🍫 My name is Honey, I'm 25 years old, any pronouns
🥐 I'm happily taken in a feedist relationship. Don't dm me and ask me to be your feeder. I'm down to be friends or chat about feedism, but I won't sext you
🍮 This is a sideblog I started but I've had Tumblr since 2015. I can't like or follow from this blog but if I've rbed from you we're mutuals in spirit
🥥 I've been interested in feedism, weight gain, stuffing, and bellies from a very early age. When I got older I learned about fat liberation and I've been active in feedist communities for my entire adult life
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what if you're just. bad at cultivating interoception? (context: I've. got a chronic illness that messes w/ my appetite and makes me want to. 'run away' from.. embodiment, ig. so. I know not what to do).(and I'm sorry for dumping all this on you. /sincerely).
and what if you have a snack every night?
I know, scientifically, that overeating's better than undereating (calorie-storage?), but the illness [chronic fatigue syndrome] presumably counteracts that.
is that. wasteful? somehow?
I'm terrible with interoception too! I've learned to check in with my body, because I can't rely on it to tell me what it wants. There might be other ways of telling if you're hungry; if you're nauseous, you might be hungry, for example, or if you're light-headed. It's a like a type of language that will take time to learn. I searched "interoceptive awareness training" and I found this (written with children in mind) and this (there are a lot of expensive classes available but I'm not giving you resources you have to pay for lmao).
It's not wasteful. Food you consume doesn't go to waste. I think you're implying that because you experience chronic fatigue you feel like you don't deserve the food (apologies if I'm misinterpreting that) but you do, just as much as any other person. If you need permission and you need to hear it from me: you should eat whenever you're hungry!
Do you know what trauma causes the vore kink per chance?
Well I imagine it's going to vary from person to person. And not all kinks are created by trauma. BUT as a very incidental, specific vore enjoyer (swallowed whole by a fantasy creature with extra stomachs like a cow, usually for the purposes of smuggling the prey in a dangerous area, no digestion, the prey comes out safe later) I like the feeling of safety, security, and protection. I imagine the sensation would be very nice too, like a weighted blanket or a tight hug. (Squeezing is a kink too, isn't it? I think I heard of people saying the snake from the jungle book awoke something in them specifically with the constriction) It's also like wanting to be so close to someone you wish you could be in their skin. Well imagine if they could swallow you.
It might be different for people who like digestion (making someone fatter with your own body? This has an overlap with cannibalism probably, unless they're different species), or have different ideas of the circumstances leading to the vore (like nonconsentual vore, predation, or where the prey is harmed). Anyone else with a vore origin story feel free to chime in!
idk if it's weird to say this but this recipe video made me blushhhhhh. figured y'all might enjoy too
Damnnn that looks good as hell!! I've never had hot cocoa that wasn't instant but this is making me want to try it. The idea of heating up milk and skimming off film just seems icky to me 😫 and I feel like if you're making real hot chocolate with water, you're not even trying. Maybe I should try it with a non dairy milk?
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hello!! thinking about. the nocturnal snacking-thing again.
(and feel free not to publish/delete/ignore this, of course. sorry ':)
every night, I ingest some sort of supper-snack (crackers, usually. salt and. aughhh I canst recall the nutrients of crackers? but presumably smth good).
yet - today, I woke at 7:26, after drowsing beyond 1am.
I thought I was hungry, but managed to get to sleep (w/ the help of a melatonin).
so then I woke up around 1pm and ingested brunch.
..I don't think I can trust my metabolism anymore..?
- anon, mildly frustrated. seeking, if not advice, then listening. perspectives.
Not everyone eats on a regular 3 meal a day, ~4 hours apart basis! If you struggle with interoception (the ability to read the cues your body sends you, such as hunger, sleep, or toileting) it might be more helpful for you to make your own system. Doctors typically recommend 5 smaller meals, but most people have 3 because of school/the standardized 9-5. Before the industrial revolution, people weren't eating on such a rigorous schedule, though.
From Spartan feasts to Sunday brunches, the way we eat has transformed since our hunter-gatherer ancestors first shared meals around the hea
I'm always on my soap box about intuitive eating. It's not accessible to all, but there are ways you can try to implement it into your routine that can be beneficial. If you feel like you can't trust your metabolism, intuitive eating can be a good first step towards a better relationship with your body!
addendum to previous ask: I'm a mutual gainer but your answer focused exclusively on the feeder side of things so I'm still not sure how to introduce the idea of *her* feeding/fattening *me*
Oh my bad! I think it depends slightly on if you're already fat or not. If you're fat already, and she's attracted to you as you are, then you already have a good foundation to ask her to feed you. If you have a conversation about body positivity and she makes it clear that she doesn't think you need to lose weight, you can say something along the lines of "how would you feel if I gained weight?" You can blame it on relationship weight, or winter weight, or no particular cause.
