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The nap. The Little Red Riding-Hood Picture Book. 1865.
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The nap. The Little Red Riding-Hood Picture Book. 1865.
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"Scout, I stole one of jour kidneys vhile jou vere sleeping last night, I ate it because I vas hungry! :]"
((it literally says in my intro post I'm not comfortable with cannibalism, dude.
Sometimes, a person will try to control the narrative surrounding their presence in your life.
For example, if someone is doing wrong by you, i.e., they continue to violate boundaries that you have set, they refuse to respect your wishes, and they continuously go against everything you have asked of them, then they will try to get out ahead of your decision-making by asking you leading questions surrounding the relationship.
They will try their best to make themselves out to be the victim. They will tell you that you're only taking advantage of them and their kindness by not having any goals set for your connection with them. They will tell you that you are just wasting their time by not giving them any indication of where they stand in your life. They will make it seem as if you should be caving to whatever deadline that they have set for themselves because, for them, "time is ticking".
Every way that you try to grow and improve with them will become an argument or a battle. They will push back against all potential ways that the relationship could thrive, thus holding you back. You are more than justified in being cautious with how you proceed with them.
Not once will they pause to consider that you may be valid in not wanting to take things much further with them because of what you've observed. They will not take stock of their behavior and realize that it is very much a determining factor in how far the two of you go. No, leading them on is not what you intend to do. If you have to prepare yourself for loss, that's okay.
It's a difficult position to be in, but if you have communicated to them what you will and will not tolerate and have expressed to them why you prefer to operate a certain way in life and they can't get with the program but continue to try to get you to live beneath where you've grown to so that they can be accommodated, then they do not deserve to come along.
I find that paras often have boundary problems. (Unfinished PB panel.)
me after my boundaries are violated for 189th time: if this happens One(1) More Time... then I will Say Something đ¤ I will Not allow myself to be treated this way anymore..!
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Send me âff+â and a character name and my character will react to finding and reading a graphic and sex-filled fanfiction of themselves and that character.
You are not obligated to forgive or forget the abuse just because the abuser has 'changed'. Them changing doesn't undo any of the abuse they did, or erase any of the damage you suffered. Abusers promising they've changed is often a tactic to lure you back in, and you're more than justified to keep your guard up and to never expose yourself to even the possibility of being dealt more damage.
A person who isn't abusive doesn't need someone to come back into their life who doesn't want to, or feels unsafe and uncomfortable doing so. A person who isn't abusive doesn't ask for rewards for 'not being abusive anymore'. They will not feel the urge to violate your boundaries or to guilt-trip you because 'how can you be so heartless don't you see they've changed'.
Ask them why they want someone in their life who they've already hurt before. Why do they want someone who feels uncomfortable in their presence. Did they change just to get a reward, a benefit out of it, that they could ask of other people? Wouldn't it be painful for them to be constantly reminded, how horrible they've been to you? Would they not be overwhelmed with guilt every time they look at you? Would it not be safer for them to stay away?
Abusers asking victims back into their life is rarely a honest or well-intentioned act. If they've actually changed, they would have respected your space and your boundaries you set when you cut contact. Lack of respect for your comfort and safety is what caused this mess in the first place, they are now expecting to get rewarded for doing more of it. Whether you want to allow them back in your life, is your choice alone. You should never be pressured or guilt-tripped for deciding you don't want it.
Reaching
You're reaching inside of my mind, Â Â Â Â Â you can't understand what you find. You're reaching, you're reaching inside: Â Â Â Â Â grabbing and tearing what's mine.
You're lost, and you're feeling confined, Â Â Â Â Â just like your world designed. You're seeking for silence so kind, Â Â Â Â even though I have declined.
You're reaching inside of my mind, Â Â Â Â Â you think I might help you unwind. You're reaching, you're reaching inside: Â Â Â Â Â you know that we find this unkind.
You're teaching, you're preaching, designed: Â Â Â Â Â a closing loop, you've resigned.
