femme ferale

this is what really gets me about monogamy like. i do in fact understand why people want to be exclusive (even if i dont agree with the logic to be clear) - but like, this? youre deeply humiliated by your partner... pointing out an attractive person?? like we all have to pretend that we don't have eyes and can't clearly see when a guy at the gym is hot. me and my partner dont currently date other people, mostly because we both know we're kind of Bad At It and are focusing on other shit rn, but you bet your ass we're out in public going heart-eyes at the same people. A beautiful butch woman walks by and we make knowing eye contact. I talk to the stunningly gorgeous tgirl working at our bagel shop and my girlfriend teases me everytime for how googoo eyes i am about her. It's an incredibly normal and human experience to Find People Cute like how are you HUMILIATED by this. you are literally peacocking by facetiming your WORKOUT ROUTINE like how insecure can you BE man

and i'm like unfortunately i have bad news.

the point is that OCD compulsions are never solutions, they're actually the problems. the intrusive thoughts SEEM like the problem and the compulsions FEEL like the solution. and that's how it getsya.

Gaycation - “USA”

Depends on the day

Umm... A little help?

Buy this comic as a print.

But it doesn't really matter. He'd deserve a tip anyway. Because it's never just us hurting.