ari :3

sex is some naked bullshit and food is some crap they found on the ground but online poker is forever

cis women really don't want to accept that the reason men treat them the way they do is because they are systemically and socially empowered to do so, because that means there is no real difference between them and a man when they treat trannies exactly how men treat them

the idea that there must be a transmasc equivalent to each tgirl experience is, fundamentally, oppositional sexism. transmasculinity and transfemininity are two separate social organs, the idea that one is neccesarily a mirror image of the other is misogyny, and further transmisogyny. anyway T4T means transfem 4 transfem

ah yes. because transmascs do not have any reason to prefer trans4trans relationships, and otherwise would not ever experience attraction or dating this way. agree with the rest of the post in the sense that we are Different In Many Ways and need different language and communities. but struggling to wrap my head around why this means "trans4trans" is exclusive

oh no yeah, you're right, it would suck if you had a word that meant 'a relationship between people sharing a specific oppression' and it got taken away from you. that would suck if you couldn't use that word any more, right. yeah like if there was a term that referred to a specific type of oppression, and then the meaning of that term got changed so that you couldn't communicate in that way any more, it would be bad. would hate to deprive you of that.

i wish we were able to talk about women's rights without someone mentioning how much they do or don't want to have sex with them. i don't care if you're a lesbian Stop finding worth in women purely from their perceived attractiveness

"I think women should not be expected to shave for societal respect / to avoid discrimination" "yeah🤤 i love bush" ok well that's not what we're talking about is it.

i hate how many posts about trans women deserving respect always devolve into "I love girldick" or "trans rights but I don't want to date a trans person" because that's entirely unrelated to the topic at hand. you should not respond to feminism with "YESSS I loveeee you because I see you as nothing but a sex object" you people sound like other men I get stuck talking with that end up saying "free the nipple so I can see boobies in public" and thinking they're feminists. why can't we just respect women regardless of your attraction to them or not. why does it need to be brought up in every conversation regarding their rights

There's lots of problems with USA public education but also a lot of you were just drawing Naruto characters kissing while your history teacher tried to tell you about the Scramble for Africa

At the sex shop asking if I can buy a regular sized dildo I can put in my unremarkable asshole but they recognize me as the hero of legend regardless

"tme/tma is a binary!!" yes that's how oppression descriptors fucking work dipshit. you're either the intended target for discrimination or you're not. you don't fucking transcend oppression just because you're nonbinary or intersex

Question to TMEs: do you think it's "infighting in the gay community" for lesbians to point out misogyny in gay men?