Side blog for all my pent up rage about the current stagnation or even decline of women's rights/the rise of misogyny. I follow from my main account (crypto). If I haven't answered your ask yet it's bc I'm procrastinating.
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a can of mace in your pocket (never in your bag, it's harder to just grab and use in an emergency situation)
if he's lying down, stomp on his ankle with full force
personal alarm device is a great addition, a sudden loud noise is confusing and distracting, while also alerting people around who might pay attention
same thing with a taser, the sound alone is intimidating as hell
don't carry a knife or other tools like this if you're not absolutely, completely 100% confident in your fighting skills with it - it's easy to take away, you can even accidentally drop it, and it could be used against you
comfortable shoes can go a long way - personal confrontation is a last resort situation. run for your life if you can
never tuck your thumb inside your fist - lay it over your fingers instead. you don't want to break it
if you have to, you can harden your fist by putting a matchbox inside - keys and other hard object are highly discourages. matchbox is easy to carry and can give your punch a stronger blow
your elbow hook is absolutely capable of breaking a nose
do literally anything it takes to get out of this situation. use what you can to your advantage. keys on a chain as a whip, pens, nails, teeth - anything. don't be afraid of taking action
once again - groin, eyes, neck, nose, stomach. they also have vulnerable spots, remember them and act, if it comes to it
Also: some things on our body are not that indestructibly attached. you can pull off someones ear almost completely bc its mostly held together by ligaments and cartilage, not bone. and its definitely possible to bite off someones tip of the nose, thats also just soft tissue and cartilage. not to mention lips are easily hitten through and you can absolutely break someones pinky by biting it with everything you got.
and especially for men, their balls are extremely vulnerable. grabbing a testicle and digging your nails into it while also rotating and then pulling as hard as you can WILL have him on the floor passed out or throwing up.
i 100% believe the biggest obstacle to effective and efficient self defense is people's hesitancy to really get close and personal with an attacker's body
Paris Mwendwa's "apology" video is so disturbing, it looks like she's being held at gunpoint. It reminds me of the video of that guy who stole a poster in North Korea, and was then forced to do a press release, while crying and telling the camera about how wrong he was, before being tortured and killed.
Surely this is a wakeup call for some people. That males are attacking this young woman to the point where she not only feels the need to make an apology video, but said video looks like she's being held hostage, as she cries and promises that she'll stop talking about herself, that she'll talk about males instead to appease them. This is horrifying to watch.
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Lol it's the way the ask is worded for me. Like I'm supposed to feel bad that "blm and trans colors" don't look good on the rainbow flag. Much love to BLM, but I don't see why that would need to be on the gay pride flag. They are their own movement.
How come instead of just flying actual BLM and black power stuff alongside the rainbow, we just tossed a brown and black stripe over the rainbow? I'll put the raised fist next to my rainbow happily because, idk, maybe I'm able to value them without swallowing their movement into mine.
Why don't we give them real recognition instead of 2 stripes?
^I agree. Shoving everything into one flag (and by extension, one community) is lazy. It shows you have no absolutely respect for the different groups you're herding under one umbrella, and that you just want to look "woke".
None of you actually care. You just want to put up a flag and be done with it. You're lazy.
I wish you guys could see the gal on the right as a woman, too--because "woman" is just like the word "human." It's just what you are, not a set of regressive stereotypes, not makeup or clothing, not gender roles.
You don't have to stop being a woman to stop performing femininity (in fact, you can't really stop being one--not on a chromosomal level, not on the level of bone structure, nor even come close to true average male hormone levels without becoming severely sick, and not on a genital level. Aesthetic changes to the flesh under a surgical knife may ease dysphoria in some, but are not the same as truly replacing female genitalia with male genitalia.)
It reinforces that woman=femininity when your abandonment of femininity is coupled with your attempted abandonment of womanhood.
I'd be miserable if I thought I had to wear makeup and dress uncomfortably forever, too, which is why I don't. And yet, "woman," to me, is not lipstick and subservience--it's just the creature that I am, the animal, more ancient than gender, as natural as gazelles and dirt and trees.
estĂŠn atentas a la situaciĂłn en colombia con el tema de la mutilaciĂłn genital femenina. estamos hablando de una prĂĄctica que estĂĄ afectando niĂąas menores a 5 aĂąos. ya basta de esta barbaridad y de mirar al otro lado.
in english: FGM is about to be outlawed in colombia. i'll keep you updated after june 18th or hopefully sooner.
