It's a fucking Snickers bar

And fuck it, since I'm already controversial, and we're already on the subject of men of color using racism to deny their role in misogyny--every town is a sundown town for a woman. There is no town on earth where a woman is free, safe, and never at risk of stalking, harassment and death at night. Hell, most cities aren't even totally safe in the day for a woman. Even the whitest women I know hesitate to leave their houses at night, pump their own gas at night, walk alone at night if they can avoid it--anywhere.

the casual self degradation of women in the public sphere is driving me slightly insane. why do you have fake nails glued on your nails? why are you wearing a miniskirt when it is 7°? what is that on your face? what is that under your skin? why are you doing that to your poor calves? why are you standing like that? why are you looking down? what is up with the dog collar? why are you calling another woman a bitch?

you can't unsee it once you notice it

Some women will never notice that femininity is a humiliation ritual... but all males do.