Always tough seeing how rampant polyphobia still is online with the same hateful talking points as any queerphobia. People openly and snarkily celebrating someone grieving a break up in a poly or open relationship because theyâre âbound to failâ and âhopefully you learned your lessonâ (as if every queer relationship hasnât faced this exact scrutiny in the past. âSee, this gay couple broke up. Yet another example of why homosexuality is destined to fail because itâs unnatural.â).
But then I remember how everyone IRL Iâve trusted to talk to about my poly relationship has either been immediately accepting of it or been really curious and asked me to explain how it works. And when I do, they go, âHuh. I donât get it but it sounds like it works for you.â The best response was when Tulli explained navigating jealousy and compersion to an older, married person and they went, âWow, I wish I heard this stuff when I was younger.â Itâs a good reminder that in real life people suck less and have more stakes and motivation to show basic human empathy. Harder to be a random dickhead when you canât just say something shitty to a stranger and run away scot-free.
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if i could give one piece of advice to newly transitioning trans men, it's that it's 100% possible to find a community of people (including women!) who don't treat you as a threat, and the people trying to convince you otherwise are not your friends
Also, perhaps, have we considered that it's actually really bad that we treat closeted trans women (and closeted nonbinary people, and frankly cis men too) this way? Like. It's a bad thing that trans women are treated like distrustful monsters for """"being men"""" before coming out by one demographic and then are also treated like distrustful monsters after coming out for being trans by another. That's not a sign of a culture with a healthy relationship with gender in the slightest!!!
Have we considered that treating people as inherently dangerous or distrustful by virtue of their gender alone is in fact, the very gender essentialism that perpetuates radical feminism in our spaces and that is something that we should be working on stamping out?
I am genuinely sorry that people across multiple different identity lines experience this shit because no trans person should be treated like a distrustful monster just by virtue of their gender identity before or after coming out.
*extends my hand* Let's examine the ways we allow gender essentialism to invade our spaces and harm other trans people and put an end to this cycle of gender essentialist abuse together!
if i see another person basically go "but what if this character who is explicitly neutral nonbinary is actually just a binary trans egg because nonbinary people arent REALLY as trans as binary trans people im so woke actually" i will start killing people
WARNING do NOT start reading books and comics or watching movies or looking at art!!! you will start wanting to create art yourself. or god forbid. writing.
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Your dialogue is stiff because everyone is being too honest
Great dialogue can come from radical emotional honesty. But in most real conversations, people
dodge questions
answer indirectly
lie (badly)
change the subject
crack jokes to avoid serious answers
lie (convincingly)
say half of what they mean
tell the truth but get so anxious/angry/defensive others now think they're lying
If your dialogue feels unnatural, it might be because everyone is saying exactly what they think, or articulating their thoughts too well. Try letting characters hide things instead.
This comment was left on a post about making the most of the Libby app. "Excessive use of generous lending policies" is the most absurd phrase I've ever seen anyone use to discuss libraries.
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we have to start running a massive PSA campaign to young gay people so everyone understands there is a difference between being a dom and being a top and between being a sub and being a bottom. and also that sometimes you are neither a sub nor a bottom and you're just like shy. we need to be handing out flyers we need ads at every train station spreading the word
*sigh* here's version 1, where Morcant encounters Legs shortly after the town poisoning. Turns out I couldn't resist TT^TT
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"The man is little more than a foot soldier," the knight says. "His family is of no repute, his rank befitting that, and his education sorely lacking. He cannot recognise his own name in writing, and yet your lordship wants to speak to the man?"
"In a matter of days he destroyed a town you laid siege to for months," Morcant says.
"By my orders."
Oh, Morcant doubts that. The knight has been too comfortable all his silver-spooned life to have need for such creativity. No, what happened at Belsbury took a kind of imagination fuelled by blood-knuckled desperation.
Morcant doesn't really care much for the petty wars of humanity, but he has to admit: it brings so much potential to the surface.
"Are you refusing to grant me an audience with the man?" Morcant asks, perfectly pleasantly.
"No, your lordship. But he's only a peasant."
"And you are but human," Morcant says. The new religion spreading through the kingdom has made such jokes a secret amusement to him. "None of us are without flaw. Now, where is this foot soldier?"
The tent to which he is brought is the knight's own temporary abode, and Morcant is shown into a space of hearthfire and comfort. There is the remains of a generous meal on the oaken table, and hides laid to preserve the warmth from the frostbitten earth.
The only thing truly out of place is the soldier.
"This is the Belsbury poisoner," the officer says. "As you requested. Soldier, show your superior the proper respect."
The commoner drops a bow, moving with a woodenness that belies exhaustion. There is dirt and blood beneath his fingernails, calluses on his palms, and fatigue bruising beneath his eyes. He is young, but there is already something of the wolf in the man; in his eyes is a brightness born from prologued violence.
"Your lordship," he defers.
"Rise," Morcant says. He sits upon a many-furred seat â he may not tire, but he is not immune to comforts â and offers a genial closed-mouthed smile. "I hear we have you to thank for the taking of Belsbury."
The soldier straightens, and common indeed he is. His armour is battered, disjointed and ill-fitting. His right boot is newer than his left, his helm cracked along the jaw, and the leather vambraces too tight about the forearms. There is still blood on the latter from its previous owner.
