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Uh. Weird question. Do you have any advice for letting go of a friend? I have a friend who really likes me still but I've been trying to get some distance because of reasons.
I don't need any advice about how to let go of them, but like, how to handle it emotionally, maybe? If you've ever dealt with this sort of thing?
I just feel really betrayed and angry and I've been trying to handle this with grace, but it's a friendship, which is important to me, you know, but if I asked for advice from anyone else they probably wouldn't see what the big deal is. And people usually give advice on how to get over romantic partners but does that apply to getting over a friend, you think? Or like. Idk if you have thoughts I'd appreciate it. If not, no worries o/
First off... I'm so sorry. This is the kind of pain I've had to deal with that's been some of the hardest in my life, by far.
Unfortunately I don't have that much advice personally. I've gone through that kind of thing several times and it always hurts so damn bad. It hurts to the point where I don't know what to fill my day with with the time that's freed up by not talking to said former friend, for example. That kind of stuff. Finding one's marks and sense of purpose and self-worth back can be way harder than people give it credit for.
It doesn't make the hardship go away, at least not immediately, but one thing that's helped me at least has been to spend some time (or online time) with other friends I have, not as rebound, because every friendship is different and holds its own value in one's life, but just to remind yourself, if you can at all, that you do have some sort of a support system somewhere and that even if you felt betrayed by that one important person, you're not alone in the world. And yeah. I know that after a burn like this it's hard to trust that all of the others won't betray you either. But if anything at all, I hope it can bring a little bit of positive vibes.
Other than that... I know it's way harder than just willing it out, but please make sure to do little things that bring you happiness (for me it's going on walks, or watching really stupid things online or a really really cynical movie), and go through the motions as much as you can every day. Because the pain won't be this bad forever. It's possible, likely even, that the feeling of betrayal won't ever go away fully, but at least you won't feel in this much pain forever. It gets better. But, especially during the times when it's hardest, make sure to keep yourself safe and vibing as much as you can. Be your own best friend for a while if you have to. I've found keeping oneself safe and valued as much as possible works better than trying to speedrun the process of grief, as tempting as the latter is.
I'm so sorry for what you're going through, I wish you all the strength, and â yeah, hang in there, it really sucks right now but it won't suck this much forever.
PS: As for staying in touch with the friend in question or not, I don't know. Really depends on a- if you'd feel safe doing so, and b- if they'd be willing to listen and truly understand why they hurt you. And when I've been in the latter situation, things would sometimes go back to good but never the same as before for sure. You don't HAVE to stay in contact with them if you don't feel safe doing so. But you don't have to fully cut contact either if that doesn't feel right to you either. It really depends on a lot. You can also take as much time as you need for yourself to sort out how you feel about things before making your next move. Even if it takes years.
Inspired by the song 'Good Luck, Babe!' by Chappell Roan
Summary: Returning to Westview after twelve years away causes you to look back on your secret love affair with Wanda, to remember the intimate moments you shared together before her refusal to accept her true self drove the two of you apart, leaving you to pick up the pieces of your broken heart alone.
What happens when you reunite with the woman you've been trying so hard to forget, forced to watch her suffer in an unhappy marriage that was slowly drowning her, still too scared to confront her true feelings?
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The deafening silence of your apartment suffocated you as soon as you shut the door, your fingers twitching subconsciously by your side as you felt anxiety and panic clawing its way up your throat, your gaze hurriedly looking around the apartment to find something focus on besides the feelings youâd be bottling up on the way home. It tore you in half to act as though nothing was wrong for the rest of the night, to smile at her in that loving and adoring way knowing it would be the last time as you waved her goodnight, to kiss her a final time, to kiss her goodbye. It broke you, but you refused to acknowledge it, too scared of drowning in your sorrows. You didnât want to feel this way, you didnât want to feel the overwhelming sense of pain and loneliness, to listen to your screaming thoughts in the silent room, the claustrophobic doubts clouding your mind at the decision you made. You couldnât handle having to face everything, to face the fact it was over, the fact that the one person who made you feel free was never yours. She was never yours.
