you will say "i just think that its transphobic to say you would never date a trans woman. for the sake of the argument imagine a given trans woman passes completely as cis in every way and you wouldnt know otherwise if she didnt tell you she was trans. what is it about her that sets her apart from a cis woman that makes her so undesirable to you the instant you find out she's trans?" and so called transfem allies will hear this and get so scared of confronting their inherent transmisogynist biases that they just start yelling about consent and how they dont have to date anyone they dont want to

just got called transphobic for calling out a transmasc for being transmisogynistic. transfems on this website please know that you are in my thoughts always i have experienced secondhand just a fraction of the frustration you experience on a daily basis and i am already about to spontaneously combust

I know I'm just rephrasing what you said but it is literally so insane to me that hypothetical dream tranny is bad but hypothetical dream girl is good, when the only difference (hypothetically) is essentially "purity of womanhood" ie one of them "wasn't always a woman" where the other "has always been a woman".

people will describe their incredibly nebulous sexuality to you that they’ve never been able to define and the whole time you’re thinking that sounds like bisexuality brother

"transandrophobic exorsexist and intersexist" is always the most telling lineup because it's basically a list of labels that are genderqueer while not being strictly transfeminine. just a childsh mimicry of social justice language used as a bludgeon against transfeminism. a clear statement that you see transfems as a "them" opposed to the "us" of tme queers.

they do when they want to shit talk TME/TMA by pretending it excludes nonbinary and intersex transfems

Doctor who showrunners be like “writing a good story to secure the show’s continued existence? That pales in comparison to my strategy. Stuntcasting Billie piper” and then not even secure the show’s continued existence.

at the end of the day its about making ur life as lesbian as possible