UPDATE: FGM IS NOW BANNED IN COLOMBIA. GREAT JOB AND CONGRATULATIONS TO EVERY FEMINIST AND ACTIVIST GROUP WHO HAVE BEEN WORKING ON THIS FOR YEARS đĽšđ
Also why is it that sex that isnât wildly misogynistic or otherwise sadistic and borderline/actually abusive is immediately referred to as âboringâ??? What does that say about you as a person?? What does that say about our society?? Also tmi but to be honest if things get too rough my body literally goes numb anyway. The lack of nuance in sensations is boring to me like the what fuck has porn done to people???? The definition of modern âexcitingâ sex is just beating someone and at least hinting at some sick parody of rape. Just because you have a boner doesnât mean itâs any less fucked up.
In the 1980s, when many women were graduating with professional degrees, anger against women crackled the airwaves [popular culture recast tender, intimate sex as boring]. We saw a stupendous upsurge in violent sexual imagery in which the abused was female ⌠In a world where both sexesâ guilt and angry fear surrounded the sense that women were getting out of control, the public quickly lost interest in ordinary unharmed nakedness. Presented as more compulsively engaging to the attention of men and, eventually, women, was imagery that played out anxieties from the sex war, reproducing the power inequality that recent social changes had questioned: male dominance, female submission. Female nakedness became inhuman, âperfectedâ beyond familiarity, freakishly like a sculpture in plastic, and often degraded or violated.
itâs something about the aggressively obvious 2020s makeup too on everyone in every movie no matter what the time period is. itâs the 19th century they do not have highlight!!!!
look at meg march in 1994 vs 2019. they both look great! however! emma watson is wearing very obvious lipstick, mascara, concealer under eyes heavy foundation etc etc. you can see this at a glance. i literally in making this comparison had to google if this was a promotional image that she took or actually a still from the movie because her makeup just looks like normal 2019 makeup that a girl from 2019 would wear!!! (not to mention her costume. different post.) then look at trini alvarado on the other left. obviously sheâs wearing tons of makeup because sheâs in a movie and she has tons of lights on her all the time but it doesnât look she is!! you can see circles under her eyes!! she doesnât have The Shine to her face that emma watson does. she looks so much more believable as a girl from the 1860s not because sheâs a perfect representation but simply because she does not Obviously Have On Modern Makeup
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being white and making a black character the mouthpiece for your "these white hags are so MANNISH I thought they were just someone who can't pass. you know, one of us" comic...
wait, obvious racism aside, this little comic is a hilarious self-own. "I thought those hideous fucking hag bridgetroll chuddington women looked like USSS!!!! lmaooooo imagine literally looking like USSSS omg ewwww!!! they're so ugly that they literally look like USSSS before we got hormones and surgery to look 6.7% less ugly lmaooooo!!"
I wish all the âreligion is inherently badâ people who go on to describe issues exclusive to Christianity would understand that their idea of Christianity being analogous to all religion is a very glaring sign that they are still steeped in the Christian hegemony they seem to reject so vehemently
Religion is always based on falsehoods and thatâs why I oppose them. Are you seriously going to try to argue Christianity is the only religion based on falsehoods?
There literally exists a sub Reddit for ex memos every major religion including Ex Muslims, Ex Hindus, and yes even Ex Jews.
From reading their stories I found a lot of the things I detest about Christianity, (violence, misogyny, child abuse, controlling others, queerphobia, bigotry against non members, retaliation against ex members, ect) can be found in those religions.
While I agree many atheists make assumptions about other religions without verifying if itâs true thatâs not a valid argument against all atheists who criticize religions.
I'll confess to being what some atheists have dubbed the Righteous Victim Atheist. I'm not coming for any rituals or mythology that are not about subjugating oppressed groups, but I will 100% come for Tumblr Jewish men who try to persuade people-pleasing young culturally Christian leftist women and teenage girls that their calls for accountability for domestic abusers and rapists are indicative of toxic Christian beliefs about sin and punishment. Every religion has a misogyny problem, many religions have racism and classism problems, and it's all morally wrong.
