I never really thought about the whole "canonmates aren't possible with DID/OSDD" but ever since I did it makes sense. But the problem is we have had conversations with friends, them talking about a pseudomemory, and one of our alters actually remembers something similar (not talking about canon events). How is that possible? Are we just making up memories to 'strengthen' a friendship??
hey! i (bunn) have more experience with introjects than faust so im taking this one but faust feel free to step in with your opinion too
i think it could be a couple things
1. memory is weird. its really easy to influence, intentionally or not. as an example i literally cant tell the difference between things that happened to me personally and things that my mom told me happened to her a few times. its even harder with pseudomemories because none of it really happened (though its usually grounded in reality as i’ll touch on later). so it’s reeeeeally easy to hear someone say “i remember this” and that memory genuinely implants itself into your mind. ultimately harmless in my opinion as long as it doesnt cause you stress.
2. pseudomemories are usually (well. pretty much always lol) grounded in some type of trauma or stress you experienced in real life, and it’s not unlikely that you and your friend just experienced very similar things to cause those memories to form. especially if theyre based on what happened in source at all, or could be easily extrapolated from what happened in the source. as an example: i wouldnt find it weird if i were a luca introject and i met an alberto who had the same pseudomemory of us pvp fighting sea monsters or somethin.
it’s most likely some type of combination between these. personally, i wouldn’t worry about it too much! i don’t know you, but i don’t think you’re making up memories to strengthen the friendship. DID brains are just weird! just make sure to be careful not to treat them like they’re the literal person from your source
hope this helped! remember im not a professional and im just a guy