You could feel your chest tightening at the relentless thoughts, your mind begging you to do as you always did and push everything away, to just pretend you were fine and put a smile on your face as if nothing was wrong. You tried to get the corner of your lips to tug up, to put a brave face on as your empty stare took in your apartment, but your lower lip inevitably trembled, struggling to fight the anguish coursing through you. You couldnât do this.
Tears pricked at the corner of your eyes as your crushed form made its way through the hallway to your room, looking longingly at Mayâs room as you passed it, desperately needing her comfort right now. You needed her to tell you everything was going to be ok, to hug you and soothe your worries but she wasnât there. You were alone once again. You always ended up alone, it wasnât fair.
You shut your door a little harder than you intended as you reached your room, your legs giving way as everything crashed down on you at once, a broken sob painfully being torn out of you. Why? Why did it have to end like this? Why did you have to love her? Your hands clutched at your head as you curled up into a small ball, knees pressed against your chest as your back rested against your door, body shaking with cries as the damn that was keeping your emotions in check burst. Your chest felt hollow, an agonising emptiness settling there as your palms pressed against your eyes, trying to stop the floods of tears escaping them whilst the joy and love that was once consumed your heart was replaced by a gnawing ache. Why couldnât she just love you?
The question tormented your thoughts, your cruel brain dragging you down a despondent and painful trail of thoughts as you tried to control your ragged breathing, the panic and anxiety of feeling so out of control still burdening you.
Why was she so scared? Did she not think you were worth loving? Were you worth loving at all? Was it just casual? Were you an experiment? Why her? Why did you have to love her? Why does it hurt so much? You didnât even do anything wrong. All you did was fall in love.
You drifted down the spiral of these thoughts, unable to stop yourself as they plagued your mind for what felt like hours, your body exhausted with the overwhelming feeling of heartbreak whilst you wiped your eyes once more carelessly, trying to get a grip of yourself.
The weight in your chest remained constant as you stared off at your bed feeling numb, your body drained as you slumped against the frame of the door, fingers brushing back your locks in a stressed manner as your thoughts continued to race, only pausing when your eyes caught a glimpse of something peeking under your bed, a ripple of unease stirring within you.
Gradually, you pushed yourself off the floor, making your way to your feet as you stood unsteady, limbs feeling numb and heavy as you took a reluctant step closer to the box, another stab of agony directed at your heart as you realised what it was.
Polaroids and various mementos of your secret times together with Wanda filled the small wooden box, leaving you powerless to another onslaught of tears brimming at your eyes as you stared at the item, conflicted on what to do with it. Part of you was tempted to open it, to recall the memories of every single photo you took, to remember the way you felt when she kissed your cheek before snapping a picture, the way your heart fluttered when she would look at you with mirth in her eyes when you would point the camera at her, offering you a loving smile as she waited for the click every single time. The other part of you wanted to throw the items away in anger, to hate her for tainting the memories but you couldnât. They meant too much to you, she still meant too much to you.
A deep sigh left you as you used your foot to push it out of sight, hiding it further under your bed like a dirty secret because thatâs what it was, thatâs what you were. You could feel the irritation bubbling inside you at the thought, your jaw clenching in annoyance as you stared at where the box was, another wave of hurt washing through you as more memories and thoughts tormented you, reminding you of the gaping wound in your chest.
Why werenât you enough?
***
The corridors of the college campus were filled with students smiling and grinning at one another, cheers erupting from the back of people's throats as everyone exited their last exam, finally free for the summer. Your expression contrasted the elated people pushing past you in a rush to leave, your defeated gaze searching for a certain locker as you planned to talk to Wanda today, to confess everything before telling her you were leaving, having accepted MI 13âs offer in England, needing a change of scenery. It was all too suffocating here, the reminder of her, what happened to your parents, you needed a change, no matter how hard it would be to leave everyone behind.
You eventually made your way to her locker, looking around to see if people would notice as you slipped the post it note through the small slits, asking her to meet you at the carpark behind your work. You lingered at the metal cupboards, a sense of dread filling you at what would inevitably happen later, the idea of heartbreak and tears causing a wave of nausea to take over you, your gaze lifting from the structure to stop your thoughts drifting down that path but accidentally making contact with her enchanting green as they gazed at you from across the hall, time seeming to slow down around you.
