le monde ici, c'est calme

it worries me so much that there’s been this (mostly unintentional) culture built up around coming out, to where young lgbt kids are putting themselves in danger at school and at home because they don’t want to “live a lie.” i just want to say, i came out when i was 15 and it created a lot of difficulties in my life that i could have avoided by waiting until i was older. it isolated me socially, it exposed me to homophobia from my parents, my family, my teachers, and my classmates at the most important developmental stages of my own confidence and sense of self… closeted people are not living a lie. closeted people are surviving. don’t let anyone pressure you to come out before you’re ready. don’t put yourself at risk when you don’t have to.

staying in the closet also doesn’t have to be a huge dramatic life or death thing. i didn’t come out to my family until after i moved away and established myself in another city (on another land mass haha) not because i was in danger or because it wasnt safe for me before, but because i just…. didnt want to. you don’t owe it to *anybody* to come out. not your family, not the rest of the queer community, nobody. do what’s right for you.

We need more jiggle physicis for visible bulge

I started a rewatch of the early campaign 2 episodes and am on episode 8, where they coin “the Mighty Nein”. Caleb comes up with the name so proudly, and Fjord immediately starts counting “one, two, three, four” to kick off the much-recurring joke that there are never actually nine of them – none of them realizing that nearly a year later, after a mountain of grief and loss and heartache followed by love and friendship and healing, averting the end of the world at the hands of one of their own, through trials untold and places unimagined, they will someday stand shoulder to shoulder and be nine in reality.

they should invent a shaving your face that stays that way for longer than 24 hrs

I spent all of 2022 getting lasers fired at my face and now if I don't shave every day, I have a white beard instead of a brown one. This is still progress

😭

Charcuberie

My back hurts from how hard I patted it after “charcuberie”

I felt like shit until I saw the cat sculpture of wood

Perry Lancaster

Ty so so much for reblogging with the artist name bc now he has more dollars and I have a little cat statue on its way :3

I also like it when they're like hey what's up or something personal/natural instead of the welcome to wherever how can I serve you bit.

I also like it when they are sitting down or listening to music they clearly enjoy