Under Her Bows

If your doctor makes multiple documents confirming that you suffer from alopecia because of stress and the medicine you have to take for your epilepsy and that wearing a bonnet or something is recommended for your mental health as you’re not ready to go out bald in high school as a teenage girl, instead of admitting they are wrong the school will accuse the doctor of lying and report him to the Ordre des Médecins (equivalent of the General Medical council). Your doctor will find himself asking you for a document stating that you are not Muslim in order to defend himself and prove that no he wasn’t colluding with you so you could wear a substitute for hijab.

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In France if you are a North African nurse at a public hospital and wear a fabric surgical cap they will try to make you remove it because apparently it’s a hidden hijab. They will accuse you of going against secularism and when you’ll argue that they are discriminating you by assuming you’re Muslim for a surgical cap on your head they will change their angle and claim that you should wear nothing on your hair because you wear the same surgical cap in multiple bedroom which is unhygienic apparently (which is a bullshit argument cause you wear the same scrub/uniform in different bedrooms as well). They will go as far as claiming that disposable scrub caps (you know the thin papery ones?) are not okay to wear in a hospital even if you change it regularly. And then they will fire you for a lack of hygiene because you wear a surgical cap.

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All of that will be done in the name of secularism and women’s right despite having nothing do with either quite the opposite.

So we have grown adults asking underage girls what they are wearing under their dress and if they wear shorts and not just underwear they have to remove the dress and stay in short or they get send back home… grown ass ADULTS checking what UNDERAGE Black and Arab girls wear under their dresses and making them undress or lose access to education. That’s where we’re at in France…

(And you can’t wear a headband either if you’re Black or Arab but that’s an other subject.)

@letsgotomato11

Cultural victories of misogyny over feminism during the 2010s MRA era, which they likely weren't responsible for but still managed to inherit

Conscious or subconscious belief that they are the true bearers of feminism due to their innate connection to womanhood, so transfeminism must be about them, the trans people most connected to womanhood

The impulse of seeing trans women do something cool and going "Hey, why aren't we a part of that?" that ends up becoming "Hey, why aren't we the focus of that?" once you apply the first two points

The "we're all faggots in the eyes of the state" mentality meaning they reject difference entirely and believe anything made for anyone in the trans community, even a subset of the trans community, is just as much for them

Personal arrogance (not uniquely a transandrophobiaposter problem) leading them to go "Ahh, a bunch of people have thoughts on gender and politics, but their thoughts are different from mine. Given that I learned The Perfect Queer Politics from tumblr osmosis, I am the perfect person to correct this movement from its erroneous path."

The first point combining with the fifth point to become, "Ahh, all these former-males have ideas about feminism! Good! But they're a little wrong, probably because they don't have someone with a connection to womanhood correcting them. I, a trans man, would be perfect for the job"

"How to reason with a War CRiminal"