It's okay to be both traumatized and mixed origin ❗ Having multiple origins doesn't inherently mean you're denying yourself/ves or your trauma. You're allowed to be both traumagenic and endogenic; it's okay to be traumaendo. One origin does not discount another, and having multiple origins for your system doesn't mean any of them are lesser.
Your traumatic origins are not lesser if you also have non-traumatic origins
Your non-traumatic origins are not lesser if any of your origins can be attributed to trauma
You are allowed to have a complex and multifaceted understanding of yourself/ves. Systems with different members of different origins, systems with multiple origins at the same time, everyone deserves respect and understanding. Traumaendo systems, multigenic systems, and all mixed origin plurals, we are not denying ourselves by acknowledging multiple aspects of our plurality. Learning about ourselves and treating ourselves well is part of our healing; denying our multiple origins wouldn't help anything. We're allowed to exist and we're going to be okay