Each time a cis woman speaks over trans men and says something like "oh thats just misogyny, not transandrophobia!" We should be allowed to hit her with a bat
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Fighting to stop from men murdering women is ..... âagainst moralityâ.
Attempt to close We Will Stop Femicide on moral grounds criticised as a âgrotesqueâ and divisive step as election looms
Turkish public prosecutors have sparked outrage among feminists by demanding the closure of the countryâs largest womenâs rights group accusing it of being âagainst moralityâ.
We Will Stop Femicide (WWSF) has been issued with a letter demanding the group is dissolved on public security grounds and organisers now face a lengthy court battle to stay open. The prosecutors claim the group broke the law and acted with immorality by âdisintegrating the family structure by ignoring the concept of the family under the guise of defending womenâs rightsâ.
Fidan Ataselim, general secretary of WWSF, said: âWe donât see this as just an attack on us. For us, this is an attack on all women in Turkey, on all social movements, on the entire democratic public opinion.â
It was a grotesque action, said Emma Sinclair-Webb, Turkey director of Human Rights Watch. âItâs very provocative,â she said. âThe authorities know perfectly well that this is a highly successful and very visible campaign.
âItâs grotesque to go after this group, itâs completely disproportionate â and what are you going after? Everyone knows itâs ridiculous.â
It is the latest salvo against civil society, already riled by president Recep Tayyip ErdoÄanâs decision to withdraw Turkey from the Istanbul conventionon violence againstÂ
women last year. The move sparked large protests, many organised by WWSF, which brought a harsh police response.
ErdoÄan and his Justice and Development party (AKP) have defended the decision, saying existing laws are enough to protect women. The move to shutter WWSF is regarded as an effort to marginalise feminist campaigners and divide them from more conservative women seen as more sympathetic to the government. A general election is expected this year, and ErdoÄan faces growing opposition at the polls.
âThey withdrew from the Istanbul convention, and society reacted very strongly. Now they are trying to polarise society. They are trying to marginalise our movement but they wonât be able to do it, because we are an organisation that draws its power from society,â said Ataselim.
âUltimately, this is a divisive act intended to pit women against each other,â said Webb. âItâs sowing further social division going forth as a way to go into an election cycle as well â ErdoÄan is pitting women against women in an attempt to shore up support of religious, pious, conservative women against these women who they can say are immoral,â she said. âTheyâre trying to make a culture war out of this.â
WWSF, with 750 active members, was founded in 2010 in response to the murder of a 17-year-old student by her partner. It has a nationwide network providing legal support to survivors of domestic violence, as well as collecting data on femicide, monitoring trials and organising rallies.
It comes amid a rise in femicides in Turkey. WWSF estimates that 416 women were killed because of their gender last year, and a further 72 murdered from January to March 2022.
ĹĂźkran EroÄlu, from the Istanbul Bar Associationâs womenâs rights centre, said she had anticipated the authoritiesâ attack on WWSF after changes to the law earlier this yearlimiting freedom of association. âWe knewÂ
that this would have consequences,â she said. âSo this would definitely start with womenâs associations, because the womenâs movement is on the rise in Turkey.â
GĂźlsĂźm Kav, who founded WWSF, vowed to fight the closure.
âThis is an attack on womenâs right to life. So we will never give up our rights, our struggle. We will fight together with the public so that this unlawful step can be reversed,â she said.
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thereâs absolutely something to be said about âbooktokâ books being largely wattpad quality written erotica iâm certainly not reading them however having seen a guy on tiktok make a video like âall the women in your life are READING PORNâ about a book he picked up and read in his FEMALE FRIENDâS HOUSE in a tone of scandalised horror and disgust i actually donât think men should be making those criticisms. he said he picked it up expecting a romance and was horrified it was GOONER SHIT he said specifically like âwho are you getting your pussy wet FOR??â in a tone of revulsion. idk man im not sure shes the weird one. i kind of wish you were dead
"a lot of books that are successful on booktok are not very good" and "people can read what they want and we need to stop being so fucking weird about women enjoying erotica" are both correct statements