Love the fact that people think aro/ace characters/people are broken and don't know sex etc but when an aroacespec person is freaky/kinky or still enjoy sex they freak out. Relax man, I don't want to have intercourse w you.
I love complicated aroacespec people, I love sex repulsed aroacespec people, I love aro/aces people in general and anyone under the spectrum. Yall are awesome.
If you are acespec/arospec or acearospec or just aro/ace you are all cool.
Yk acephobic arophobic people that sex≠ romance?? Its important for me that you know that.
It's also important for me that you know that not every aro/ace person has the same experience with sex/romance???
I say this bc apparently there are influx of people that think we are pure or that we share the same experience.
My own experience ≠ others and viceversa
I always feel intrigued and interested in aceness/aroness experiences even if I don't feel it in my skin.
I think sex/romance is important to know, even if im neurodivergent and i don't understand relationships/friendships and situationship
Which is another discourse I'd talk in the future.
I think friendships isn't binary either and so it's sex and romance. It's important to me that you know that.
Why friendships and romance has to be binary? If it's your thing that's ok. For me I just like to experience whatever stage I'm in in my own unique way that isn't binary.
