TW: The Truth

to thousands of people making phony images and replying to them with their passionate desire to have them as a tshirt to overload the bots with nonsense and junk and send out warnings to shoppers like this:

and now we even have people replying to pictures of baby yoda with “i want this on a tshirt” knowing how ravenous disney is being with copyright in hopes to get the stores taken down altogether

The next generation…

https://www.gizmodo.com.au/2021/10/nft-bots-tshirt-online-twitter-war/

Slowly, a rad-fem will convince the simple masses they’re horribly, horribly wronged, and the reason?

You know what, that is really fair. But who purchases these magazines? Who reads these magazines? Who writes the articles about pregnancy in these magazines? You really think men are the target audience when it comes to magazines about pregnancy and postpartum bodies? Really? You really think men write articles about pregnancy and postpartum bodies?

I mean, they don’t. I’m sure there’s at least one example of a man that does; but most men—if they even read magazines—aren’t going to pick up a pregnancy magazine. Pretty obvious there.

I can’t count how many times I’ve seen a man complain about how his wife’s vagina is “loose like a lasagna” after having a baby.

While your personal experiences are a sad outlook into how you see the world; they aren’t indicative of a trend. Not to mention, there are many terrible people out there in marriages and relationships.

I can’t count how many times I’ve seen women steal sperm like it was proverbial gold just to force a man to have a child; I can’t count how many times I’ve seen mothers be the greatest obstacle to fathers having more frequent contact with their children, even while the mothers complain that the father isn’t spending time with the children; I can’t count the amount of times that a man has been domestically abused by his wife or girlfriend, yet the victim (The man) is taken to jail due to the faulty Duluth Model.

Yes, there are terrible people out there; Fathers, Mothers, Husbands, Wives. However I’m a decent enough person to separate terrible people from their gender.

Women are made to be ashamed of their postpartum stretch marks and cellulite and soft stomachs because they don’t appeal to the male gaze.

You seem to have tunnel vision, maybe due to the fact you likely are a woman and thus you have no context about true male experiences. Because boys and men have the same shame put on them for having stretch marks and cellulite and soft stomachs; due to the fact that society (usually women) need them to be useful body shields and living weapons to die for them.

Meanwhile mothers are taking care of a new life, and are most likely under a lot of stress to begin with. Not to mention postpartum depression, which can ruin lives.

Yes, birth can be very stressful, that’s why choosing the right partner and the right time can be extremely important. A good partner will be there for their significant other.

Companies sell creams and workouts and “mommy tucks” to desperate mothers who just want to feel normal and be accepted by their spouse.

Companies sell ‘Man’ themed things because they think it will sell, and double their profits for the same item using different branding . Companies do the same thing to women to maximize their bottom line. Your issue is capitalism; not men.

Will you blame the men for being the target audience; or the idiotic company that thought putting blue on something means men will buy it? Because these same companies don’t care about people. You should know this. Men constantly have 'fit bodies’ pushed at them as well; clothing to make their natural gut shrink so they can look 'more attractive to women’, food products that will starve them of nutrition to get them the perfect body that women will love, unrealistic body standards (On shows women mainly watch) that tell men they aren’t attractive. The fact that you are ignorant of this means you’re willingly ignoring what happens to men just to be right.

Breastfeeding in public is not tolerated, because exposing breasts in public for any reason that isn’t sexual is unacceptable to men.

“Tolerated”? Who the fuck cares what’s tolerated. At one time a black man holding hands with a white woman wasn’t tolerated. At one time in America gay and lesbian people weren’t tolerated. Who cares what’s tolerated. You know what’s actually important? All fifty states have laws to protect and allow women to breastfeed in public. And past that, if someone gives a breastfeeding mother shit, its likely to cause a rally behind her to shut the offender up. You’re aware its 2021, right? You’re past the murder clown arc of America?

Anyways I just hate how it’s socially acceptable for men to police postpartum bodies just so that they can continue living their fantasy; they want a perfect mother with a perfect body caring for a perfect child.

It isn’t socially acceptable, however. I’m not sure you could find an example of anyone policing a mother’s body in this day and age that wouldn’t be shit talked by every single person aware of the situation.

