I WANNA SEE THE WOMEN SAY "FUCK THAT"

Truuuue CiS ppl have NOOOOO IDEAAA!!! It's not like men haven't been judging women for not looking a pornstar down there for decades!! Ah but maybe you think it doesnt count bc some men will fuck women anyway bc theyre that desperate to get laid?

hate when men complain about how theyre not allowed to be vulnerable and people will be like "and who set that system up?" as a gotcha moment. stop acting like patriarchy was funded by calling in Every Man Ever in a room and letting them all singularly decide if they wanted it. patriarchy hurts everyone in different ways, they're allowed to complain and you shutting them down and telling them to stop complaining are doing exactly what toxic masculinity wants you to enforce

Flip it around and passing is never important. But real womyn have to look amazing if they want to give their opinion. Which sounds like the mindset of another (the same) group of people who define the worth of a womyn's opinion based on her face.

Saying that calling a black woman a man is transphobia instead of racism and misogyny is just saying that black women are in fact comparable to men and they simply don't realize (or care about) how fucking racist this sounds

racist fucks on the left: "Black women DO look like men but you can't say that in a DEROGATORY way because there are men who identify as women 😡 making this comparison ONLY hurts the men who identify as women and not the Black women being equated to men in the first place because there's apparently nothing wrong with that. i am more progressive than you!!"

If I was JK Rowling and I wrote a plotline in my book series about a race of enslaved people whose horrible mistreatment at the hands of the bad guys is part of what establishes them as bad guys, and there were multiple crucial plot points that involve someone either being punished for dehumanizing them and/or rewarded for freeing them, and the only main character who is okay with their enslavement could not get his happy ending until he realized that he was wrong and aligned himself with freeing them, and the whole thing was a pretty explicit metaphor for the patriarchy and how some ‘tradwife’ women are complacent in their oppression but that DOESN’T make it ok for men to treat them like commodities… and then countless people online criticized me for ‘writing a plotline that excuses slavery’ ???? I would have the biggest crashout of my life. A lot of you like to say ‘Harry Potter was poorly written’ but what you actually mean is ‘I don’t have enough media literacy to understand a series written for children’

I’ve never hated someone so much that I want to inflict sexual violence on them. It’s a bit terrifying how a substantial part of the population doesn’t feel the same . I won’t pretend to be some saint with no disturbing or vengeful thoughts on those I despise but it still baffles me just how common it is for males to get turned on by the prospect of SA explicitly being used as a weapon .

This whole debate regarding the woman who got an abortion after learning the baby would have Down Syndrome is ignoring one crucial element: the woman. I’m seeing so much commentary on people with Down Syndrome, how they’re happy and have wonderful fulfilling lives. And that’s great! But a woman should not be forced to carry a pregnancy and give birth if she doesn’t want to. I don’t care how morally concerning her reasons are. Educating on disabilities to ensure that women are fully informed before making a decision on whether to continue a pregnancy is amazing…but it needs to be done without shaming her for choosing to abort.

It needs to be accurate information, too. Like, okay, thank you for the examples of people with X disability who live happily. How long and how well, realistically, is my child going to live if I carry this pregnancy to term? Will she have a chance to grow old? And if she does, can she do so independently? What happens to her if she outlives me? Will she realistically outlive me? What are the chances? Because I'm sorry but I'm not giving birth to a child with a high chance of not outliving me or not being properly cared for if she does. I'm just not bringing that child into the world. You can scream ableism at me all you want. I'm not doing it.

For me I also ask myself. Am I in an okay enough place in my life to give this child an appropriate amount of love and care for the needs they may require? Am I willing to put aside my entire life to give this child the life they deserve? If I have this child will I eventually begin to resent them because of the lack or freedom I will then have?

Tumblrinas understand "YOU ARE NOT IMMUNE TO PROPAGANDA" unless the propaganda is 1. Porn or 2. Other misogynistic media where the misogyny is something different than a man saying out loud directly "I sincerely hate all women because they are women"

Omg girl, you gotta change your identity.

I guess a TIM could catfish you.

What are these dipshits burbling on about now

"But he NEVER acted that way with ME!" Of course he didn’t, Harold, you weren't his type 🙄