spoken to you returns to that child like a slap.

Mars Opposite/Square Ascendant + Lilith Synastry

That one person from whose gaze, touch, and warm conversations you derive the most pleasure. You may experience both softness and harshness, yet some feelings seem to hang suspended in the air. As if something is missing... That is where Lilith enters. She will complete what is missing, but from a perverse angle. There is nothing worse than harboring a sense of hatred toward someone you are so deeply attracted to. It hurts. In the room, there is only desire and rage; nothing else remains. And you watch helplessly from outside the room. You cannot enter and bring order to these feelings, because it is out of your hands. With every event that unfolds, you will find yourself justifying the desire a little, and the rage a little.

Mars Square Pluto + The Pluto Person Having Aquarius/Leo Placements in Their Natal Chart

That relationship where the window of violence is wide open. For the first time, a Pluto that 'does not want to change' feels so uncomfortable in this role that they may become hostile toward Mars. Mars is confused, because from the very beginning, they have been trying to figure out a Pluto they cannot physically resist. Pluto is highly restless and active but has no idea what they are doing. Do they want the relationship or not? Perhaps the roles in the relationship have shifted. While Pluto is usually the immobile side the one who can always measure the situation and take calm steps if necessary in this relationship, they are the side that doesn't know what to do, gets bored, and ultimately runs away.

gif: jae stephens - 'Afterbody' m/v

Wherever your LILITH is placed, that's where you could follow controversy, for example, if you have LILITH in 5th house, you could like a controversial actor or music artist.

Having SATURN in the same house as another planet/planets can also suppress the effects of that planet, not just the house, if the person decides to not work with it

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(These are based on my personal experience/observation)

* I differentiate sex appeal and god/goddess appeal (which I will make another post of :)*

*The following aspects are what I have & seen from other's charts and was able to witness their little superpower lol*

Sun/Rising/MC/Venus/Mars/Mercury conjunct Lilith

Sun/Rising/MC/Venus/Mars/Mercury conjunct Pluto

Sun/Rising/MC/Venus conjunct Mars

Sun/Rising/MC/Venus/Mars/Mercury conjunct Uranus

Sun/Rising/Moon/MC/Venus/Mars/Mercury/Saturn/Uranus/Pluto/Lilith/in the 1st, 8th, & 10th house

Any of those planets in Scorpio/Capricorn/or Leo

Trines/Opposition/Square/Sextile also apply. Conjunctions are the most powerful and/or tighter the orbs of the aspect. Orbs (0-3), the more prominent it plays out in your life. Orbs (4-7) is somewhat in the middle.

The way the sex appeal of the planets is emphasized by (Lilith, Pluto, & Mars) can be better understood by applying the planet's role to it.

Sun: Who you are. So your personality without a filter. *you can naturally get someone interested by being yourself. No masks are needed for you!

Ascendant/Rising: literally how you look anywhere anytime. Through your appearance, mannerism, & fashion sense. *You don’t have to do shit or try and people be like👼🏾 😳 🥵

Moon: the way you think is what you act upon. Whatever sign your moon falls under, you would execute the energy of that sign when people get to know you. I feel that whatever planet your moon is aspects by is how your mindset would operate. The house placement of the moon would show where your emotions run. *personally i think the placement/sign of the moon contributes more to sex appeal than the aspect itself.

Mercury: your voice and communication style. *It’s those people that can make anyone fall for them just by talking. They have this aura where people want to listen to them and find their sense of communication interesting & funny. Also, they are the treasure box of others dark secrets. People love telling them shit. Gossip holders plus sharp tongue ☕️.

Mars: your expression, enthusiasm, or when you display dominance/leadership. *At this point act manly or motivated whenever lol. Whether it's through a form of hobby to being authoritative, you will catch someone’s eye.

Venus: beauty, fashion style, the way you care for others, how you are in love, etc. Most people with these sex appeal aspects above involving Venus are highly desired to be in a relationship with by others. They can get someone wrapped around their fingers if they are naughty lol 😈.

MC: similar to Asc, but it’s like reputation matters so they make sure to play their part. So it's like dressing up or behaving a certain way in public to get the reaction they want which will be attained. Lowkey a chameleon. *I have noticed that MC is a more refined/mature type, probably bc the MC has to do with career as well.

Uranus: Being unique like an alien. Shocking, Magnetic, & Unique are how I would describe individuals with Uranus aspects. People will remember you 100% in someway, which depends on what it’s aspected by.

Pluto/Lilith: they both are powerful when it comes to intimidating others as well as getting others obsessed. Drawing jealousy also is relevant, unfortunately.

Examples:

I have a male friend who is a Scorpio with Lilith conjunct to his Sun & Mars. Man, he gets ladies of all ages flirting with him. They tell him their darkest secrets they don’t tell anybody else. I and my friend worked in the same office together. Ladies are walking past his cubicle like “Heyyyyy…*Name*. Why don’t you stop by my cubicle no more…..don’t you miss me lol”. Random ladies, he doesn’t even talk to on the other side of the office know his name, like what!