He is a far cry from the polished and perfect knight whose tent he is littering.
But a polished and perfect knight was not the one to demolish a town.
"I didn't work alone," the soldier says. "There were several of us who took to the town's well that night."
"But the concoction was yours."
"I... Yes."
"Tell me how you did it."
The soldier's gaze flickers to his immediate superior, but the knight, in a rare display of tact, remains silent. "We picked berries from a local tree, ground them into a compound, and waited until the cover of nightâ"
"You misunderstand me," Morcant says. "That is the what. I want to know how you came to your decision."
"Your lordship," the knight interjects. "I fear you expect too much of the man. These peasants are simple souls, built for war and field work. You do not ask an ox why it plows."
Morcant does not growl because your lordships do not snarl. The sudden wave of ire finds its outlet in other ways, as he tilts his head â not enough to look to the knight directly, but marking him as a bear marks a rustling bush â and his voice mellows with dangerous affability. "A simple soul who did what you could not. Continue, soldier."
The soldier hesitates. And then his mind registers the order, as softly-spoken as it was, for what it is and he straightens. "We lay a similar recipe for the rats in my village, your lordship. But it is known to kill children and barn cats who eat it without warning. I had hoped a large enough dose would weaken the town."
"And the well?"
"Everyone has to drink, your lordship."
Morcant nods. "Even the fields must be watered."
There is a different pause in the soldier now. "I didn't realise the poison would take to the land too. I thought..." He swallows. "I just thought it might end the fighting quicker."
"Death does that."
"I didn't think that they would... that the hunger would..."
"They were savages," the knight says, and Morcant dislikes the interruption, but does not wholly begrudge it. "Brutes. No civilised man would sink to such depths. You only brought out their true faces."
The words seem to give some consolation to the soldier, but not dismiss the unease entirely. Morcant will not blame the man for that â after all, the kill of battle is a breed of immediate bloodshed, so different compared to the tooth and claw hunger which has ravaged Belsbury. More than one man had heaved at the stench and sight in taking the town. The weakness is only human.
He observes the soldier.
So many of Morcantâs contemporaries liken humanity to sheep: livestock to be herded and kept, too stupid to be left unattended, but Morcant knows better. Sheep, after all, do not build their own enclosures, or the houses in which their keepers sleep. Shepherds are not raised from the flock.
No, humanity is creative, and to that measure dangerous. Already, the tools of war are changing, and this soldier â this commoner with nothing more than a will to live and a curiosity despite the limits of his birth â proves that. Give them time, and humanity will outstrip Morcantâs kind through sheer violence between their kin. Give them time, and a vampireâs speed and claws will become as primative as the spears the mortals once wielded.
Give them time, and immortals will find that title comes with a caveat.
No, humanity is worth watching.
This human is worth watching.
He rises back to his feet, and the air shifts as both mortals brace for his verdict, but Morcant has found all he was looking for. "I believe we are done here. Good work, soldier."
The soldier exhales â relief and pride mingling in the sound â but some tension still remains. It is only as Morcant is reaching the tent curtain, that he breaks his reserve. "Your lordship," he calls out. "Were there any survivors?"
"None that couldn't be dispatched easily," Morcant says. "Your method was remarkably efficient, soldier."
"There were children there."
"Even children need to drink."
Morcant will not begrudge the mortal his compassion. Even in war â perhaps, especially in war â humans are a social species, forging bonds which can only ever end in a severing. The clear-eyed ruthlessness which guided his hand to the well's edge is a young thing, a potential which naturally unsettles its mortal owner. The soldier, with all its inherent foibles, is only human, after all.
Did you just legitimately tell me that a person who draws wolf ass is more competent than a dude who spent 8+ years in a university to give you your lung transplant?
doctors are bullshit and furry artists perform an infinitely more valuable service to society compared to them
It took doctorâs like 10 years to diagnose what was wrong with me, some insisting I was faking for attention while a furry artist I knew just went âthat sounds like crohnâsâ after hearing me complain once and ended up being right
Also I canât go to a doctor and ask them to draw Rouge the Bat wider than she is tall with tits to match, now can I
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so i have finished a psychological thriller novel, and have begun the process of doing research so i can prepare to query agents. now, my novel has some pretty intense triggers in it, so i am aware itâs a bit of a hard sellâ that being said, many agents have a âdo not send me your novel if it has these thingsâ list, so thatâs what Iâm looking for so i donât accidentally trigger someone.
so iâm going down this list, and i find this agent. their âdo not send meâ list includes the following: non-consent/sexual violence, age gaps, teacher/student relationships, stalkers, cheating, everyone dies at the end, miscarriage/pregnancy, and abuse masked as love.
okay, cool! everyone has different tolerances for stuff, and itâs perfectly reasonable to not want to be involved with a story that has stuff youâre uncomfortable with. not the agent for me, but good on them for defining their boundaries.
but then i scroll back up and theyâre requesting for gothic horror.
excuse me?????????
gothic horror without pregnancy or miscarriage? gothic horror without cheating? without stalking? gothic horror without major character deaths? GOTHIC HORROR WITHOUT ABUSE BEING FRAMED AS LOVE AND THE INTERROGATION OF THAT DYNAMIC?????