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We will be on hiatus from 8th March 2022! Any orders before then will be fulfilled, even once the website looks gone. We will be back in September, ready for back to college and Christmas gifting, but for now Stimology is unfortunately going to have to take a few months break due to my social work Masters and weekend job... we're all only human and have our limits! 😅🙏🏻💜✨ I'm hoping by giving a quick update on here that you'll have a chance to grab anything you've been hesitating on before we go underground for a little while. We also won't be posting very often or around as much during this time. I'm sure everyone in this space will understand and wishing everyone the best 💛🌟💛 💜✨ https://www.instagram.com/p/Cak57yOs1UA/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Autism vs functioning labels vs masking

Heya. I did some writing about functioning vs. masking, I wanted to share it here even if I don't share it anywhere else. I hope other people can relate to these feelings, this is how I experience masking as a late diagnosed adult.

My mask

My autism mask is heavy but familiar. The years I have spent building it have made it thick with layers.

I wear my autism mask often without realising at first. It has been carefully constructed to mimic my face. It's not always easy to distinguish.

The mask isn't "more" or better than I am. It doesn't do anything to a more skillful level than my own. It's a mask and it possesses no magic powers.

My mask instead is trying to be prettier than I am. It thinks constantly about the outside world. It monitors and scans for the most appropriate answer and the most social interaction with the people who it may come across.

My mask chooses words for me before I have understood them. My mask is anxiously pacing, it is desperate for attention. Your approval means the world to my mask, before we've even decided if we want it.

My mask is brittle and heavy. I wear it without realising, until my pulse is racing. Anxiety begins to race through me. Yet all I see is my own face reflecting back at me, perfectly matched.

Under my mask there is a different form of me.

This me doesn't make words so easily. This me hesitates before making up my mind. This me doesn't know the right answers. Under my mask, this me has been gasping for air. Pale and faint from the lack of sunlight. Underexposed and hesitant.

My mask is far brighter and shinier. My mask is more decisive. My mask is so familiar.

My mask isn't a real person. My mask doesn't really listen, my mask is always thinking always talking always calculating always thinking. Within the mask I never have to stop.

Underneath my mask, I am hidden.

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hi! i wanted to tell you that you dont need to write in the tags in the description of your posts! you only need to do it in the official tag spot at the very bottom of the post =3

Hiya! Thank you for this 💜

We usually post from instagram so I had no idea it was doing this. Thank you for letting us know! 😊🙏🌟

I’ll go back and sort this out now on our old posts 💖

-Fen ✨💜

nonasuch

Life hack for my fellow ADHD quilters and sewists: I plugged my iron and the nearest lamp to my ironing board into the same power strip, and switch the whole strip on and off when I need it.

If the lamp is on, I know the iron’s on, and I don’t need to worry about forgetting to turn it off, or check and recheck whether I did.

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Demo of our new alien ball! ⠀ ⠀ It's a different variety of the Rainbow Colour Pop, with pastel balls and a translucent blue casing 👽⠀ ⠀ Video shows Colour pop ball being fidgeted with, held in two hands against white backdrop, fingers pushing the smaller balls into different ringed slots creating a clacking sound and slowly matching ringed slot colours to the small balls.⠀ ⠀ Tags:⠀ #adultfwidgets #anxietygifts #giftsforanxiety #fidgetuk #adhdgiftsdgetgifts #buyfidgetsonlineuk #ukfidgets #autismgifts #fidgetsforadults #fidgetsforanxiety #anxietyfidgets #calminggifts #officegifts #ukbusiness #uksmallbusiness #autisticbusiness #autisticbusinessuk ⠀ #sensory #stimuk #stimming #stimtoy #adhd #adultadhd #studying (at United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CLEdGLNMlMu/?igshid=1e29fi5qfwl9d

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Are you still Christmas shopping? We can help! 🎄🎁💖 Order by 12noon tomorrow so your parcel is guaranteed to get there on time 😊 Browse our selection of fascinating fidgets and sensory gadgets and you'll be supporting a small neurodiverse UK business too! 🌈 Tangles, putties and more, all at affordable prices 💪 Plus we do FREE UK SHIPPING over £15! 📦📮🚚 Shop immediately on Instagram by clicking the tags, or go to bio for shop link 💪 All the best, Fen ✨💜 (at United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CI5I_yghRtF/?igshid=118vda4z1oogx