It might be a little more difficult to bring this up if you're thin to begin with, but you could say something like "I'm thin currently but I always wished I was larger."
If she seems neutral/positive, you can suggest that you're interested in gaining weight for the aesthetic appeal. If she is a proponent of body autonomy, this shouldn't bother her. After you've had that conversation, I would have one similar to the feeder version, where you tell her it would turn you on to have her feed you/cook for you/you would like to both mutually feed each other. If she's willing, try a scene to see how it feels, and then you can discuss specific negotiation and terms, etc!
Honestly, I'm really hoping you don't get inundated with anon hate and have a crusade pitted against you because you're absolutely right. It's something that needs to be talked about regarding that all of this stuff is just people doing the dirty work of fascists and puritans for them.
There is even a study I remember (I would link it but I cannot remember where I saw it) where it was saying that all these reports of "child abuse content" in regards to fictional works and characters ACTIVELY is harming people trying to report REAL accounts of CSAM and abuse because it clogs up the works and they have to wade through countless amounts of false reports to find the ones that actually are happening.
So thank you VERY much for actually standing your ground and speaking up about this especially in this kink space where I feel like it's been INCREDIBLY contentious in recent years.
💀 Anon I suppose I'll use if it isn't used yet
I haven't!! Everyone has been really respectful, and even the people outright saying "this disgusts me" are stating that that is their opinion and other people are free to do as they please. It's great to see such an open and respectful discussion!
Please do link the study if you find it, I would love to have that on hand! (I searched for it, but I also couldn't find it)
+I can't really view fictional characters as minors. it's a legal term, for flesh-and-blood humans, harmed or nay. you cannot exploit drawings, or words. you can wave narratives around to discomfort, or manipulate people, but the tales themselves are not.. ..[%@)!]
-the 'magic bullet' or 'needle theory' was disproved. we've been having these arguments since the 1800s. first it was novels, now it's fanfiction.
-tossing harsh inquiries at people - that I can understand, maybe. if you're an adult, young, or mature, or wanting to be, aware of so many problems but lacking. agency,
-then shouting at the providers of things that seem to reproduce injustice (bleak bodice rippers, depictions of cartoonish pseudo-children), makes. sense. but the writers and/or artists aren't the ones going out and laying down shitty laws and exploiting real humans. it's tail-wagging-the-dog, seeing the reflection and blaming the mirror. and I hope all these metaphors aren't condescending, sorry. ':I
-🫀 anon, wearied. more than usual today (cfs)
<p>The Hypodermic Needle Theory, also known as the Magic Bullet Theory, is a concept in mass communication that suggests media messages are
Interesting!! I'd heard both sides of this debate before, but I didn't know the term for it, so thank you for telling me about this. That lines up with what I believe, because to me it sounds like the same argument as "video games are making young men violent" etc. It's just purity culture.
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(also if both feedism and lolisho are - in one angle of the.. theorizing-cube? - about comfort, there's. probably smth to be said about. 🤔 carving away at childhood shame, in one way or another? eating as much as you want, and being praised? realizing you were a freak, and that's okay?) yeah. and still are.
I never thought about it that way! Hearing different reasons for why people suspect they developed kinks is so fascinating to me. I never really got bdsm until one of my friends said "it's about going into a really dark place together and then coming out of that place and being together" (that doesn't apply to everyone into bdsm, of course) and I feel like that was the foundation for me being into it. Cnc likewise used to be "meh" for me until I read a fic where a victim of sexual assault was using cnc scenes with their partner as a way to reclaim their body after what happened to them; being able to say "no" at any point in the scene empowered them (not that you need to have experienced trauma to enjoy cnc, and not every kink is based on trauma ofc).
I met a really wonderful woman a few days ago and it seems like she at least really likes me platonically with a decent chance it's more than that. She's delectably plump and very enthusiastic about food, but I don't know how she feels about her weight. We're not at the stage yet where I would feel in the clear to comment on her body even in a fatphobia-free world, but once we are, how do I bring up what turns me on about her and what I want us to do to each other in a way that's least likely to offend her?