A girlfriend of mine has Venus conjunct Pluto. The girl be getting men left and right. She was on a bus one day and told me that a stranger kept looking at her and told her when they got off the bus if he got a chance. Mind you he was in his 40's. Even in high school, people were looking at her from afar and would try to hit on her eventually. She attracted men and females.

I have Mars conjunct Pluto and when I'm active or energetic, men are interested in me. So when I'm in a good mood and I have excessive energy whether at the gym or being a crazy girl in school they find me interesting and funny. Celebrities with these aspects are always known for their roles and the character they display versus too much of their real personality. Ex: Bella Thorne, James Corden, Jared Padalecki (supernatural show), etc.

Scorpio Sun with Moon in the 8th house. There was this guy I was interested in with this aspect. Man, I was digging through his entire past trying to know "the real him". Searched his name online to asking him multiple questions about himself to put the pieces together. I knew more about him than he knew about me. Yes, he was adopted and his dad was some sort of instructor lol, and No, I don't do that anymore. Don't have the next victim yet lol.

Uranus conjunct Sun individuals can get someone hooked unto them for their personality and energy. People are just fascinated by them and actually enjoy being with them. My friend’s cousin has this aspect and man she found herself in a relationship so quick. The guy didn’t give two shit about how she dressed or looked, but fell for her quirkiness. She has a unique sense of fashion too. My friend told me how she was jealous of her cousin because she can get random men’s attention so fast like love at first sight. Yes, she married quick too. That relationship was like 3 month long and are expecting a child!

I have Uranus trine my Mercury and yes people remember whatever I say. I went to the gym with my friend before and the front desk guys asked me a question and I guess I said some funny. Everytime I went to that gym, they remembered that one conversation. Even after I switched over to another gym, I saw one of the front desk guy from my last gym and he would tell me what I said from before. Like I gotta make sure I don’t say none stupid especially to someone important lol.

Scorpio moon individuals would be extra secretive than the sun. Our mind is where we hold our opinions/thoughts/secrets…and if it’s under the sign Scorpio then all shit is preplanned of what can and can’t be spoken to others. No matter what the sun sign may be, Scorpio moon individuals will limit what they tell others, therefore making them magnetic. People want to figure out what they’re hiding.

Do you have any stories with these aspects?

When one partner repeatedly ghosts, breadcrumbs, is hot and cold, have one foot in and one foot out, out of fear of rejection, vulnerability, commitment or loss of freedom and autonomy, they are considered a runner. When the other partner pushes for communication, connection, and applies pressure to the runner, they are considered a chaser. Chasing can be energetic which includes, constantly mentally ruminating over the runner's actions, last conversation and interaction, imagining scenarios of reconciliation, checking for signs and synchronicities, checking their phone for missed calls or text messages. Constantly talking about the runner to family, and or friends, getting/watching tarot or synastry readings about the runners current actions or the future of the connection, constantly calling and texting even when you get no response or when response is sporadic. This is different from limerence where the connection is imaginary, because the runner and chaser may actually BE in a relationship with one another, regardless of popular opinion, if you have been involved physically, and have emotional attachment to one another even if it is not spoken, it is still considered a relationship, however serious or unserious one or both parties consider it to be. Physical and emotional attachment is still a energetic contract and still valid and the laws of relational karma still apply. Runners may start to chase once they sense the chaser energetically detaching which results in a push pull dynamic that can be neverending if Saturn is in hard aspect in the chart. Runners do not run in every connection they are in, which is why I am not going to apply this to the natal chart. I have post for non committal placements but right now I am focusing on the synastry because different connections bring out different energies in us based off of the aspects the chart. Certain aspects to our planets can invoke either the runner or chaser in us all. I have been on both sides of this. If you feel you are in a runner/chaser dynamic and you are the chaser, it is because your persons rejection may be triggering something within you that has to do with abandonment and trying to rewrite a past story that has happened that we do not want to happen again, but the emotions that it brings up for you is the what really needs to be worked through. If that is not the case they may be triggering how you truly feel about yourself, as you may tie your self worth to how you are treated, or seen by others. You may be chasing approval or have a need to feel chosen to feel valid. For most of us it is both of these things. If you are the runner, the connection to this person may make you feel exposed or vulnerable, the feelings they bring up within you may make you uncomfortable so you may pull away to regain the upper hand or a sense of control. You may have been abandoned yourself and or feel so deeply for the chaser that you fear their abandonment, so you do it first. You may feel unworthy of their love and devotion and it may bring up questions of how worthy you are of being loved. You may have secrets, or things that you are ashamed of or feel like the chaser may judge you for or may not approve of, or leave you for. You may feel like if you keep your distance, you can control the pace, outcome and intensity of the connection. The one thing that the chaser and runner have in common is that they both want: CONTROL. Runner/Chaser dynamics are intense especially if there are oppositions because the energy tends to flip, and the roles reverse where the Chaser becomes the Runner, these are the Breakup to Makeup dynamics. Below are a few of the aspects I have noticed studying countless charts, with this dynamic. Per usual look at the condition of you and your partners charts and their aspects separately before looking at the synastry.

