I did a thing
So...I paid off a decent-sized loan this week. And I'm having ~feelings~ about it. It was a combination of my car loan and a personal loan to repair the HVAC at my ex-boyfriend's house. The house I haven't lived in for a year after he broke up with me. He has also ignored all kinds of communication and reminders to pay back what he owes me. What he promised to pay when we broke up. So. I paid off this loan all by myself.
He's not going to pay me back, I've very aware of this. And it's really not worth the cost of taking him to court. I spoke with some attorney friends, all VERY willing to send EXTREMELY STRONGLY WORDED LETTERS to him. But when it comes down to it, the boy was very careful to never put anything in writing.
So. Dang it.
But it's paid off. My credit score (whatever that really means) looks decent. I don't have to worry about that account anymore, my car (my wonderful Subaru!) is paid off, his dogs have AC (which is the important thing, cause they shouldn't suffer the Florida miasma), and I can focus on other things.
August is such a drag, y'all. Every inch of me is feeling it. It will get better, it always does, but ugh.













