Something Almost Poetically Hollow

Resolution 2417 (2022) of The Council of Europe states that:

The Assembly condemns the highly prejudicial anti-gender, gender-critical and anti-trans narratives which reduce the fight for the equality of LGBTI people to what these movements deliberately mis-characterise as “gender ideology” or “LGBTI ideology”. 

Such narratives deny the very existence of LGBTI people, dehumanise them, and often falsely portray their rights as being in conflict with women’s and children’s rights, or societal and family values in general. 

All of these are deeply damaging to LGBTI people, while also harming women’s and children’s rights and social cohesion.

The Assembly deplores the fact that such discourse is leading to stagnation and even backsliding in progress towards LGBTI equality, sexual and reproductive rights and women’s and children’s rights – and in so doing, it poses a direct challenge to democracy and the rule of law. In many countries, legislative processes aimed at improving the protection of the rights of LGBTI people have stalled, and in some, progress previously achieved has been undone.

The significant advances achieved in recent years are today under threat. It is crucial to react quickly in order to prevent further backsliding and work actively to promote full respect for the rights of LGBTI people.

Steph Paton points out that  it specifically condemns the United Kingdom over “virulent attacks on the rights of LGBTI people that have been occurring for several years”.

She has expressed it as "hetero flexible" earlier, but is kinda unsure about labels. Her physical attraction does seem to be very centered around men and she expresses that often and openly, as in finding a guy passing by attractive. That hasn't happened with anyone non-male whilst I've been around yet. She's also very open about talking about sexual stuff and having sex with guys she doesn't know etc. (She has had a threesome with a guy and a girl, but otherwise only been with men).

We've been seeing her for about two months now, and she's kept physical intimacy to hugs, kissing and cuddling. When the subject of further physical intimacy has been discussed, she's been open enough (and at least a little enthusiastic) to it all, but it doesn't really seem to translate to reality.

I guess what I'm struggling with is why she would be so very happy about being in a relationship with two women when she only seems interested in physical intimacy with men. She does want to see men too, however, it's hard to say if she wants a relationship with one, or just sex, as she seems to really see our relationship as quite dedicated. (Like, meet the parents level serious)

I guess I just feel unsure of what kind of relationship it is and she says that she doesn't know but worries that she might not be able reciprocate the physical intimacy, meaning I feel like the relationship might be a hindrance and weight on her rather than being able to find someone to share all aspects of intimacy with.

Perhaps I am overthinking it? Might she simply be heterosexual but bi/panromantic? But if so, would she really enjoy making out with me/us or could it simply be misdirected platonic feelings?

If anyone could give me some good input or advice, I'd really appreciate it.

Another month has passed and we've gone "official" and all now. But the boundaries persist. She accidentally held her hand sorta halfways on my bewb the other day for a few seconds and started to feel uncomfortable about it. The same day we went shopping and she was excited about buying condoms and to get to use them, whilst also talking excitedly about this guy she met when out clubbing with her friends that she wanted to hook up with (more than once if possible).

A while back, she took me to a party with a few of her friends and as she usually does, she turned it into a makeout-fest and of course made out with everyone (of all genders, but me, probably least of all). I did get to make out with two other girls, one of them her "straight" friend who she usually makes out with at parties. The funny (?) thing about that was that I had a lot more intense of a makeout with that girl (including light b&b touching) than I have ever had with my now "official girlfriend" who still doesn't feel comfortable with anything more sexual than light makeout and innocent cuddling with me.

Is she just kidding herself? Am I being too patient and open-minded? Is she just my "girlFRIEND"(in straight)?

I could really use some advice here.

She says that people who from a young age were made to feel like they kept doing things wrong - people who’s parents had impossibly high standards for them, people who were bullied, people who have special needs, people who didn’t develop crushes on the “right” people, people who didn’t act like the “right” gender - basically ended up being made to feel guilty so much that guilt became their default response to everything. Guilt became the emotional response to anything which the person didn’t already have a set emotion for.

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