💬 0 🔁 2 ❤️ 37 · Hello fellow feedist, maybe a weird question but so any of you know any type to see if someone you wanna date is a feedist
I answered a similar question here, but it sounds like you're already most of the way through these steps. I would start out with soft-launching feedism in ways that are plausible deniable as vanilla; talking about your preference for bigger bodies, talking about how food is your love language, talking about how fat lib + body positive you are (when relevant for all of these). Some fat people already have a bad experience with feedism; if she knows what it is and it's a hard limit for her, it's best to find out early in the relationship. If she doesn't know what it is, then you have the opportunity to be her first experience with it. Feedism is great because it's very negotiable. Maybe she's okay with a little stuffing but not weight gain, etc. After the soft-launch I would try to find out how she feels about her body. If it's going well I would try to say something to the effect of offering to cook/hand-feed her something; it's a pleasurable act that anyone can engage in. If you present it to her like it's a gift for you, you can even bargain for something she likes (early in our relationship, I bribed my husband with doughnuts to do things I wanted). If the topic of weight gain comes up around here, I would say "I would enjoy it if you gained weight." After that you can have a conversation about limits. Make it clear that it's entirely up to her and she can decide what aspects of the fetish she can engage in. She might want to do research on her own, or she might want to try a scene to see what it's like.
different anon: Personally, I think it's very weird when adults go into specifically children's media and go out of their way to do nsfw content of the children characters and the world itself... sometimes, it depends on the show. If it something like MLP, where the cast is primarily adults then its less weird. But if it's something like Sofia the first, paw patrol, or the loud house, etc. Yeah, no I'm sorry that's gross. They're fictional children yes, but they're explicitly written to be children, there is no guessing if they're actually 10,000 years old. But the adult fan is technically allowed to do this or ship them romantically with an adult as this is fiction, but I am also allowed to be disgusted by their content. I get everything fictional but still I rather this person never interact with me ever. I block them, I move on, simple.
But I do feel bad for the real kids who are in these children media/show fandoms. Because they're either bound to stumble upon nsfw stuff unintentionally due to google or stuff not being properly tagged or/and get kicked out of the space of a media made for them (not just the nsfw side, looking at you Bronies).
Now, I'm not saying adults can't enjoy children's media/cartoons + their fandoms, but I wish more adults were mindful of underaged fans in these types of fandoms + tagged things correctly (esp if they want to create nsfw or minor-free spaces) and also realize that, Yes, you ARE going to run into minors in a media oriented towards them. Yes, they will be immature and say/do dumb but they're kids and it is likely their first fandom! Plus that's kind of what they do but, they still deserve to be and have a space in the fandom as much an adult fan. (Also no, that doesn't give them the right to harass + send death threats to an adult fan because of their content, however, I think they are allowed to feel grossed out by it esp if they're around or the same age of the kid characters in the media/show.)
Agree completely "they're allowed to do what they want and you're allowed to be disgusted". That's why filters exist! As long as you're not trying to prevent anyone from making nsfw content, everyone can have it their way.
I disagree about the children inevitably finding nsfw content being the fault of the nsfw content creators; children accidentally finding nsfw content is a very normal part of childhood. It is likely to happen whether it's a transformative work of their favorite media or not. Example: I was trying to look up the latin name of a flower at age 11. The flower is called naked lady, and knowing the result would show me porn, I typed in "naked lady flower" because I didn't know flower meant vagina. (Does anyone know the "great tits of the world" bird comic?)
I agree children need spaces where they're not likely to run into nsfw content. That's why it's so harmful that social media is banning users under 16 and websites like club penguin or poptropica are disappearing. And ideally they have a trusted adult in their lives to talk non-judgementally about anything upsetting that they see online.
I want to join the discussion about kink writing! :3
I'm a kink fiction writer who debuted in 2022 and have published (not written) 316,783 words of weight gain tagged fanfiction. Yes, I counted. Among my 41 works, only 2 are marked explicit and combined, they have 9078 words, which makes them 2.8% of my entire weight-gain-related word count.
My point is to show one thing: that weight gain texts aren't only explicit :3 There's nothing wrong with wanting to read a text about fat sex, but also there are plenty of works where sex doesn't happen or isn't the main focus. After all, explicit rating is (according to AO3 FAQ) "The content contains explicit adult themes, such as detailed sex scenes, graphic violence, etc."
Works tagged as mature and teen can be fun and have plenty of weight gain into them! :3
That's it, that's the statement, I'm going back to writing, bye-bye!
Agreed! Some of my favorite fics have been mature, not sexual outside of feedism, or even not a pairing (just a single character gaining weight/stuffing).
For those with high involvement, 61 percent said that BDSM is mostly sexual, 35 percent said it was mostly non-sexual, and 4 percent said it’s equally sexual and non-sexual.
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This is for bdsm, but I wouldn't be surprised if a similar percentage is true across many kinks. That's part of the reason I thought I was asexual for so long, because I was interested in feedism but not sex (until age 19).
Thoughts about a fit feeder who’s scared to gain weight but still likes feedism
Well, you can stay a feeder, or you can do stuffings (or inflation) without gaining weight, or you can face that fear head-on and see if it's worth trying!
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the world is so beautiful.... im into both vore and feedism and it's so awesome. all the art and community is so great. never give up never kill yourself
