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I mean it's rude af but I don't think you can call it misgendering unless you're using pronouns that imply a different gender than the person's own pronouns (for example "they" instead of "she"). If it's something like using "they" instead of "it" or "fae," where both the wrong and right pronouns have the same grammatical gender*, it's just "using the wrong pronouns." Again, rude, but not necessarily misgendering.
Calling it misgendering when you use, say, the wrong neutral pronoun when someone is nonbinary also treats misgendering like it's just about pronouns when in fact gendering someone correctly or incorrectly is about a lot more than just pronouns. For one thing, there are many other words in English which reflect gender, and other languages often have much more pervasive grammatical gender that encompasses articles and adjectives. Likewise, if someone is nonbinary and you only ever direct them to women's events and resources when more things are available (for example), you're still misgendering them, even if you use their neutral pronouns correctly.
I appreciate your energy, OP, but you're attempting to define a word for dramatic effect when it really shouldn't be defined like that. In so doing, you're also narrowing its meaning to encompassing only one part of speech when it can be so many more things.
*I'd argue that "it" doesn't have quite the same grammatical gender as "they" due to being an object pronoun, but it doesn't imply a different social gender than "they." Both "it" and "they" users are usually nonbinary.
disrespecting and disregarding a personâs gender and gender expression on purpose is misgendering them. purposefully choosing to use neutral pronouns when someone has said that they use âbinaryâ ones is disrespecting their gender expression.
let me paint a scenario:
a person says she is a woman. she has a (culturally) traditionally feminine name. her clothing, makeup, and jewelry is traditionally feminine. for all intents and purposes, she presents as a woman. her pronouns are she/her. she happens to be trans. if someone chooses to use they/them pronouns specifically because she is trans, they are choosing to disregard her gender. there are several people in the reblogs who mentioned this exact thing popping up recently. this also happens often to trans masc people who dare to still present femininely but want to be referred to exclusively with traditionally masculine terms and pronouns.
tldr: obviously misgendering is more than just pronouns, but pronouns are part of someoneâs gender and gender expression. disregarding them on purpose, even if its to use language that seems less like misgendering, is still misgendering.
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Cannot stand the trend of censoring any and all words that describe concepts that might make you go :( especially when the censoring is done in that quarter-assed way that's just 'did a lil scribble over a vowel so you know that I know this word describes a no-no."
I'm not even going to be vague about what sparked this. Do not fucking censor the word 'stole.' I'm at my fucking limit.
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to give some entirely bizarre context, nigel farage (extreme cunt) has stepped down from his position as MP for clacton (due to a scandal where he received ÂŁ5 million from a crypto billionaire that could have been laundered) only to run again so that he can prove people like him. and the only person running against him is count binface. who has been a staple of british politics for many years. and now the british press is forced to interview him seriously while he sits there with his binface.
For context Farage can't be prosecuted for this while not in office. His tactic is to be re-elected to show he is a man of the people beating all other parties (and therefore laws don't apply??). Other parties have chosen not to run ostensibly because it lends legitimacy to his stunt but more likely because it is a Reform stronghold and they are unlikely to challenge him anyway.
Except in the hour of need, a binface stepped up.
So either he gets in and is prosecuted, or he loses to a bin.
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