The people around you faded away as you felt that familiar tug on your heart, your smile not reaching your ears as you offered her one last fake one, desperately trying your best to keep it together whilst the corner of her lips tugged up at your actions, excitement evident on her face as she was eager to see you tonight.
Wanda had known you had been busy recently wanting to study for your exams, the two of you not meeting up for a while, but she couldn't wait to spend the summer with you, to laugh all night long and be herself with you. Her heart longed to be with you again like that one, tender night, the memory of that kiss haunting her mind in all the right ways, her body aching for you in such an affectionate way again. She wanted to feel loved by you, to be seen and truly appreciated in private before letting reality and the expectations of her drown her again. She needed the escape you offered her.
The brunette took a step forwards, hoping to talk to you but the sight of a familiar blonde stopped her, Visionâs smile soft as he distracted her, the sight of the two of them cracking your heart once more. You kept your face stoic as he brushed back a strand of her hair, her lips stretching into a loving smile as she peered up at him, kissing his lips briefly in an attempt to keep up the appearance with him, to you, the sight an interaction between a couple of lovers. A wave of bitterness washed through you at the fact he could be with her, he could show his love for her in public, your mind swiftly pushing the thoughts away as you knew there was no use in going down that spiral again, simply trying to stop the pain radiating in your chest by turning around, refusing to look anymore. You couldnât watch her live her life a lie.
Unbeknown to you, when she could, her eyes flickered away from his piercing blue and the blush painting his cheeks, her smile soft as she forced herself to enjoy his company as he wrapped an arm around her waist, talking nonsense to her as her green frantically searched for you. She had to try and hide the way her brows furrowed at your tense posture as you pushed past people to leave, a glimmer of disappointment appearing in her eyes as she had hoped to talk to you and congratulate you on finishing your exams. The expression swiftly faded when he asked her something, her answer pleasing to him as she tried to keep the appearance up, ignoring the ache in her chest at the way you walked away, leaving her feeling alone.
***
Exhaling a final puff of smoke, you savoured the last of your cigarette before dropping it to the floor, using the heel of your boot to crush it into the ground when the sound of those familiar footsteps grew closer, your heart pounding anxiously in your chest, dreading what was about to happen. Your mind was tormented by the anticipation of what was about to occur, images in your head flashing by at the different ways this could end, unsure of what the best scenario would be. Would you want her to shout at you, to scream at you for breaking it off? To have her tell you she hated you so it would make things feel a little easier? Or would you rather her stay quiet and suffer in silence? Letting you watch helplessly as you carved a hole in her heart, unable to comfort her as you were the reason she was hurting. God, you didnât want to hurt her.
A deflated sigh escaped as you couldnât decide what reaction would be the best, but you knew deep down a part of you hoped she would do neither and ask you to stay, that sheâd confess her feelings to you and learn that she didnât have to be ashamed of you, that being with you wasnât abnormal or something that made her a âfreakâ. You only ever wished she could accept herself.
Before your mind could repeat any more thoughts like a broken record, you watched in the corner of your eyes as she approached you, her smile practically reaching her ears making the chain on your heart tug forcefully. She looked so happy, you didnât want to take that away from her.
âHey,â she murmured out softly, her tone conveying her excitement as she leaned against your truck, biting her lower lip in that adorable manner as she tried to contain her enthusiasm, the expression dropping at the conflicted expression engraved on your face. âWhatâs wrong?â Her tone was tender as her mesmerising green peered up at you, every swirl of green containing care as she gauged your reaction to her words, the way pain flashed in your eyes before your mouth opened and closed, hesitating on your words.
At the glimmer of distress in your eyes, Wanda couldnât help but feel a sense of unease crawl down her spine, a lump forming in her throat at the way you avoided her gaze, fingers pinching the bridge of your nose as you tried to compose yourself, trying to stop the doubts in your mind as you had to do this. You couldnât let this drag on anymore, you couldnât.
âWanda, IâŚâ you trail off, building the courage to say what you felt but struggling to put it into words, a gnawing thought at the back of your mind begging you to tell her nothing was wrong, to carry on pretending.
Her intense green observed you with concern and apprehension at your vulnerable state, her heart rate increasing with every passing second as you tried to find the right words, the excitement and joy swiftly draining from her face as you finally continued, the words slicing straight through her chest.
