hi im muting my notifications on this post cause i cant deal anymore but first i need a last angry rant
where in it do you see "my body my choice means im exempt from consequences"? NOWHERE, because that's obviously not the case
yes, people with PDs can be abusive without their meds
yes, being raised in an addictive household can be bad for a child
yes, refusing treatment for medical conditions can make you a "burden" for your family (im actually way more mad at this one than the rest, im just choosing my battles)
as much as it is my choice whether or not to medicate my personality disorder, it is also yours to be involved with me or not
i have gone AWOL for months due to this, i've canceled plans last minute, i've hurt people's feelings
some of these people accept that that's the way i am and are still my friends and some don't and we don't talk anymore. i broke up with my ex over this because i was a very bad romantic partner. we're still friends, but they usually lean on others for emotional support cause i can't understand it. i am mad about none of these things, because i know them to be true. i also know strong meds make me want to kill myself. they make me not feel like a person. i refuse to take meds to be more palatable to you.
ALL OF THESE THINGS CAN COEXIST
people can do shit that is harmful to you, but that doesn't give you the right to deprive them of their basic human rights
(shoutout to the person who called me a white american liberal, i'm latine and an agressive socialist but it did make me take the rest of their post less seriously, otherwise i would've cried)
also also, just because this is the last time i'm speaking on this:
every one of you who starts your post with "i agree with the transition part but" is a hypocrite
not too long ago - not to mention to this day - transmasc lesbians and trans men who didn't medically transition were kicked out of every single queer circle, trans spaces, lesbian spaces, gay spaces. because of closed mentality
if you can open your mind to one of these things, you can open it to all. deconstruct yourself or whatever the fuck