Studies show that approaching youth with a bystander-intervention model is actually a lot more effective for reducing sexual assault, and it is also more enthusiastically received than programs that bill themselves as anti-rape.
We can tell youth that they are basicallyΒ βrapists waiting to happenβ (anti-rape initiative), or we can tell them that we know they would intervene if they saw harm happening to someone and we want to help empower them to do that (bystander intervention). The kids jump in with both feet for the latter! It was amazing to see children (and young boys in particular) excited to do this work and engage their creativity with it. Also, studies show that not only do they go on to intervene, but they also do not go on to sexually assault people themselves. Bystander intervention also takes the onus off the person being targeted to deter rape and empowers the collective to do something about it. It answers the question in the room when giggling boys are carrying an unconscious young woman up the stairs at a house party, and people are not sure how to respond and are waiting forΒ βsomeoneβ to say or do something.
Richard M. Wright,Β βRehearsing Consent Culture: Revolutionary Playtimeβ in the anthologyΒ Ask: Building ConsentΒ Culture edited by Kitty Stryker
This is also, btw, how the US drastically reduced drunk driving in the US. Telling people they shouldnβt drive when intoxicated made absolutely zero difference. A slogan-and-ad-campaign for βFriends donβt let friends drive drunk!β changed drinking culture. Going after the bystanders is quite often the most effective thing to do in any social change.