âI canât do this anymore,â you manage out, not hiding the pain in your voice as you spoke in such a raw tone, the worry that was brewing within her now flooding through her veins, her body almost flinching away from you at your words, moving to stand opposite you with anguish clear in her expressive gaze.
âWhat?â She whispered out, refusing to truly comprehend your words as you looked at her, your usually bright and playful eyes staring back at her despondently, acting as though the world around you had lost all its colour.
âI canât do this anymore, I canât be a dirty secret, I want to call it off,â your words cut deep and you know they do, your face showing your sorrow for hurting her as she lets out a breathless laugh, trying to stop the tears threatening to spill down her cheeks, her lower lip trembling at the pain radiating in her chest, her heart bleeding anguish into her veins.
Her head turns away from you, desperately trying to keep her emotions in check, the sight of you only further cracking her heart as her eyes glossed over completely, the tears flowing down her cheeks as she couldnât stop herself, it hurt too much.
âWhy?â she croaks out, hesitantly letting her gaze meet yours, an overwhelming feeling of despair drowning her as she looks into your equally broken eyes.
âYou know why,â you murmur out, trying to keep your voice soft as you still wanted to comfort her, to soothe her pain. You were desperate to pull her into your arms, to hold her close and let her face seek safety at the crook of your neck, to press your lips to the top of her head and whisper tender words to her but you couldnât. You were the reason she was crying and it tore you apart. It wasnât fair, none of this was fair.
âIâŚâ Wanda couldnât find the words to argue back, to say she didnât know because she did. She knew that you had changed after you lied to her, she knew that you loved her but she refused to accept it. You couldnât truly love her, it was wrong. She couldnât let herself be loved by you, by a woman. She refused to make this real, she was unable to let the bubble the two of you created burst and let reality crash down on her. Why couldnât you just continue to pretend? She wanted everything to go back to the way it was, she didnât want this. She didnât want to lose you, but she couldnât admit the truth.
âI love you Wanda, I always have,â you whisper, your words laced with honesty and all the emotions you felt towards her, your tone so soft and tender that it causes a stray tear to slip from her eyes at how she wished she could let herself be loved by you, that she wasnât taught this was shameful all her life. The hope and desire was brutally clawed away as soon as it came, the brunette powerless to the merciless grip her traditional mindset had on her, teachings from her childhood ringing around in her head as she forced herself to stop the feeling.
âNo, you canât, you canât love me,â she chokes out, struggling to stop the lump in her throat from affecting her voice, desperate to sound composed and not as though anxiety and insecurities gnawed away at her sanity. âItâs wrong,â she sighs out, nausea bubbling inside her at the way your face drops at her words, the way you can tell sheâs trying her best to use her denial to shield her pain.
âItâs not wrong,â you sigh out, taking a step closer to her, hands naturally reaching out to hold hers, letting your thumb brush over the back of hers tenderly before she pulls away from you, using her hands to wipe away the tears lingering on her cheeks. âItâs not, I promise you itâs not,â your words only further torment her, the ache in her chest constant as she wants to believe you, she really does but she can't. She wonât. âI know itâs hard to accept that youâre-â You try, but she cuts you off.
âDonât,â she grits out, tone raising, a sudden harshness lacing her words as you furrow your brows at her, shocked at the disgust corrupting her green. âDonât say it, don't make me say it, Iâm not like that,â she mutters, pain underlying her words as your face grows sympathetic, unsure of how to help her. You just wanted her to stop running away from the feeling, to keep making excuses or giving stupid reasons as to why she couldnât accept herself. There was nothing to be ashamed of. Why couldnât she see that?
âWanda-â
âNo,â she doesnât even let you disagree, leaving no room for argument as you sigh, lowering your gaze to the floor, trying to collect your thoughts. You knew she wasnât going to admit to herself she was into women, and you werenât going to force her to accept herself, but you needed to know if she ever loved you back or if this was really just casual. It couldnât have been, couldit?
âI wonât make you say it,â you murmur out, keeping your gaze locked on hers, losing yourself in her green whilst you build the courage to ask her. You were scared of the answer, none of the possibilities your mind could come up with were good, but you had to know. Your mind would drive you insane if you didnât. âBut Wanda, I need to know, did you ever feel the same?â Your voice wavers as you ask her, a cold fear underlying your words as it spreads throughout your body, anxious thoughts trapping your mind as you were terrified to know how she felt.
