#actuallyspoonie

So I get comments practically everyday along the lines of "I wish I could stay at home all day" or "I can't believe you get to use the lift" etc, followed by "you're so lucky"

Which part of being in constant pain, feeling like I'm always on the verge of throwing up, having endless fatigue, and suffering frequent migraines is lucky?

Do people not realise these aren't just random bonuses I get? I don't use the lift because I can't be bothered walking up the stairs. I don't skip out on punishment for not doing my homework because the teachers like me.

What are yalls body stims? (No stim toy or stuff)

i had a sinus infection this past 2/3 weeks and missed a bunch of school which was good for my mental health but now i have to go back tomorrow and i'm in hell with tests to make up

my adhd has gotten so bad i can't read a paragraph and process or remember what it said when i'm done and it's rlly upsetting bc i used to read so much and tons of my cognitive function has just disappeared over the years

i am rlly feeling my neglect trigger from all around and my bpd has been really acting up and it's miserable

autism 

spoonie life 

chronic illness 

self help for any of the above 

stimming 

animals 

ableism & disability activism 

and anything you think might be relevant to any of that stuff! 

[no nsfw please]