women-only

we talk a lot about butch being appropriated by non-lesbians but I cannot count the number of times I’ve seen everyone of every “q*eer” stripe use the word femme without even the pretense of it being connected to lesbians in any way. femmes I am so sorry.

How come lesbians are expected to give dick a chance, but trans women aren’t expected to consider the impact male socialization has in their mindset and the ingrained male entitlement they show when saying women are bigoted for not dating them?

there is a synonymizing of "butchness" with "mastectomies" happening in our current day and age that I find highly disturbing. I see butch representation photosets going around where almost all of the women have elective mastectomies. People in the notes find this aspect specifically inspiring.

So many women have internalized the idea that being difficult makes people think less of them, when in my experience the opposite is almost always true. Every single time I have spoken up, voiced what I actually need and refused to shrink the moment in order to be more comfortable for everyone else in the room, I have been approached afterward by people who wanted to know me better. There is no reward waiting for you on the other side of making yourself smaller. People do not love you more for taking up less space, they simply get used to you taking up less space and adjust their expectations accordingly. Every time I have been exactly as audacious as the moment required, it has opened doors rather than closed them and I have made real connections directly because of it rather than in spite of it.

so you're telling me the fifa world cup is all men? its all men's teams? and so is the superbowl? and all the sports teams that states are known for and make copious amounts of merch for are also men's teams? and only 5 women have ever entered formula one since its inception in 1950 and only two of them were able to compete? and this is normal? its acceptable?

Always "suck cock", never even "suck trans clit". We all know why!

I need ftms to understand that the males in their "community" do not. care. about you. They do not care. They hate you. They say terrible things about you and want to hurt you and manipulate you. Trust your gut when someone seems off. Mtfs exhibit the same pattern of violence as any other male, and they are trying to convince you that male and female do not exist. Get out of there ASAP.

Gretchen Felker-Martin is a trans woman who wrote an entire book about trans women beating up feminists and burning JK Rowling alive and it was Vulture’s number 1 best book of 2022. Lilly Wachowski is adapting it into a television show. That’s what trans women think about femicide.

‘Gender affirming care’ is a marketing term for the cosmetic surgery industry

replace the makeup industry with wearing medieval cloaks