Hesitation is evident on her face as she looks at you, clearly conflicted on what to say as you longingly look at her, heart pounding wildly against your chest as you wait for her to speak, the silence deafening as her mouth opens and closes, lost for words.
âPlease be honest,â you murmur out in a pleading tone, not hiding the fear that consumed your body, âDid you love me?â
âNo,â she croaks out, meeting your gaze before looking away, nausea making her head spin as she utters the word, her trembling hands moving up to her face to stop the sob that wanted to force its way out of her.
The pain that you had felt previously felt like a mere prick to your heart compared to the sheer agony that ripped its way through your body, her words leaving a scar on your heart that youâd forever carry with you. It hurt, fuck, it hurt so much, but not because she said she didnât love you, no, her words destroyed you because she looked you right in the eyes and lied to your face. You could see it in the green you loved so much, youâd spent enough time with her to know how to read her, to tell when she was telling you the truth and she wasnât.
A scoff left you at what she managed out, the sound turning into a breathless laugh to stop yourself from breaking down, your hands roughly wiping your cheeks as you avoided her gaze, an onslaught of anger gripping your heart. You wanted to scream at her with everything you could, to confront her and call her out but you didnât have it in you. You wanted to hate her, to resent her and tell her here how you never wanted to see her again, but the words refused to leave your mouth. Despite everything, you didnât want her to hate you. You didnât want to lash out at her and make her think of you like that. You werenât like that.
Pinching the bridge of your nose and sighing deeply, you tried your best to compose yourself before saying anything, your gaze catching a glimpse of her distraught green and only reminding you of the pain that slashed through you moments ago, your eyes squeezing shut in hopes that the pain would simply vanish and let you collect your thoughts.
âGood luck, Wanda,â you manage out of a few more deep breaths, your tone attempting to be soft but still containing a hint of sarcasm and irritation as you look at her, gaze softening as you take in her watery green.
Wandaâs brows furrowed at your words, at the tenderness she could sense in your voice, her mind lost to a sea of confusion. Why werenât you shouting at her? Why didnât you hate her? You should hate her. Her mind begged you to stop being kind to her now, your always caring self emerging when it shouldnât. She didnât want you to be loving and caring now, she needed you to hate her to make things easier, she needed you to stop.
âI hope he makes you happy, I really do,â you continue, each word pushing the knife further and further into her heart as well as yours, the fact that there was a hint of truth in your words twisting the blade as you partly meant them. You only ever wanted her to be happy, even if it meant she was with someone else.
âY/nâŚâ She tries but nothing follows the whisper of your name, your trembling lips pulling up into a soft smile as best you could.
âDonât,â you murmur softly, stopping her from trying to prevent you from saying what you needed to. âI just hope you know you canât run away fromâŚthis forever,â you whisper, stepping closer to her as you build up the courage to say goodbye to her, your hand hesitantly moving to cup her cheek, the brunette naturally leaning into your touch, trying to savour the little comfort it offered.
When your eyes met, a whirlwind of emotions crashed through you both as you got lost in each other's eyes, trying to prolong the impending farewell as you didnât want to lose one another. You tried to memorise each swirl of green that you fell for, her eyes searching yours to let the comfort you provided engrave itself in her mind, knowing sheâd need an escape from reality.
Tentatively, you leaned forward and pressed a delicate kiss to her forehead, a kiss goodbye as you lingered there, a shaky breath falling from your lips before you whisper one last thing to her.
âIâm sorry for loving you,â you apologise softly, never having wanted to hurt her with your feelings, your words the tipping point for her as the sob finally leaves her lips, her hands reaching out for your body subconsciously, needing your comfort but stopping as you pull away from her, her body paralyzed by the heartbreak consuming her. âGoodbye Wanda,â your voice is barely above a whisper as the words escape you, your eyes refusing to look at her, not needing a painful memory to haunt your mind as you step away from her body.
Wanda could only watch through her blurred vision as you walked away from her, the ache in her chest increasing with every step you took, amplifying the loneliness she felt as you left her alone to pick up the pieces of her broken heart.Â
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