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A quick AG entry for the special pride themed day; I noticed there's a lack of ace-spec/aro/bi/pan canon characters so I ended up drawing my own headcanons. Didn't expect to actually get in bc of that but I did! 🥹🙌✨️✨️

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I think this is just my opinion, but it seems to me that modern people complicate everything too much. In the plan, you can be an aroace, and love to read or watch romantic stories. And this is absolutely normal, because one is your sexual orientation, and the other is your personal preferences, which are on a par with your favorite taste of chips.

It's just that I've read too many other people's stories, and it seemed strange to me that sexual orientation is associated with tastes in literature and media choices. Well, I can understand the approximate logic of people in this situation. But in a global sense? I don't understand.

Well, really, these are completely different things that are practically unrelated to each other. And if they are connected, then indirectly.

Orientation is orientation.

Personal preferences are just personal preferences.

A person likes to read romance because it is his favorite genre of books. Or eat sweets, because he prefers this direction more. And the orientation to this topic has nothing to do with it, and it just seems strange to me to connect such different things. And I really don't understand why such simple things should be complicated.

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I don’t know if it’s just me being young, but I can’t wrap my head around putting your romantic partner on such a high pedestal above friends and family you’ve known for years. Like, I love the idea of having a long-term romantic partner, and I really love my girlfriend, but I don’t feel like I put her far above my friends if that makes sense? And she doesn’t do that with me either. I don’t really get the idea that once you get into adulthood you have to get a partner and only see your friends once a month, or that once you get a partner you have to centre them to the point that no one else matters in your life.

I’m fine with getting old and not having a partner, and only having close friends and family in my life, but I don’t feel like that’s an option in our society. As soon as someone gets a partner you’re second-best, no matter how long you’ve known the person. And that strikes me as odd, as imo all types of relationships (platonic, romantic, familial ect) are worthy of the same respect and societal attitude as one another, and should have similar places in your life.

I understand that life gets in the way, and if you live with (a) romantic partner/s you tend to spend more time together than with anyone else in your life, but why is living with close friends never seen as a long-term option? Or having a romantic partner *and* a best friend whom you try to spend similar time with? Idk, I just don’t see why a romantic couple with a kid is the ‘default’ in the west. Why not a group of friends with a kid? A couple and their platonic housemate who all love each other equally, just in different ways? Two people who are sexual partners, but only platonic friends?

Maybe I’ll change my mind when I get older, but right now it feels like I’m the only one making sense in-amongst people who see all their very close long-term friendships as lesser as soon as they start dating someone.

#not sure how to tag this lol but I feel like the aroaces will relate most #aromantic #asexual #acearo #I’m not acearo myself but idk yall may be onto something that us allosexuals aren’t ready for yet #and I feel for yall cuz like #slowly your friends will get partners and you’ll get relegated to second place automatically #that doesn’t feel fair #and as a lesbian I can have a long term romantic partner if I wish #which honestly I prolly will want to if everyone else treats friendships as second #lesbian #platonic #friendships #lgbtq #lgbtqia+#which acronym are we using I’ve kinda lost track tbh #this was spurred on by another post I saw with similar points made by an acearo person #but I’ve been wanting to say this for AGES #we like. need to normalise all types of love being equal instead #even if you’re allosexual #I feel like it also links in with the ‘it takes a village to raise a child’ thing #why is it normal for TWO people to raise like three whole humans #why not share the load and have 3 close friends and one of their partners raise a kid all together #SURELY that would be less stressful

if someone asked me to write two separate examples of a close friendship and a romantic relationship respectively I couldn't do it because especially in fiction. those are like the same to me. couldn't tell the difference.

and you might say well in one of those relationships they kiss or in one of those relationships they have sex and I'd say that's awfully presumptuous.

the concept of being allo is crazy. how do you know. 😭

#acearo #asexual #aromantic #probably also autism #happy pride month every body #I keep seeing posts from people like “it doesn't always have to be romantic”#and I get the sentiment and I like the sentiment and the sentiment is right #but romantic relationships seem so similar to platonic ones that part of me is like well. same thing #but also the spectrum of human relationships is so vast #there can NOT be only two different kinds