#polyam headcanons

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- Louis was extremely hesitant agreeing to it because Oliver was one of the only stable relationships that he ever had and he was worried about ruining it, but he was convinced pretty easily

- Sleeping in the same bed with them in a nightmare because Oliver is very prone to fidgeting in his sleep as well as snoring, and Louis doesn’t sleep much so he gets in and out of bed every hour or so

- Cooking together and/or for each other would be pretty common - especially since it’s a large way Oliver will show he loves people

- Oliver usually ends up washing up after meals, he doesn’t mind it and it might not get done otherwise

- Dates would probably end up being movie nights at home since it’s easy for all parties, they like vaguely the same kind of movies but both will watch whatever without much complaint

- Oliver initiates affection/contact a LOT, whereas Louis just waits for people to initiate it with him, even if he is incredibly touch starved

- There will most definitely be a small argument if everyone moves into a house together and it’s literally just because of how different they are when it comes to decorating, usually ends pretty quickly though

Here, have a handy diagram!

This is how it goes:

-Frankie is dating both Jackson and Holt

-Jackson and Holt are brothers and pretty much only agree in their dating choices

-Frankie, Jackson, and Holt are all dating Andy

-Claire fell in love with Holt, but eventually ended up dating Jackson and Frankie too

-Neightan is gay and dating Jackson and Holt

-Frankie and Neightan aren’t dating, but are close friends

-Andy and Neightan like each other, and are dating each other in a QPP

-Claire, Neightan, and Andy are all friends

-they all hang out and watch movies together

-the only angst and conflict allowed is the fact that Claire goes to another high school and that Jackson and Holt can’t be in the same room at the same time

Aang finds out first he's like "oh that's actually something some air nomads would do." But he doesn't know because he was twelve and didn't pay a lot of attention to the romance of the monks.

Katara takes some getting used to it but they figure it out. She's happy for her brother and it helps her feel less guilty about her small crush on Zuko

Toph is just like why would I care? That's your business. Also, I'm happy for you

Iroh would be suspicious but when he sees how happy it is making his nephew he realizes love can come in all shapes

Suki talks with Mai and they bond, end up dating. Sokka is very concerned, Zuko is happy for them and can also date Mai.

Sokka and Mai end up happy metamors who bond over weapons and teaching each other things about fighting

Now he realizes that he made a mistake, cause Scorpius went trough the same things that he had to. He apologizes and tells his son everything about aromantism, amatonormativity and qpr’s & the way he realized that he was aro. It’s the first time after Astoria that he talks about it & he just feels so relieved to finally share those things to someone. Scorpius almost cries because he finally knows what’s going on with him & he’s so relieved because his father doesn’t hate him for being like this, he even went through the same things & he informed him about all those things very quickly (when Draco needed years to find out). Also their father-son relationship grows and they trust each other even more. Draco helps him to talk to Albus about those things, but it takes Albus way longer to understand and accept those things. Draco supports Scorpius throughout that time. In the end Albus wants to give it a try, because he doesn’t really know if he feels romantic attraction. Even if Albus might feel romantic attraction later on, he would never drag Scorpius into romance or end the qpr for another person’s sake. Because of all the talking about amatonormativity Albus realize that he’s polyamorous and ace and he tells Scorpius about it, who helps him find out more about it. (Also Albus is very thankful for learning about amatonormativity, because through that he learned a lot about toxic relationships.)

Later on, Draco invites the two of them to some sort of tea party where they talk about all these things (‘cause Albus doesn’t really know how to come out at home about being in qpr & polyamorous at the same time). They have really good conversations & a lot of fun together.

Back at Hogwarts they’re just annoyed that everyone thinks that they have a romantic relationship, so they tell everyone about things. Apart from some aro people (who didn’t come out or who didn’t know about being aro) they still get a lot misunderstanding & bad jokes about it. When they both are being tired of it, they start to act like a couple in front of others, but just as some sort of joke and overacting. They talk about it all the time (for even months) and just annoy everyone with it (They even cite Romeo & Julia qoutes in a very dramatic way) & with romance/amatonormativity in general, so in the end some people understand what they’re going through and are happy (or just glad) that they’re in a qpr.

There’s still a lot of arophobia/amatonormativity & misunderstanding, but Albus & Scorpius are happy that they went trough this together and that they had a lot of fun doing it. They tell Draco about it and they all laugh about some of other people’s reactions, Draco really likes it because he would have never had the courage to do that. Over the years it becomes sort of a running gag between them that they’re ‘in a relationship’ and they even have a fake marriage at Draco’s home, where Scorpius promises that he’s never going to marry and Albus is never going to marry just one person and never leaving they’re qpr for romance reasons.

When people ask if they don’t miss anything because they’ll never have a marriage they’re just laughing it off and answering: “We already had that!” - H.