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🌷 Many’s Valentines Aro Ask Meme

In the spirit of Valentine’s Day, we decided to make an ask meme for aro yume/selfshippers.

RULES

🌿 This ask meme is strictly for those who are aro-spec. Alloromantics do NOT use this ask meme for familial, platonic, or other non-romantic selfships.

🍁 Alloromantics who are with an aro-spec F/O may answer these questions.

☘️ Fuck a Discourse Stance. There’s not enough aromantic stuff in the yume/selfshipping community. This ask meme is for anyone who’s aro-spec and selfships.

🌸 Due to the content of some of questions, we ask the MiNORS DNi with this ask meme.

QUESTiONS

How do you and your F/O know each other?? (Classmates, coworkers, friends, etc)

How long have you and your F/O know each other?? How did the two of you meet??

How do you and your F/O spend time together?? How do the two of you bond??

Do you and your F/O buy each other things that remind you of each other?? What did they last buy for you?? What did you last buy for them??

Do you and your F/O celebrate together (birthdays, successes, milestones, etc)? How do you typically celebrate??

Do you and your F/O have a “shared language” (made up of insides jokes and references to things you’ve experienced together)?? Do you have an inside joke or reference you’d like to share??

Do you and your F/O have anything that matches (tattoos, jewelry, clothing, posters, merch, etc)?

Do you and your F/O know how to cheer one another up on a bad day?? How do you cheer up your F/O?? How do they cheer you up??

Do you and your F/O know how the other is feeling, based off nonverbal communication?? (Posture, facial expression, habit, etc)

Does your F/O know that they care about you?? Do you know your F/O cares about you?? Is this something you have formally communicated with to one another??

Do people assume you and your F/O are dating/romantic??

Is your F/O also aromantic or on the aromantic spectrum?? If applicable, how do they identify??

How do you and your F/O label or describe your dynamic?? Is this the same way you label or describe your dynamic to people who are close to you, or strangers??

Personally, according to you, would you describe your relationship with your F/O as platonic, queerplatonic, or romantic?? (Or neither, if you don’t like these labels).

If your F/O is alloromantic, how do they feel about you being aromantic?? How did they find out?? Have they ever confessed their feelings to you?? If so, how did it make you feel??

Is your relationship with your F/O sexual?? If so, do you consider this a form of intimacy and connection that you share with your F/O, or is it about mutual pleasure??

Are you and/or your F/O “aro-spec coded”, without actually being labeled as such (for example, period pieces or fantasy settings where such labels don’t really exist to describe such experiences, maybe the narrative just doesn’t have a space where you talk about these things, etc). Are there ways you and/or your F/O express being aromantic without the label actually being dropped??

Do you and/or your F/O feel the need to label themself as aromantic/aro-spec?? Do you and/or your F/O use aro-spec microlabels?? If so, what labels are used??

For those who are demiromantic or greyromantic, were you, your F/O or others around you confused when you started to have romantic feelings for your F/O??

For those who are demiromantic or greyromantic, is your F/O the first you’ve felt romantic feelings for, or were there others?? How did you realize you were experiencing romantic feelings towards your F/O?

For those who are aroflux, arospike, arofluid or similar, how does your F/O handle your waxing and waning romantic attraction to them?? Is this something they’re aware of, or is it something you try to manage quietly yourself??

For those who are romance repulsed, how do you navigate this with your F/O?? Is it something they understand and are supportive of, or is it something they struggle with??

For those who are hyperromantic aro-specs, how do you navigate this with your F/O?? Is it something they understand and are supportive of, or is it something they struggle with?? Do you have accompanying romance repulsion with your hyperromance??

Do you have a loveless dynamic with your F/O??

Do you have relationship anarchy with your F/O??

Are you and your F/O monogamous or polyamorous?? If you’re polyamorous, are there anymore aro-specs in the polycule??

Is there anything you and your F/O share the responsibility of?? (Child, pet, plant, housing, department, division, company, etc)

Do you personally view platonic ships as aromantic, or something different that aromantics can also enjoy??

Do you personally view familial ships as aromantic, or something else different that aromantics can also enjoy??

Do you and your F/O do anything for Valentine’s Day?? (Ironically, unironically, reclaimatory, etc)

🌷 A Valentines Aro is an aromantic who yume/selfships.

Coining post: https://www.tumblr.com/ryanyflags/742365620441612288/i-meant-selfshipper-shipper-aro-called-valentine

I started this story in monochrome to combat the fact that my attention span had gotten so short over the years and to give myself the breathing room to update much faster! You might recall from an earlier ask about how I prioritized speed over everything else XD excluding color goes hand in hand with that.

Though this doesn’t mean i won’t indulge in colors from time to time as well~

guess who tf is making LoZ fanart zine with his bf? this guy!

if u do any kinds of visual arts, love legend of zelda and the gals in particular, feel free 2 apply!

all money from the zine will be going towards making prints and charity, very possibly/most likely ASAN and perhaps some others.

[ ask game ✉️ ]

amusement park: what games do you and your f/o(s) want to get on? which ones are you absolutely scared of? is any of you good at prize games? are you the type of people to plan what attractions you'll get on or do you freestyle all of it?

🎡 what games go and your f/o(s) want to get on?

We’d personally want to go on a Ferris Wheel with Caine! They’re one of our favorites at carnivals, the beach, and amusements parks.

As for Caine, the audience only sees him participate in Adventures during the post-credit scenes, so we’re not sure what his preference is in canon. Maybe the prize games, to test himself?

🎢 which ones are you absolutely scared of?

Not necessarily scared, but fun houses/house of mirrors give us social anxiety because we worry about not getting through fast enough and annoying the people coming in behind us 🥲

🏆 is any of you good at prize games?

We personally aren’t, but we think Caine is, or he at least enjoys them!

📋 are you the type of people to plan what attractions you'll get on or do you freestyle all of it?

We’ve always been the kind of person who freestyles plans!! Getting there and leaving will have a time to meet, but everything else is go-with-the-flow!! Caine doesn’t seem the type to be concerned with time either!