softerdays

and, ultimately, its ice cream time

The sweetest of gains come not only from indulgence and good food, but from safety, being able to slow down and gains being admired. Your softer belly getting a loving squeeze, your thicker thighs getting showered in admiration and your appetite getting praised, the perfect mixture to get the sweetest and most enjoyable of gains.

A belly can be a "slut waist" too. If you're not a fearful little freak

"a moment on the lips a lifetime on the hips" is so fucking crazy to me because that just sounds like a win/win

It's SO important to appreciate porn outside of how horny it makes you. Appreciate the years it takes to develop the skills to make & the bravery it takes to post it & the creator's unique style & the consistency of the artist's posts & the time it takes to make. And this goes for all kink art like drawings & writing & videos & audio & roleplay & photography. It goes for professional productions & indie creators & strangers on Tumblr. And there's SO MUCH I missed in this post too. Just you HAVE to think about porn outside of the framework of how much you get off to it or else you'll never be normal about it. There I said it. Goodnight.

Sexualising your eating can be really liberating when you're recovering from an ED, but it's still okay if eating feels sexy sometimes and like a chore at other times. It doesn't make you a fake feedist if it's not always a turn on to eat. You just gotta make sure you're still eating when it does feel like a chore. And no, I don't mean you gotta suck it up and focus on gains, I mean you gotta make sure you have enough fuel to keep you going. You cannot rely on horniness alone to motivate you to eat.

A friend of mine started this blog! Signal boosting for anyone interested :)

Now, I'm going to leave The One Billion Calorie Brownie that Makes you Fat as Fuck cool on the counter. I gotta take a phone call, but when I get back it better still be there.

Stuck in bed (i mean literally stuck, even rolling over is excruciating) and frankly in a lot of pain. so im dealing with the anxiety of “what if this lasts forever” (it won’t) by once again pretending in my head that actually I’m stuck for Gigantically Fat reasons & that any second now my love will come help me turn over and bring me something yummy to snack on

this is why i do not respect the half-measure feedist acceptance of like, no health play/immobility/death feedism. (Not as in Everyone Has To Like These, but as in, non-feedists and even feedists who don’t accept that part of our scene.) like, I don’t have this thought fully formed but it’s. You want to disavow that kind of feedism (or whtever it is you’ve decided is Too Icky) for being “intentionally disabling yourself” and it’s like, what if I’m already fuckin disabled my dude. what if i already have heart palpitations when i go up stairs and it has nothing to do with my size. what if a power chair is already in my future. like does it not reasonably follow, that if a fat person can love the current state of their body or perhaps even aspire to have more of the socially degraded trait (fatness), that i as a fat disabled person can love the ways i am already fat and disabled and perhaps aspire to more fatness and more disability. I get that that’s not a common outlook okay! but i promise you people feel the same way about others wanting to be fat! if you can reject one societal expectation you can reject another!!

This is really similar to how I look at it! I already use a mobility aid, need to sit/lie down more than I want to, and need to eat food. But what if that was for reasons I wanted and thought were hot? What if, while my body is in such levels of pain and discomfort, I got to enjoy the feeling of being soft and heavy? Not to mention that I (and a lot of others with my condition) have seen my symptoms improve the more weight I gain. Getting stuck in a doorway because it's inaccessible & too narrow for me to pass with my rollator? Fuck that, lemme get stuck because my ass is too wide

belly hang is maybe the most beautiful thing ever

Posts that are funnier as a feedist

I'm attending a potluck and one of the people organizing it said to "come hungry" so I will be thinking about that phrase now... 👀