andrea

look, a society could exist where culturally men are supposed to have long flowing well maintained shinny hair and women are supposed to be completely bald. If it’s a patriarchal society, the association would still be positive masculinity for men and negative femininity for women. “men grow their hair long to show their vitality, men maintain their hair to show dedication, longer hair means you’re stronger, longer hair means your wiser” vs “women look better to men bald, women who grow their hair are vain and trying to be men, women aren’t rational and shouldn’t draw any attention where their brain is, women need to put the extra effort of meticulously keeping their head bare because that’s what their time is good for” on and on and on we could construct positive reasons for men to do what we now consider feminine things. It’s all arbitrary, the end goal is to make men feel entitled and superior and for women to be objectified and second class.

i want to turn on the tv turn on a random movie and it’s directed by a woman, it’s written by a woman, the lighting was done by a woman, the cinematographer was female, the score was written by a woman, the foley artists were women… i want to go see the orchestra and the conductor is female, the trombone section is all women, the cellists are women, the programme is music by women, the artistic director is a woman, the orchestra manager is a woman, the person who booked the venue is female, the double basses are women…

transwomen don’t even see themselves as women because when a feminist talks about women’s issues, they riot because THEY assume it’s excluding them 💀

“he just left in the middle of an argument” dump him  “he rolls his eyes when I start to cry” dump him “we never agree on what movie to watch and we always go with his choice” dump him “when he’s mad he’ll stand up straight and tower over me” dump him “his friends make me uncomfortable” dump him “he didn’t appreciate the gift I made him” dump him “I don’t like that he drinks every day” dump him “sometimes he ignores what I said during sex unless I say it again” dump him “he told me he doesn’t like it when I wear my favorite sweater” dump him “he threw something when he got mad once” dump him “he won’t yell but sometimes he’ll just stop responding until I stop talking about it” dump him “he doesn’t want me to go to my friend’s parties without him, but he never wants to go” dump him “he pouts and says his last girlfriend did it for him” dump him “he plays pranks on me that I don’t like” dump him “he doesn’t think my jokes are very funny and makes fun of me for it” dump him “he wants me to wear more make up” dump him “he got angry that I cut my hair” dump him “he still hasn’t met my parents” dump him “he talks about me giving him kids, but we’ve never talked about our future” dump him “he whines that condoms don’t feel as good” dump him “I like having a boyfriend, but I have to put up with a lot for this one” dump him (:

Actually radfems focus efforts on liberating women from patriarchy and the fascist system of gender, don’t know how that makes us on par with nazis lmao

love when a woman says "i am not comfortable with a man being here / doing this" the response is always "oh this man is good dw." okay did i say i am not comfortable with a bad man doing it or did i say i'm not comfortable with a man doing it? way to just outright tell me you think my boundary is stupid and you're not going to respect it.

Rich women still get raped and poor men still rape so hell no way am I entertaining takes like that.