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How come every single sysmed is now so concerned with terminology. They used to just come out and say it “ENDOS R FAKING” “TULPAS DONT EXIST!” But now that we have proof they scared. Even if we successfully change the word you’ll still be right up our asses. RIGHT UP OUR ASSES with another shitty excuse.
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crying why are there people who unironically use the word “endophobic” for people who listen to science and fact?? endos are really wild oml
endos are “hella inclus” and “mega supportive of each other” until:
- you make a tiny mistake in a server and get guilt tripped by them
- you don’t fit the bill of what they think an endo experience should be... despite the fact they’re “radically inclusive.” Yeah, let that one sink in.
- you forget to censor something on their 100-page-long blacklist
- you start calling them out for their bullshit
New anti endo flag, made by mod Aster 💫!
Colour symbolization:
Red: Symbolizes the strength OSDDID systems need in order to survive the trauma we went through and deal with the misinformation being spread
White: Generally associated with innocence, the white in the flag represents the child who once was, the child who was traumatized, yet survived
Blue: The blue in this flag represents the amount of reflection and research we do in order to understand ourselves, and eventually form our syscourse opinions
Purple overlay: Purple can be associated with wisdom; we do research and check our sources, and we make sure that they are cedible
Endophobic flag!
Red for the hatred of endos
Peach for did/osdd systems who have been wronged and hurt by endos
White for did/osdd spaces without endos/lack of need for endo safe spaces
Blue for solidarity between did and osdd systems who are endophobic
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All systems ARE valid and deserving of a place in the community.
Why? Because ALL systems have traumagenic dissociative disorders.
No childhood trauma and/or dissociation? Not a system in the first place. Never mind being “valid”. You’re not a system, period.
Got tulpas? Cool. Got a lot of kin-types? Cool. Roleplay really enthusiastically? Great. Age regressor? Lovely. Got “imaginary friend” type headmates? Nice! Experience “voices”? Okay! (although you definitely want to see a doctor about that if possible)
Still, none of these things make you a system host by default.
What DOES make you a system is experiencing a large number of the diagnostic criteria - stressful or painful childhood events, splitting when re-traumatised (or in some cases just stressed), behaving and thinking differently, changes to handwriting and/or drawings, dissociation (depersonalisation and derealisation), chronic dizzying headaches, internal communication, physical sensations when switching, contradictory opinions and thought, retreating into headspace, memory loss, false memories and amnesia, etc. etc.
If you do experience these things, look into medical resources that can help you, such as research and discussion of your experience with a medical professional!
When we achieved internal communication and learned we were actually plural, we quickly got ourselves onto a waiting list for a therapy programme and have been waiting to be seen ever since. We also started seeking out various medical sources to help us learn more about what we were going through and found that we genuinely meet almost all of the diagnostic criteria and that the information we read described how our mind works with exact accuracy.
I’m not saying you NEED to be diagnosed to call yourself a system. Getting a formal diagnosis isn’t at all easy for everyone. You do, however, need to be absolutely sure you experience the related symptoms.
It’s irresponsible to just label yourself without understanding the nature of what you’re going through.
It’s always been about experiences first and labels second.
Assuming you’re a system without seeking any kind of medical information is really dangerous to yourself and the community.
And DO NOT try to gaslight us into thinking that endogenic culture is “harmless”. It perpetuates misinformation about how systems work and only makes the already skeptical and ableist world turn against us even more. I have personally spoken to people who were extremely cruel to me about my disorder because of misinformation they received from endogenics. We were subjected to victim blaming and horrible name calling because somebody thought they understood plurality after reading posts made by endos. It’s happening, and denying that it’s happening means denying the direct harm endogenic culture has caused us.
- Cole
Endophobic pride flag: a pride flag dedicated to traumagenic systems who hate endogenic systems and other fake systems.
dark blue: survivors of childhood trauma/abuse lighter blues & lighter teals: representing alters & multiple people teal: the validity of traumagenic systems white: safe spaces for traumagenic systems
The war
This whole war between traumatogenics and endogenics is just bizarre to me. It’s really not a thing on facebook and the terms don’t even exist there. I can’t believe there is actually an endophobic pride flag. Just now I saw some people using the term trauma scum. This baffles me too. It’s like “OK you are having a trauma reaction and we clearly know nothing about trauma and how it works so we are going to abuse you for having been abused already.” That’s just fucked up. I want interaction with endogenics folks. I want to hear about multiplicity from all angles. I don’t want to interact with people who use this term though because that signals to me that they are downright abusive. I’m not looking to befriend people flying an endophobic pride flag or otherwise flagging that they are endophobic either. If you believe that endogenics are actually traumatogenic and just not acknowledging it, I fail to see how an endophobic pride flag and sentiment helps those that are traumatogenic accept it.