Sun opposite/square Venus

Sun opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite

Venus conjunct/opposite/square Pluto

Venus conjunct/opposite/square Lilith

Venus opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite

Venus opposite/square Neptune Synastry/Composite

Mars opposite/square Neptune

Mars conjunct/opposite/square Pluto Synastry/Composite

Mars opposite/square Moon

Mars opposite/square Lilith

Mars opposite/square Uranus

Mars opposite/square Saturn

Pluto opposite/square Sun

Uranus 2nd/4th/7th House Synastry/Composite

Moon conjunct/opposite/square Uranus

Saturn 4th/7th/8th House Synastry/Composite

Pluto 7th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite

Neptune 7th/8th/12 House Synastry/Composite

North Node in the 4th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite

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What happens when the chaser stops chasing?

The majority of runners are not conscious of their behavior and the damage it causes to their person or the connection, they are just reacting and playing their part in the story the stars have written. If they were self aware they would see they are just running from themselves, their own feelings, their own shadow. Usually the chaser stops chasing when they have been triggered to heal what caused them to chase in the first place. That's when the energetic cord snaps and the runner no longer has the same control over the dynamic. The runner always runs back because the intent is never to stay away, it is to ground themselves and regain control. Once that is taken away, they are just left with themselves, the fear of what they ran from in the first place which is abandonment becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. But instead of leaning into what this is triggering and try to heal it, they begin to chase and the chaser who by then is awakened to the toxicity of the runners ways, runs from the connection, if the chaser takes the runner back, the runner will just run again, especially if they have not healed what caused them to run in the first place. They are not coming back because they have finally chosen the chaser or realized how much the chaser or the connection meant to them, they are coming back to feel in control again. If they can win back the chaser this validates that for them. Understand and overstand, it is chess not checkers. It is only a game if two people are playing. To no longer be the pawn you must remove yourself from the board, energetically, mentally, emotionally and physically. A dynamic where you have to wonder where you stand and makes you question your worth is not built to last or sustainable, what it is, is a lesson.

Stay Lifted,

Madison 🕊️✨

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Strong influence of Pluto…

What a strong Plutonian influence of Pluto in the chart could look like:

Pluto in the 1st, 4th, 7th and 10th house

Pluto aspecting inner planets (Mercury, Venus and Mars)

Pluto strongly aspecting the moon and ascendant, especially tight orbs

TW: mentions of s*x and death!!

Being Pluto dominant or having a strong influence of Pluto means that transformations, ego deaths, feelings of death and rebirth will accompany you for a life time. From my experience, this will be especially harsh in the childhood, youth and maybe in your early adult years. As time passes and as you get older, you might develop self care habits and safety mechanisms to protect yourself and your inner peace. Practising self love, meditation and mindfulness could be important to these individuals, as they could underestimate their beauty and their outstanding personality.

I’ve also seen that most traumatic events happen in the childhood, youth or early adulthood. But that’s just my observation.

Feelings of being deeply misunderstood rise while you are young and this feeling might follow you for years. Constantly searching for someone to understand your complex mind and depth of emotions. These people could benefit from searching for a valve to turn pain, bad experiences and any form of built up emotion into art. Be it writing, drawing, making music…

A reoccurring theme for Plutonians is sexuality. There may be blockages in regards of the own sexuality or experiencing it, but once they overcome this, they literally start to bloom in that area. This could turn into being hungry for power in general (or simply being turned on by overpowering the partner) or in being lascivious. They can be pretty much extreme and freaky in bed, actually. Being intimate never gets boring with them.

I know, this is what you read everywhere, but plutonic people are deeply magnetic and will catch your eye with their intense aura. Even if they are not seen as traditionally beautiful, these natives exude attractiveness and charisma. You just can’t ignore them and they will even stand out in a crowd. BUT! A lot of them don’t have the sex appeal like (for example) Megan Fox has. A lot of them have such an innocence to their appearance, but if you take a closer look you’ll see that they’re like fallen angels.

From my experience, plutonic people will have a deep connection to spirituality or the occult and a profound interest in psychology (for good and bad). They usually get into these things after really hard times in their life. They will attract jealousy and hate like flies, unfortunately and this could take a toll in their self esteem. Even strangers tend to be very competitive and mean to them in some way, because most people simply feel challenged by their presence.

Dear plutonic people,