let's do this one last time
the fun stuff:
about me: go by Dragons. mid 20s. aroace, he/they. this is a tdp (meta + fic & edits) blog. i ship canon and crackships (claudia/ezran, soren/opeli, etc). piecing together tdp lore is my favourite ace attorney game. my favourite characters are the trio + claudia and janai, but i love and can find appreciation for every character/dynamic. been in the fandom since 2 months before the show came out, though i no longer interact with the fandom as a whole (explanation in the next section).
stuff i make: meta directory / analysis tag / my fic / ao3 / my playlists / my edits / thanks for asking / predictions / predictions achieved / rayllum parallels / youtube / podcast
other cool stuff i've made:
The Sir Sparklepuff existential hellscape oneshot (8.7k)
my "Viren adopts/raises Rayla" AU
Cube Hostage Exchange Theory
Snake Boi Callum as a fandom term
Personal faves
Foil / relationship tags
headcanons: autistic!ezran / aspec or alterous rayllum / trans!janai
other blogs:
literary analysis + humanities blog
writing advice (fantasy) blog
my queer YA SFF book is out march 2027 (think ATLA / TDP meets six of crows and PJO)
I tag for trigger warnings upon request (no explanation required). The ones I currently tag for are pregnancy, suicidal ideation, blood, eye horror, and body horror. These trigger warnings are always in relation to fictional characters, not real life scenarios.
If you find yourself blocked even though you've followed me for years or whatever, it's 99% likely it's because the boundaries in the second section weren't followed. Bye.
the not fun stuff
boundaries, blocks, and bullies: tw (cyber)stalking, harassment, death threats, abusive behaviours, etc.
Back in May 2025, I discovered I'd been stalked for 6 and a half months by @jelicatessen and her friends both on here and my main/unrelated blog(s). This was months after I'd left a friendship with her and blocked her everywhere after realizing it hadn't been a good relationship for at least a year and a half, if ever. The use of 'stalking' is not hyperbole or exaggeration: she publicly admitted to getting friends of hers to routinely check my blogs for incriminating evidence of wrongdoing for half a whole ass year because she was unable to do so herself and thought that I, who had told literally no one we'd had a falling out, was trying to "ruin her reputation" (keep in mind this is a small, children's cartoon fandom). She also leaked private DMs of me having a breakdown, and then doubled down and had people create sock blogs to harass me/others. I'll also add that I left the friendship precisely because I'd realized she was the kind of person who would do a callout post over a private friendship fallout (though I didn't see the stalking coming; in retrospect, the fact that it's one of the most common behaviours in post-separation abuse does make it seem more obvious).
Later people also enabled/excused these actions; all on the following list either outright did these things or supported these actions publicly through leaving comments on the callout (which included the stalking) or in posts/comments about the situation and justifying the stalking and DM leaking: jelicatessen, a-very-sparkly-nerd, blutopaz15/blu-on-main, zuppizup, mistenflute / mistwatchestdp, uneryx, arnieb95, and sagegreenfrogs. Since I do not know exactly who jellicatessen used for proxy stalking, it is possible and likely that some or all of these people did so and kept tabs on me for her (aka stalked me directly), or that they are still doing so now. I also know first hand people in this group have stalked at least two others for months on end, and while I never participated, I regret at the time I didn't push back more against it. I'm not making that same mistake now, or ever again. I don't think any of the above is appropriate or safe conduct in fandom/basically any situation, let alone one with an ex-friend who I left precisely in the first place because I was already scared of them, and I don't want to engage or interact with anyone who's willing to excuse or support it.
Therefore, if you plan on interacting with any of them, please pre-emptively block me and stay the fuck away from me. Unfollow me or I will block you myself. I want nothing to do with them, anyone who excuses stalking, or anyone on their periphery for my own safety/mental health.
My responses to it are here, for anyone who wants 'em, including my explicit requests not even to take the callout posts down in general, but just to take down the DMs and to leave my blog(s) alone. These things did not happen, and no one involved at the time or as of now (Aug 2025) has since expressed any remorse to me for anything that happened.
If anyone thinks this is an overreaction, read this post and then read it again (none of these tags are mine, but of the 10,000s of people who have been through similar things/traumas, etc).
I've also been diagnosed with PTSD over the whole thing, and my partner (who was another ex-friend of jelicatessen's that i, unfortunately, encouraged them to give a chance to when they did not want to because i Believe in people, i guess) was almost hospitalized from a major physical/mental health relapse as a result of everything. I also know other people who got caught in the shitstorm mental health periphery out of fear that they were also being stalked, so I really hope the whole thing was worth it over three (3) vagueblog posts: 1, 2, 3
(yes, those were it, anything else that got attributed was about Other Situations, crazy how assuming every vague ass post saying something that's bad is very easy to not take personally if you don't think you did anything Wrong or have like, Any emotional regulation at all), otherwise you just contributed to fucking about three (3) or more actual people up for life over basically nothing.
Accordingly, because rather than just blocking me, privately sharing the situation, or making the callout post without stalking me/leaking my DMs, the way Jelicatessen and co. chose to go about it means I have record(s) of people confessing to/being complicit in cyberstalking, and I belong to a Big family with a lot of lawyers in different countries (family in Europe, the States, etc) including my eldest sibling.
I have henceforth made it clear that, given the severity of what happened and its impact, that if any of them ever give me reason to think, EVER, that they are still stalking me, or harass me or leak my personal information again, I Will press charges.
The good news is, as I've made it plain, if they don't want to worry about said charges, they have three easy options: 1) don't stalk me or do any of that shit anymore! Easiest and least accountable one. Would love for you to take it, Genuinely. Vagueblog away, publicly shit talk me as much as you want, but leave my blogs the fuck alone. Easiest way to not be a shitty person. 2) Apologize to me Privately (as if it's public, I don't go on blogs I've blocked or blogs who block me, I I will not see it otherwise) and it also gets you taken off the list) and 3) don't even have to apologize, just message me Privately like "yeah, we're not going to stalk you/keep tabs on you anymore" and stick to it; I will take you at your word, and it also gets you taken off the list. If you dispute/rebuttal this post on this post / in the main tags, it'll just get added to the cyberstalking evidence folder (because I keep evidence of stalking, not of my friends/ex-friends or even strangers fucking up interpersonally because I'm fucking normal / + keeping a record of criminal adjacent behaviour is also what law enforcement recommends), so you're just screwing yourself over.
As always, the whole thing could've and should've just been a private group chat and people blocking me if they didn't want to be in fandom with me (which is what I did 99% of the time throughout my many years in this fandom, even when someone made me mad, disparaged me by name, or made me feel worthless) or if they did insist on the callout, using things I've publicly said and not leaking private DMs of me having a breakdown, but I guess that was too Normal and Mature in every way. RIP.
Finally, if you've also been a victim of online bullying, stalking, or cyberstalking, or are scared now that you will be, please feel free to reach out. I know how scary, unnerving, traumatic, and isolating it can be. I will hold space and 100% safety/confidentiality for you. You can breathe here. And I hope, now that I've drawn my boundaries and spoken My truth publicly, I can too.














