#disabled trans

• who have been degendered because of ableism

• who have been on the receiving end of medical ableism because of their gender or agab

• whose transition goals look different because of disability

• whose neurodivergency affects the way they experience gender or a lack of it

• who have to hide their transness or disability

• who can't hide their transness or disability

• whose transness or disability has been denied because surely one person can't deal with two things at once (sarcasm)

• whose gender expression and transition is dependent on a caregiver or health team

• who can't afford to transition because ableism prevents a decent income

• who didn't realize they were trans

• who didn't realize they were disabled

• who are reading this

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if you can spare anything even just a few dollars. please. thank you. don’t let me suffer alone.

pp

After a decade long abusive relationship, I left my husband for good. I realized if I wanted to grow to become the most ancient trans person anyone's ever seen, I had to save myself. My plan was to get him committed, maybe even arrested depending on what happened. But my daughter, who is not on Tumblr, stopped it from happening, and made me leave my own house.

I am sleeping extremely temporarily on @sigilwitch couch, I have no money of my own, because I'm disabled. So, if anyone can buy a tarot reading, or donate through my Ko-Fi I'd be eternally grateful. I'm very proud of myself but I have no idea what I'm going to do. I just moved across country I barely know anyone.

Leaving abusive patterns is hard, man, it'll feel like your life is ruined, but GOD yesterday was my liberation day and I just have to figure out how do I build from here?

This is my Ko-Fi shop

I have deity readings, past life readings, and a reading with Lord Lucifer. I even have a Pop Culture deity reading! And other fully customizable ones.

I love you all SO much. Remember after The Tower comes The Star and I love the star 😭

you (the people who do this) need to stop being so afraid to call out bad people when they happen to be a minority. you aren't transphobic if you call out the horrible comments/actions someone has done. you can still respect their name/pronouns and gender while doing so.

it's so tiring seeing people water down a situation that's "this person said horrible racist/ableist things to many people" to "they're trans and got in trouble!! those transphobes never stop!" you are making trans poc and disabled people feel unsafe, like we can't speak up. we already have so many expectations and standards to reach because of the discrimination we face on top of being trans. we have to walk on egg shells, we have watch our tone, we have to sugarcoat stories, we can't be too mean, too loud, too upset. it's just.. silence.