Time To Be Rad

happy pride to all my closeted lesbian womyn and girls <3 do not equate your natural state to the forces in your life that stop you from stepping out. your lesbianism is not a curse, just delayed joy.

why do men want to be gynecologists? why? why. gynecology is for females and should be practiced solely by women imo 

I don’t think a fuckboy is gonna go through years of college education with the mindset of “I’m doing this so I can put metal and cotton swabs in vaginas”…. (more)

^^^ all of this. Not to mention the one time I had a male doctor do my exam, he took one look at my sexual history and immediately refused to do any more tests or exams because he was “positive” I was just had a bunch of STIs. He didn’t listen once to me telling him that I didn’t think that was right and I wanted to be sure. Three days later I’m getting rolled into emergency surgery because my ovary had ruptured and had become infected. Yeah, gynos should always be female.

I wouldn’t feel comfortable at all with a male doctor being anywhere near my vagina, sorry not sorry.

A male physician tried to pressure me into letting him put my IUD in! He was so adamant about it, and had this sick smile plastered on his face during the consultation. Eventually I just got up and left. Sick fuck. My current physician is a female, she’s very professional and does her job without associating vaginas as sexual attraction. MALES SHOULD NOT BE OBGYNS! I’d even go so far as to say that males shouldn’t be doctors at all. As some of you know, my childhood family doctor (a male of course) was convicted of possessing and distributing child pornography. Even more evidence that most men are incompetent sick freaks.

hell, there was a recent story about a podiatrist (‘foot doctor’) whos only reason for entering the career was due to his extreme fetish for feet. It was discovered by his wife when she found thousands of photos of patents feet, stored WITH other porn, on his laptop. This was not “staying in the bedroom”, and he had never even mentioned it to his wife (actually denying having any out-of-the-usual desires whenever she asked).

also its suspect for a man to even want to do that if you ask me…out of all the jobs in the world….

When my girlfriend was hospitalized with severe Guillian-Barre syndrome (she was essentially paralyzed from her neck down), she would literally beg me to shower her instead of her MALE nurse because he refused to lift her breast to clean the skin underneath, or clean her thighs between her legs because it gave him a fucking hard-on. As if it wasn’t literally his fucking JOB. She’s my girlfriend and I wasn’t so overwhelmed with sexual desire while I gave her a shower that I couldn’t even touch her breasts with going into a lust-filled satyriastic craze.

this is why i won’t even take my shirt off in front of my male doctor, even back when i wore bras. he already looked at me sexually once when i was 13, and my mom blamed me for wearing a low-cut jumpsuit in 38°C heat. not letting something like that happen again.

I just don’t understand what people expect. the same men (basically all of them) who watch violent degrading pornography go on to become doctors. the same men who think of women as things for their pleasure only, as objects, as usable, abusable and discardable, go on to become doctors. it’s not like getting on the pathway to medicine means you are sent into monk-like service as a toddler and shielded from the perversions of the patriarchy. these doctors are men raised in our porn-sick misogynist society first and foremost, in and out of the white coat. I never get what makes libs think that there’s some magic button that these men can press in their heads to be able to go from misogynist porn-user man to professional doctor. brains don’t work like that. pleasure and addiction drives don’t work like that. we have explicit neurological studies showing that this sort of compartmentalisation is not possible. and yet the same lib women who will have had sex with violent men and experienced first hand their desire to get off on women’s pain will enter twilight zone levels of cognitive dissonance to argue that this doesn’t matter the second that man enters a workplace. and the men themselves who get off on abusing women won’t ever think any of this is a problem, in a professional context or not.

Men cannot be trusted

Let’s also add onto the list the male fertility doctors who have used their own sperm to fertilize patients‘ eggs and, in the case of Pedro Pascal’s father, stolen and implanted embryos in a human trafficking scheme. The violations don’t even stop at our bodies.

When you’re accustomed to being able to commit violence against gyno patients, “gynaecology jobs should be for people who have those parts” feels like oppression

can't believe this used to be the male tears website but now you have to be careful bc half of the "man-hating" posts on here are actually just trans-identified males punching down at transmen

this is so true and this is why i’m so confused about why so many people (including many black women) are mad at Paris Mwenda for saying she feels like she is a woman before she’s black. because black men can hypothetically find a safe haven from anti-black racism within black spaces, but black women in black spaces are still subjected to misogyny, domestic violence, rape, etc. i think that was her point. that black men can seek refuge from their oppression by forming relationships with black women and creating and socializing within black communities, but there is no refuge for black women. because even in those communities that should be a safe space from racism, they are subjected to misogyny and male on female violence. like she’s literally right?? she didn’t say that being black is totally chill and causes no issues because of racism, she just said she feels like she’s a woman before she’s black. like oppressed men might be oppressed, but they always still oppress women within their same oppressed class! poor men still beat their poor wives! black men are misogynistic to black women! jewish men etc etc etc forever. and everyone is flaming her and claiming that she probably only dates white women, and that she’s whitewashed. she’s right!!!!

we are all pick mes. we have literally all been groomed to be pick mes, that is the essence of femininity. wearing makeup and restrictive clothing everyday, being terrified of aging, of getting too bulky from exercise, of being too loud or ‘masculine’, of having body hair. this is all done for attention + acceptance from individual males, and more often, from a patriarchal society. so many women struggle to understand that the reason why you feel more ‘confident’ doing those things is because you would be ostracised if you didnt and because that is what you have been bombarded with since before you could speak.

I bring a real 'actually people who are pregnant do deserve some special consideration because they are effectively at least temporarily disabled if not permanently after some complications' vibe to the party that a lot of people don't seem to like

This is real. Also, I had periods for about a decade pre-transition, and those can be debilitating, too, and should be given special consideration if the person having them experiences things like severe pain, heavy bleeding, issues with things like cysts, extreme nausea or fatigue, etc.

I bring a kind of “and stripping away the word ‘woman’ erases WHY people react so vitriolically to the assertion that special considerations should be given in these situations” that tumblr REALLY doesn’t like. You can call yourself a man all you want but the moment you’re pregnant or get your period you’re treated just the same as the rest of us.

"girl cats are so mean" "my boy cat who's obsessed with me" "average mare behavior" "my aggressive mare" "female dogs don't perform as well" it's an animal. You are being sexist towards an animal. You're fucking insane.

I threw the first gnome at stonewall

tumblr is ground zero for something i like to call soft mens right’s activism (or uwu mra) and it makes me want to tear my hair out

the main thing to understand about fandom women is that most of them are so sheltered and isolated irl that when someone says "men" they think of fictional characters and not actual men

"I love men ❤️ " no you love castiel

“boys deserve to be allowed to cry look at him!!!” homegirl that’s a cartoon drawing of a fictional person… beloved, he’s imaginary

Like well no I can’t take you seriously if you think bi women and lesbians are oppressed the same when half of this site has been jerking off recently to correctively raping lesbians I simply cannot take you serious! I’m sorry!