And we all know that this is impossible. We need to stand up for our mothers, love our mothers, instead of shaming our mothers for things they can’t control.

Are there terrible people that impregnate women? Definitely. Are there terrible women that get impregnated? Definitely. People are individuals before their gender, I’m not sure if you are aware of that. However I don’t disagree with you that we as a society need to take better care of the parents that we have that are decent, because they’re just humans trying their best.

Lol so do you have a counterargument or?

I’ll admit, it was hard to make a counterargument, due to this barely counting as an argument in the first place; this is just you pointlessly ranting on about how much you think men hate women.

And the truth is, you’re demonizing men and trying to make women into victims that can’t take care of themselves, or have no autonomy.

This mindset is just like the KKK that say black people are evil and dangerous and a threat to white people on the basis that they exist. Or Nazi’s that do the same with Jewish people. Or Christianity that tells everyone they have sinned and need to repent simply for existing.

Cause every single thing I said in this post is true :)

"Men have problems too, stfu female 🥺🥺🥺 not all men 🥺🥺🥺"

Personal experiences count as sources, btw. Also, I'm a professional esthetician, and the beauty industry absolutely targets mothers. Literally so many ads have been created, so many campaigns, so many products designed to get women to feel insecure about their postpartum appearance, and if you want sources, Google is free, like all the information is available if you're actually interested in considering a different perspective, but it just seems like you're lazy.

Simply search "mommy creams", "mommy makeover", "cellulite products for mothers", and hundreds of products designed to target and profit off of postpartum insecurity will show up.

As for your first point, women fucking read these magazines to make themselves more beautiful for men. Because men have and will demand beautiful women. Like, I think you intentionally misinterpreted my post, because my whole point is literally that women consume content designed by industries that target insecurity, with the overall goal of appealing to the beauty standard, which is determined by patriarchal norms.

As for your second point, wow, it's almost like the idea of a tight vagina is a myth that men and women alike ate up, and the sole purpose of this is to make sex more pleasurable for men. Your personal beliefs and whether or not you do these things does not invalidate the experiences of millions of women. The husband stitch is still a thing, women still get sexually assaulted by doctors who perform husband stitches while the mothers are under for c-sections upon request of their husband, and young mothers are still shamed for being ran through. Kegel ball ads are plastered over health magazines, and the effect they focus on is tightening the vagina, with some brands even creating seperate lines for new mothers. Also, your argument in this point completely derailed from the issue, and as I said, tldr: men have problems too uwu

As for your third point, I already addressed that in the beginning of this reply that I really should not have written, because you will never agree with me because you have decided that I am wrong no matter what.

As for your fourth point, THATS LITERALLY THE POINT? Like I can't tell if your reply is satire or not, but my post was about shitty fathers and men who sexualize and/or shame new mothers, which has become such a huge phenomenon, and they get away with it because of gender roles. Fucking Google it if you want sources. Sociopolitical structures surrounding sex and gender exist, whether you see it or not.

As for your fifth point.... God I'm exhausted. Again, we're on the same page! But, you seem to have missed my point about societal norms and standards, I am not talking about technical legality. Even if public breastfeeding in public is legal and protected in America (there are many places where it is not, but I guess you haven't considered other people outside of your bubble), traditionalism persists, and women are shamed, bullied, and harassed for breastfeeding in public, for the sole reason that many people still believe that breasts are inherently sexual, and that women showing any instance of sexuality in public is bad.

As for your final point, your experience inside your bubble is NOT the experience of everyone. This paragraph was literally too many words for "not all men 🥺". You completely disregard countries where women's bodies are policed, you disregard the products of misogyny, you disregard the insidious realities of the beauty industry.

Also, you say I could never understand male experiences because I've never lived as a male?

Slowly, a rad-fem will convince the simple masses they’re horribly, horribly wronged, and the reason?

The pink color represents sexual attraction to the same sex only (gay and lesbian). The blue represents sexual attraction to the opposite sex only (straight) and the resultant overlap color purple represents sexual attraction to both sexes (bi).”