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Isn't this fricking magical?? 🌙✨⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ So excited to have these in stock finally, make sure to check out the shop to get yours. We also have hex-nut variants if you want something less celestial 🔩💪⠀⠀ (Video shows magnetic tiny silver moons and stars being delicately pulled into a tall sculptural shape that seems to defy gravity) #adultfidgets #anxietygifts #giftsforanxiety #fidgetuk #adhdgifts #fidgetgifts #buy-fidgets-online-uk #ukfidgets #autismgifts #fidgetsforadults #fidgetsforanxiety #anxietyfidgets #calminggifts #officegifts #ukbusiness #uksmallbusiness #autisticbusiness #autisticbusinessuk #magnets (at United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIsgN_nhh2_/?igshid=j87cify7oi4w

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Noodles now in! Get them while they last, they come in pairs or in a selection of your choosing 😉👍🌈 Click the tags to get straight to the shop - UK orders over £15 get free shipping as standard 🙌📦 - Fen✨💜 #autisticbusiness #hsp #sensory #stimming #stimtoy #adhd #desktoy #fidget #fidgets #fidgettoy #neurodiversity #neuroemergent #autism #asd #actuallyautistic #spoonie #anxiety #copingskills #mindfulness #mindfulwork #cheapfidgetsuk #giftideas #stretchyfidgets (at United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIahmdVh4sc/?igshid=1v5hgeniayx3z

Flashy flashy! Lighting all these little chicks up at once creates a fantastic but explosive effect! If you need extra visual stimulation and you're attracted to bright or colourful things, these little pals will make your DAY honestly! Pink and yellow come in a pair, as do blue and purple, so they can have a friend for a slightly reduced price 😊 - only £5 for 2! Let me know if this is way too much or give me a 🌈 in the chat if you love these colourful buddies! Love, Fen ✨💜 #autisticbusiness #sensory #stimming #stimtoy #adhd #desktoy #studying #fidget #fidgettoy #neurodiversity #neuroemergent #autism #asd #actuallyautistic #spoonie #hyposensitive #anxiety #copingskills #mindfulness #mindfulwork #flashing #happystims #lightuptoys (at Cardiff) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIVhf7xBk5Q/?igshid=ujvxzwgeqa2n

We're running out of these beans! 💞 I reckon it's because we have a great price and speedy delivery 📦🚚⚡ PLUS shopping with us is a great way to support neurodiverse business 😊🧠🌈 More updates coming soon, I promise 🤞 Executive dysfunction is a b*tch, even when you're doing everything right, it's a learning process 😌🙏 Love, Fen 💜✨ #autisticbusiness #hsp #sensory #stimming #stimtoy #adhd #desktoy #studying #fidget #fidgettoy #neurodiversity #neuroemergent #autism #asd #actuallyautistic #spoonie #anxiety #copingskills #mindfulness #mindfulwork #squeezybeans #beanfidget (at United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CIQqd2vBDad/?igshid=n0gxhi45tm78

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🎁🎁🎁 We are getting new stock! 🎉🐥🐥 You voted, you commented and you messaged your voice so we're getting a bunch of funky chicks 😁🙌👌 They are stretchy, bristly and even light up when you tap them - very exciting! 🐤🐥🐤 Many more pictures coming soon :D It's hard running an online shop but your support is what makes everything worth it - please share our page with UK friends to help us grow! 💖🙏🌱 We want to provide great anti-anxiety tools for everyone who needs them, you can support us today by following and subscribing to our no-spam email list so you can keep up to date 👍💖 Fen 💜✨ (at United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHuvmLxB8ew/?igshid=1dtiixqipqsyx

#MemeMonday ⠀ Hands up if you're too "different" to be normal, but too "normal" to be different? 🤪🙃😝🙋⠀ ⠀ #Repost @lifeinautismworld⠀ • • • • • •⠀ #memesformentalhealth #awkward #latediagnosed #nervousness #mentalillnessmemes #mentalhealthmeme #mentalillnessmeme #actuallyautistic #anxietysucks #nervous #mentallyill #introvertmemes #introvert #anxietyissues #autisticmemes #relatablememes #anxietyanddepression #generalisedanxietydisorder #crazy #introvertproblems #anxietyproblems #anxietydisorders⠀ https://www.instagram.com/p/CHpkD4Chazg/?igshid=nybfifyc2fdw

#selfcaresaturday It's getting close to seasonal changes like Christmas and the holidays. We've already gone into a England lockdown, and there's almost definitely more extra change ahead. Make sure you're being especially gentle with yourself in this coming month if you are sensitive and struggle with change!⠀ ⠀ #mentalhealthquotes #positivequotes #mentalillnessrecovery #mentalhealthsupport #motivationalquotes #bekind #selflove #selfcare #spooniequotes #gentleaesthetic #gentlequotes #autism #asd #actuallyautistic #hsp #infj #adhd #adultadhd #neurodiverseuk #unmasking #spoonie #chronic #ptsd #anxiety #mentalhealth #copingskills #recovery #ocd #recoveryquotes (at United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHkZmQ7BbI-/?igshid=5assn5g01ixr

Early in our journey @autistic.chan, reviewed are squeeze beans and told us what she thought! Stim toys are great for breaking bad habits. If you hair pull and want to change that, why not click through and support us? 🌈🥰🧠 We're a neurodiverse business for neurodiverse people, you can support our UK store by visiting us and subscribing today 😁💪🇬🇧 Fen ✨💜 #autism #asd #actuallyautistic #autisticbusiness #adultautistics #autisticadults #hsp #infj #sensory #stim #stimmy #stimming #stimtoy #adhd #adultadhd #worktoy #desktoy #studying #fidget #fidgettoy #fidgeting #neurodiverse #neurodiversity #neuroemergent #unmasking #trich #hairpulling #badhabits https://www.instagram.com/p/CHh9pwDB-oH/?igshid=19pct4ons42ua

#MemeMonday from @LifeinthefastBrain - she is a star and a legend! ⠀ ⠀ TBH this was me last month 😂⠀ ⠀ #memesformentalhealth #socialanxietymemes #socialdistancing #nervousness #mentalillnessmemes #adhdmemes #mentalillnessmeme #actuallyautistic #anxietysucks #anxiety #bipolarmemes #bpdmeme #ocdmemes #adhdmemes #mentallyill #introvertmemes #introvert #anxietyissues #seroquel #autisticmemes #relatablememes #anxietyanddepression #generalisedanxietydisorder #crazy #introvertproblems #anxietyproblems #nervous #anxietydisorders (at Cardiff) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHXiT8xhAZH/?igshid=x85w4rdix7o2

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This week's #StimPrideSunday focus is on the Stim economy - just like us!⠀ ⠀ We do fidgets and self-care sensory aids perfect for stimming with, just like in this order!⠀ ⠀ @Chewigem is another organisation in the stim economy, and they do chew accessories - we hope to stock them one day in the future 😃⠀ ⠀ Another excellent organisation doing a similar thing to us (but for much longer!) is @Stimtastic in the USA🇺🇲 I'm not ashamed to say that they have been an inspiration for our design 😇🙏⠀ ⠀ All the best,⠀ Fen ✨💜⠀ ⠀ #asd #actuallyautistic #adultautistics #hsp #sensory #stim #stimtoy #adhd #adultadhd #worktoy #desktoy #studying #fidget #fidgettoy #fidgeting #neurodiverse #neurodiversity #unmasking #spoonie #chronic #ptsd #anxiety #mentalhealth #copingskills #zenden #cptsd #ukstartup #autisticUk #autisticstartup https://www.instagram.com/p/CHU-b6LBUeA/?igshid=kwtips6i4xyi

#SelfCareSaturday 💗 Make sure you're warm enough! If you have sensory trouble it can be easy to forget to regulate your own temperature especially as the weather gets cold this time of year 🥶 Maybe add a blanket and a hot drink today☕😊 Take care, Fen ✨💜 #bekind #selflove #selfcare #asd#actually autistic #adultadhd #mentalhealthquotes #unmasking #spoonie #chronic #ptsd #anxiety #mentalhealth #copingskills #recovery #recoveryquotes https://www.instagram.com/p/CHSZLRshyep/?igshid=1g0duujjifalw

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